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Shot in the dark, but maybe itâs because no one cares?
âIf you canât be feminine what else do you have to offerâ lmao ladies I told you that not conforming to gender stereotypes or expectations literally pushes all the creeps, misogynists and hypocrites away
I've just discovered of "Revolians" and now I understand the dislike for cishet gnc people.
The problem isn't that there are cishet people who are gnc. The problem is that they are being homophobic af about it.
Like, I don't care how you dress, but please be respectful of the fact that gender non-conformity has been something strictly linked to homosexuality and bisexuality for ages and that, if you're mistook for a lesbian or a gay man or even a trans person, being homophobic/transphobic as a response isn't exactly progressive.
I do understand that you're annoyed about this, but don't think that straight passing LGBT people are any less annoyed by the continuous assumptions about their sexualities and gender.
So if you don't like being hit on by a lesbian for your short haircut, remember that out there femme lesbians exist and that they are being hit on by men and whilst you can oppress a lesbian with your lesbophobia and by outing her to a homophobic environment, lesbians who have to deal with entitled men have to face misogyny and lesbophobia and really can't defend themselves.
IF YOU'RE A CISHET YOU CAN'T BE OPPRESSED BY LGBT PEOPLE.
Revolians have always brought up the fact that gender conforming gay people exist and that people assume that they are straight because of that. All that we are saying is donât assume somebodyâs sexuality by the way they look, which does include gay people being gender conforming. I donât see where the homophobia is, it is literally donât be so close minded to assume peopleâs sexual orientation by their conformity or nonconformity to gender stereotypes
Lmao revolians: uh yeah Iâm not gay Iâm just gender nonconforming
You: homophobia!! Whatâs wrong with being gay??
This is how yâall look đ¤Ąđ¤Ą
You know what's wrong with all of this?
The way you all look disgusted when someone assumes you're gay.
And the fact that you're calling me a clown for "what's wrong with being gay?" is very telling.
If only I could act like that when cishet men hit on me because they think I'm straight... :)
Why are you so disgusted when someone assumes youâre straight tho??
Or maybe itâs just that you donât want people to think youâre something youâre not because you feel like it invalidates your identity or sexuality or experiences? Hmm?
Iâm calling you a clown because you think that straight people should not correct people when theyâve wrongfully assumed their sexuality, because that makes them âhomophobicâ and like they have something against gay people.
And what is up with these generalizations? Most revolians I know on the internet spend a lot of time around their gay friends, even though many people could assume theyâre gay for that, but you know what? They just donât care. Because in real life, it isnât as black and white as you make it on the internet.
And you can act however you want around straight cis men, in fact, if a guy ever assumes that youâre straight, I encourage you to tell him just how wrong he is. That being said, I also believe that if someone wrongfully assumes that someone is gay, that someone should correct them because there is no point in misleading people :)
I've just discovered of "Revolians" and now I understand the dislike for cishet gnc people.
The problem isn't that there are cishet people who are gnc. The problem is that they are being homophobic af about it.
Like, I don't care how you dress, but please be respectful of the fact that gender non-conformity has been something strictly linked to homosexuality and bisexuality for ages and that, if you're mistook for a lesbian or a gay man or even a trans person, being homophobic/transphobic as a response isn't exactly progressive.
I do understand that you're annoyed about this, but don't think that straight passing LGBT people are any less annoyed by the continuous assumptions about their sexualities and gender.
So if you don't like being hit on by a lesbian for your short haircut, remember that out there femme lesbians exist and that they are being hit on by men and whilst you can oppress a lesbian with your lesbophobia and by outing her to a homophobic environment, lesbians who have to deal with entitled men have to face misogyny and lesbophobia and really can't defend themselves.
IF YOU'RE A CISHET YOU CAN'T BE OPPRESSED BY LGBT PEOPLE.
Revolians have always brought up the fact that gender conforming gay people exist and that people assume that they are straight because of that. All that we are saying is donât assume somebodyâs sexuality by the way they look, which does include gay people being gender conforming. I donât see where the homophobia is, it is literally donât be so close minded to assume peopleâs sexual orientation by their conformity or nonconformity to gender stereotypes
Lmao revolians: uh yeah Iâm not gay Iâm just gender nonconforming
You: homophobia!! Whatâs wrong with being gay??
