Yeng

[xayengx]

Gusto Kita

Gusto kita, hindi bilang biro, kundi sa paraan na tahimik pero totoo. Yung tipong sapat na sa akin ang makita ka, kahit sa malayo, kahit saglit lang, sapat na.

Hindi ko alam kung anong meron sa'yo, pero bawat ngiti mo, parang may bagyong buo. Gusto kitang piliin sa araw araw, kahit hindi sigurado kung pipiliin mo rin ako.

Hindi ako nagmamadali, hindi rin nag aabang, nandito lang, marunong umunawa, marunong magmahal. Kung sakaling tanungin ng tadhana ang puso ko, ikaw ang sagot, paulit ulit, kahit masakit minsan.

Kaya sasabihin ko na, kahit nanginginig ang tinig, gusto kita, at hindi ko iyon ikakaila kahit sandali. Kung may pag asa man na maging tayo balang araw, panghahawakan ko iyon, hanggang sa dumating o tuluyang mawala..

#UnsaidThoughts

#UnspokenWords

[xayengx]

Silence Destroys Relationships

When you keep assuming instead of asking, when you choose silence over honesty, when pride speaks louder than love connection slowly fades.

Love isn’t just about feelings; it’s about understanding each other through words.

No matter how strong your love is, if you stop communicating, the connection dies.

Talk it out before it tears you apart.

[wordx]

[xayengx]

If someone is obsessed with you, overloves you, or overcares for you, they may be trying to give you the love they never received. If someone texts you frequently, checks in constantly, and seems a bit obsessed, they may not be trying to burden you; they may be trying to give you the importance they never felt. Don't belittle them for loving you. Remember, they are showing you the love they wish someone had shown them.

[leonardospoetry]

Some chapters of life don’t actually have an apparent ending. They just fade away silently.

It’s a strange feeling to look back at the past sometimes and see how some parts of life have simply dissolved into nothingness. And even though this poem might sound sad, I believe that being mindful of the transience of life actually helps us to feel all the preciousness and beauty of it.

[xayengx]

Let me share my thoughts regarding No label relationship.

Consequences:

It steals your peace.

It is a prerequisite to ghosting.

You”ll have an unexpressed jealousy.

You suddenly become a stalker of his/her close friends, likers and reactors.

Denial of feelings will eventually become a series of regrets.

Time invested will eventually become time wasted even if you justify it.

You don’t know if you’re the only one.

You’d feel that you’re not the only one.

You won’t know if you’re the only one.

It will magnify your trust issues.

It will reveal your insecurities.

If you left your heart unguarded, you’ll lose yourself.

Assumption will be your breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

You’ll be deeply wounded fighting the wrong battle.

Pain is inevitable.

Benefits:

NONE

unless…

You put a label on it.

You may agree or disagree on the list above. You may add something that you experience before or experiencing now. But in case you caught yourself in the middle of a No Label Relationship, maybe you can pause and think if the relationship honors you and values you as an individual.

[hrudayara-ei-sunyata]

The blue zodiac sign of the sea which created such illusion of your eyes.

A lot of things were written while watching him.

The depth of the sea is nothing compared to the depth of your eyes.

The brightness of the water in the sunlight is no less than the brightness in your eyes when you look at me.

When the wave of you was drawn like your mistake,

The look of your eyes pulled my eyes towards you.

As deep as the ocean, my love ran deep for you.

The sound of the ocean is not more attractive than the sound of your voice calling out my name. With so much love..

Seeing the setting sun my mind again returned from the state of thoughts in the noise of people.

When i look back at you, my thoughts are that the remaining colors of your painting on the canvas were completed.

The moon in the horizon of the sky is not more mesmerizing than your moon-faced face.

It is not even a lie that the magic of your words tied me to you.

Yes, those stolen glances have caught my heart. And your name is attached to all my mind.

[n-ehpamoi]

I think beauty is not

what you see, or hear, or the things put upon you,

but,

what those things make you feel --

Like the calm in your soul as you gaze over the imposing and snow-capped morning mountains,

or the soothing in your heart as you close your eyes and listen to the thick churn of crashing waves, combining with the rapturous sounds of looming thunder --

the sights and the sounds are pretty, yes --

but I call them beautiful not for what they are, but how they make me feel --

so know that when I speak on how I look at the moon, feel so calm and so safe and so warm, under her gaze --

that there's a reason I've come to call you Moonlight --

because to me, your beauty feels just like hers --

like a glow I'd never want to be without --

V. Rue, 2025.

[thoughtcascades]

some nights feel like unfinished conversations with the universe

[thebluewaitingroom]

march starts without warning the panic alarm in my head starts sounding i want to continue to ride the february high but the seasons don't wait for me. 02/03/25 march

[mindinthevoid]

Cultivate Self-Awareness Understand your emotional state and how it affects your thoughts and actions.