This is how yâall look đ¤Ąđ¤Ą
your lame wedding ring:
my epic wedding gauntlet:
This is how revolians get engaged
Some tumblr user which Iâm not going to name because I genuinely feel sorry for her, recently stained the name of Revolianism by calling us terfs, and then she said we have a âpride flagâ, even though that is impossible because we are not LGBT in any way shape or form and donât want to intrude either, we just have a flag to show positivity for us, which she decided to hate on, and on top of that, she said that only girls are revolians đ (just so you have an idea about how informed she really is). Thoughts and prayers đđđť
P.S if you canât see her post itâs because she blocked pretty much anyone who ever posted in ârevolianâ or ârevolianismâ hashtags because she didnât want us to be able to defend ourselves. A real brave legend.
She blocked me too đ Iâd like to dedicate this award to everyone who ever supported me and I promise there is more to come! Thank you! đĽ°
Menâs standards in women: Iâll only date a girl with nice shapes who shaves all her body hair but NOT the hair on her head, no, that one better be long, and who wears some degree of makeup, has big plump lips and a small nose and dresses with nice feminine clothing and wears lingerie.
Womenâs standards in men: Iâd be really nice if he respected me and wasnât a serial killer
Women's standard in men: has to over six foot, have a beard, good job, pay for all my shit, give up any hobbies I don't like, handsome face, own a house, new car, college degree.
Men's standard in women: don't be obese.
And I don't give a shit about how you personally don't see that, they've done the studies.
Both of these are bullshit and this is why both of you are virgins.
Lol,
"standards exists"
You:What kinda socerery is this? Why does my cunt feel like it's laced with diesel?
Durkin, darling, you've been like this for six years.
It's time for you to grow up a little, even if it's a millimeter.
Still getting laid, enough to get married. Cry mad Bout it diesel cunt.
The fact that something like this manages to get laid PROVES that not only women donât expect men to be handsome, but they also donât demand that their personalities are decent!!
Itâs worse than I thought! Someone study this case too please, give OP more sources đ
Menâs standards in women: Iâll only date a girl with nice shapes who shaves all her body hair but NOT the hair on her head, no, that one better be long, and who wears some degree of makeup, has big plump lips and a small nose and dresses with nice feminine clothing and wears lingerie.
Womenâs standards in men: Iâd be really nice if he respected me and wasnât a serial killer
Women's standard in men: has to over six foot, have a beard, good job, pay for all my shit, give up any hobbies I don't like, handsome face, own a house, new car, college degree.
Men's standard in women: don't be obese.
And I don't give a shit about how you personally don't see that, they've done the studies.
okcupid posted a statistic of women and men rating each other and women just rates men low most of the time, while men have a balanced outlook on women
If men spent hundreds of dollars on doing their (long hair) at hair salons, spent a lot of money on makeup and shaving products and clothes, then they would be rated just like women are. But I assure that when a woman looks the way an average man looks, she is called ugly and lazy. Thatâs because a woman being perceived as masculine somehow makes her be perceived as unattractive and guys donât like that, so she would be rated low too
You have absolutely no idea how straight men thinks, so you have no right to speak on their behalf. Men and women have spoken; women rate men low generally, while men have a healthy standards towards women.
As I said, it would be insane if women rated men who did nothing to look special like men rated women who spend so much money and time to look good. That being said, just because on dating sites (which do focus only on appearance, at least at first) women rated men lower (which logically speaking, makes sense if those men didnât do anything to look good), that doesnât mean that in real life women care so much about looks. There have been studies made to prove that women care about personality more than men do.
Research findings on male and female sex drive and arousal help explain why drug companies, like Pfizer, have struggled to develop female Vi
This link talks about studies made about menâs more visual nature. Itâs not just me noticing it, others have too and even studied it
It bothered me why you keep bringing up how men look compared to women, then I realized youâre implying that women are vain. Not only women care more about looks, because dating sites focuses on appearance and they rate men low for their looks, women also need to be pampered more than men. Got it.
How on earth would men be rated high for their looks if they donât put in any effort? You call women vain for demanding a man puts in at least as much effort as them in the way they look? But anyway if your theory was real, there wouldnât be so many average man-beautiful women couples. But there are. The reverse never really happens. But by all means, when you spot a long haired dude who wears makeup and shaves all his body hair and has no facial hair, dating a short haired, hairy girl who wears no makeup tell me. Until then, you will keep seeing the opposite version everyday and those types of women I described will still be considered ugly by dudes
Men do put effort in their looks. Women are just more vain. Majority of couples are usually naturally hot men and average women. You just think women are beautiful because of make-up. Even an egg can look like a âhotâ woman with it, but you canât make an egg to look like an attractive man. Make-up and plastic surgery is popular among women because the majority of women are ugly. Thatâs why the make-up and fashion industry is booming and women buy their product. Women and gay men see women as who they are, while straight men are born with a part of their brain bigger, because thatâs how much grey matter it takes to like women.