Observe and Label Your Emotions Recognize and name your emotions to gain control over them.

Understand Your Emotional Triggers Identify the situations or behaviors that provoke strong emotional responses.

Monitor Your Behavioral Patterns Notice how your emotions influence your actions and reactions.

Embrace Your Emotions Without Judgment Accept your feelings without labeling them as good or bad.

Be Receptive to Constructive Feedback Listen to others' feedback, especially when it helps you grow emotionally.

Master Deep Breathing Techniques Use deep breathing to calm yourself when emotions get overwhelming.

Harness Your Emotions for Positive Outcomes Use your emotions to motivate, inspire, or solve problems rather than letting them control you.

Express Yourself Assertively and Respectfully Share your feelings clearly and confidently, while respecting others.

Shift Your Emotional State Intentionally Learn how to change your emotional state when needed.

Decode Nonverbal Communication Pay attention to body language and tone to understand others’ feelings.

Practice Active Listening Truly listen to others without planning your response while they speak.

Cultivate Empathy Try to understand and share the feelings of others, creating stronger bonds.

Challenge Negative Personalization Don’t take things personally; sometimes it's not about you.

Be Flexible in Your Emotional Responses Adapt your emotional reactions to fit the situation, avoiding rigidity.

Choose to Respond, Not React Take a moment to think before reacting emotionally to situations.

Use Your Mental Pause Button Pause to regain composure before you react when feeling overwhelmed.

Take Responsibility for Your Feelings and Actions Own your emotions and their effects on others, without blame.

Cultivate a Positive, Solution-Oriented Mindset Focus on solutions rather than problems to maintain emotional balance.

Seek Resolution in Conflicts Approach conflict with a goal of understanding and resolution, not winning.

[xayengx]

Law 48 : ASSUME. FORMLESSNESS

By talking a shape, by having a visible plan, you open yourself to attack. Instead of taking a form for your enemy to grasp, keep yourself adaptable and on the move. Accept the fact that nothing is certain and no law is fixed. The best way to protect yourself is to be as fluid and formless as water; never bet on stabifity or lasting urder. Everything changes.

[xayengx]

[xayengx]

A woman’s detachment doesn’t always start with distance or silence. Sometimes, it starts in the middle of a conversation—mid-sentence—when she realizes she’s said this exact thing before. Multiple times. In different ways. With different tones. Calmly. Then emotionally. Then quietly. Then in frustration. And still… nothing changed.

Detachment begins when her hope starts to run dry. When she’s no longer angry, just tired. When she stops checking your tone, stops caring about your replies, stops holding on to the idea that maybe this time, you’ll finally understand her.

She begged in her own way. Through her loyalty. Through the way she kept choosing you despite how unseen she felt. Through her late-night overthinking sessions where she tried to figure out how to say it better, how to express it softer, how to fix something she didn’t even break.

But after a while, that energy dies out. Because no woman can continue pouring from an empty cup. And when she finally realizes that nothing she says will make a difference, she stops speaking altogether.

That’s the moment most men notice. When she’s no longer asking where you’ve been. No longer reminding you what she needs. No longer repeating the same conversations. That silence? It’s not peace—it’s detachment. It’s the sound of a woman slowly reclaiming her power.

By the time you realize she’s “changed,” she’s just finally stopped exhausting herself for someone who made comfort out of her discomfort.

So if a woman is still talking to you, still expressing her needs, still repeating herself—it means she still believes in you. Don’t let her go quiet. Don’t let her give up. Because once she detaches, she’s already halfway gone.

[xayengx]

"Your kindness also needs boundaries."

[xayengx]

"Sometimes you have to forget what you feel and remember what you deserve."

[xayengx]

Important things to remember when you are married or in a serious relationship:

Don’t ever assume your partner feels loved.

Date nights are a must.

Doesn’t matter if you go out, or stay in.

Talking openly about what you want to change in your relationship is important.

Learn each others love language.

We all don’t perceive love the same way.

Go to bed mad sometimes.

Don’t force a resolution.

Sleeping on it does help.

When you get into a fight, don’t just say “I’m sorry”. Say what you are sorry for, and how you will react differently next time.

It will get boring sometimes.

Every couple goes through the “boring” stage.

It’s normal.

It will fade.

This is the time in your relationship you will have to put the most effort in.

Some days you will have to pull more weight than your partner, and vice versa.

It’s important to check in on each other’s mental health.

It’s okay to go to couples counselling.

It helps.

It doesn’t mean you two are ending, or failing.

Talk about money.

Talk about your financial goals.

Let your partner know what you expect from them, and vice versa.

Turn off the phones an hour before bedtime and just talk to each other.

Ask questions like

“What do you need to see more of from me?”

“How can we understand each other better?”

And most importantly, be kind to each other.

Love each other.

Fight for each other.

Remember, love is never easy, and it’s one hell of a ride.

But damn, is it ever beautiful, and worth it