https://science.sciencemag.org/content/253/5023/1034.long
Men gotta be smarter to be able to bang you fucking ogre looking thots LMAO
Oh youâre a bunch of misogynists. It all makes sense now lmao
DUDE THEYâRE LIKE âMEN HAVE TO TRY HARD IN ORDER TO FIND WOMEN ATTRACTIVEâ LMAO THEN LEAVE US ALONE PLEASE
Menâs standards in women: Iâll only date a girl with nice shapes who shaves all her body hair but NOT the hair on her head, no, that one better be long, and who wears some degree of makeup, has big plump lips and a small nose and dresses with nice feminine clothing and wears lingerie.
Womenâs standards in men: Iâd be really nice if he respected me and wasnât a serial killer
Women's standard in men: has to over six foot, have a beard, good job, pay for all my shit, give up any hobbies I don't like, handsome face, own a house, new car, college degree.
Men's standard in women: don't be obese.
And I don't give a shit about how you personally don't see that, they've done the studies.
Again, I donât like tall guys, I donât like beards, Iâm not a gold digger and I donât care about what men own.
Theyâve also done studies to claim that men prefer long hair on women so whatâs your point? You probably feel so angry cause you feel targeted, otherwise if you knew this wasnât true you wouldnât even bother. But youâre so pressed about it, itâs actually funny. You canât force me to believe what you want me to believe, cause my lived experience will always be stronger than a random angry dude on tumblr
Did you not read the last sentence? I literally said I do not care about what you personally say you're into. We have the stats.Â
The entire fucking point is that youâre a liar. You pretend its only your sex has a set of standards to adhere to. Its objectively a lie, you just only care when its about you.Â
What âstatsâ are you talking about? Youâve provided nothing so far. Youâre a liar who bases his inexistent argument on some âstatsâ he pulled out of nowhere.
And I donât give a f*ck about your imaginary stats either because youâre talking to ME now and if I said I donât like that, you canât come at me with the âwomen like thatâ bulls*it since you donât like it when I do it to men either. Hypocrite.
https://research.vu.nl/en/publications/women-want-taller-men-more-than-men-want-shorter-women
http://isiarticles.com/bundles/Article/pre/pdf/36319.pdf
https://phys.org/news/2019-08-women-tinder-highly-men.html
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/19302732
https://akademiai.com/doi/abs/10.1556/JEP.12.2014.1.1
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0146167207303022
You provided absolutely fuck all to back up anything you said, yet wanna bitch when people do the same thing to you. Everything you said is objectively a lie. And I never even said I donât like it when people do it to men, Iâm not some stuck up cunt who thinks everybody has to drop all their standards just because I donât like it. I have explicitly stated several times the issue is you only see one side of the picture. When it comes to standards applied to women, you think you get to generalize the entire male population. But when it comes to men, you suddenly think its only what you prefer that matters. Because youâre a lying hypocrite who gets off on their victim complex.Â
I have my own sources, smartass.
https://www.google.ro/amp/s/rnbphilly.com/121411/poll-do-men-prefer-woman-with-long-hair-over-short-hair/amp/
https://www.google.ro/amp/s/www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1332709/amp/Men-drawn-womans-lips-facial-feature.html
https://www.google.ro/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/science/brain-flapping/2016/mar/23/men-women-less-makeup-bad-research
https://medium.com/@whitneyvmorgan/why-feminine-energy-is-kryptonite-for-men-a277ec182232
https://www.marieclaire.co.uk/news/men-prefer-women-to-wear-makeup-survey-says-144227
https://scholar.google.com/scholar?start=30&q=men+like+hairless+bodies&hl=ro&as_sdt=0,5#d=gs_qabs&u=%23p%3DiXKEadwV54sJ
Google Academic
A new survey reveals the majority of men prefer their partner to wear makeup
And about womenâs so called universal standards:
https://www.google.ro/amp/s/www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/do-women-date-short-men-fancy-match-study-dating-height-dad-bod-brunette-blonde-a7935766.html%3famp
https://www.google.ro/amp/s/www.livescience.com/amp/25079-females-prefer-thin-over-macho.html
https://www.elitedaily.com/dating/3-reasons-looks-dont-matter/979150
https://www.google.ro/amp/s/www.cnbc.com/amp/2019/11/20/study-men-get-more-stressed-when-their-wives-make-more-money.html since âall women want richer guysâ
Here you go, since you wanna act all clueless about what Iâm saying.
A new study on 6,000 American heterosexual couples found that men felt the least stressed when their women partners were contributing 40% to
Guys looking to meet women often ask the question, "Do looks matter?"Â Well, to put it nicely, no. They donât matter much, if at all, for wom
Ladies Prefer Thin Over Macho, Study Suggests
But do the majority of women really love short men with 'dad-bods'? Really?
This topic has always intrigued me. Men tend to like soft, feminine women. And women are often drawn to a bit more rough, Alpha-male typedâŚ
Apparently, studies have shown that men prefer it if women wear less makeup. But is this actually true? And why should women care anyway?
If you want to catch a manâs attention, donât bother fluttering your eyelashes or flicking your hair. Just practise your pout. A woman's lip
Poll results have been interestingâŚcheck it out!
Since tumblr wonât allow me to add one more to the list for some reason, here is this one too
https://www.google.ro/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/news/2004/apr/22/thisweekssciencequestions.evolution
Thank evolution. Being reliable, honest and useful can work wonders to overrule an ugly mug.
Iâm so saving these articles, gurl you literally crushed him
Itâs so âfascinatingâ to me how some macho men tell us that we look like men in attempt to insult us. Itâs like...they are aware of how unattractive they themselves are, and try to project that onto women who donât conform to traditional femininity.
Donât like us? Stay away and shut up, but donât imply weâre unattractive and âno man would ever want to date usâ just because youâre attracted to hyper feminized versions of women and we donât give you that.
They try to tell us no man will find us attractive but they know, they literally know they look bad and try to project it onto us because we have short hair and wear flannels...?
Like Iâm still beautiful but what happen to you honey? đ something went wrong
Teddy girls started gaining attention in the 1950s, having their style characterized as ârebelliousâ, they broke all the dress codes which were much stricter in their days. This is revolian culture.
They had no problem having short hair, even though that was seen as even more outrageous back then. Absolute legends.
Teddy girls are the early revolian girls. Guys we literally have a historical ancestry!!!
Cis heterosexual women can:
Wear binders
Be muscular
Shop from menâs department
Have very short hair
Wear menâs accessories
Not shave
Stop telling straight girls they have to fit into this ideal femininity mold. Respect the existence of revolians.
every now and then my boyfriend will wear a skirt and sometimes makeup for a party or something and because of this my 16 year old sister asked me if he identified as nonbinary. how are we supposed to get past gender stereotypes if every time someone doesnt conform to them they have to renounce their sex? let men wear skirts and women wear suits and whatever the fuck else without saying they arent men and women like how do these people not see how regressive and sexist this kind of thinking is :(
Hey! Feminists.
Stop forcefully femininity young boys. Demonizing their masculinity, shit of that sort.
My friend, letâs say Emily, has an older sister. Her older sister has a son, gave birth to a boy. However, since birth sheâs been calling him a girl, making him grow his hair out, and forcing him into dresses. The child is five now, and even though he wants to play with âboys toysâ and dress in male clothing, his mother still insists heâs a girl. The boys in his class taught him that girls and boys have different privates, and that he is biologically a boy. And the kid wants to be a boy!
Forcefully feminizing boys is not okay. Let them be themselves. Sure, teach them right from wrong but donât outright tell them they canât do things boys typically do. Let them rough house, within reason, things like that.
Feminine boys are a thing and deserve respect as well but damn. This is getting ridiculous. Some boys DONT cry because they donât feel the need to. Some boys DONT wear makeup, some DONT want to play with dolls, sole DONT want to wear pink, and that is okay!!â
Itâs wild you spend so much time writing a post about how men shouldnât be forced into femininity but NEVER once mention how women are always forced into femininity since theyâre young. Little girls everywhere are forced into dresses from the beginning, parents make them grow their hair out, make them play with dolls, experience with âmommyâs makeupâ etc.
Iâm not saying this woman calling her son a girl is okay in any way, shape or form- itâs all sorts of wrong, but your perpetuation of gender stereotypes is not exactly okay either . Saying that a boy growing his hair out is comparable to a girl is insane. If I ever have a son you can bet Iâm gonna let him grow his hair out, because I canât stand the thought of butchering my male childâs hair just so he can fit in with the stereotypical view of masculinity. That doesnât mean I want him to be a girl though.
And I never thought Iâd live the day when someone says âsome boys donât wear makeup/wear pink/cry and thatâs okayâ like... the problem is that people canât accept boys wearing pink/makeup/crying etc. Our society literally believes that boys MUSTNâT have to wear makeup and pink and cry like...?
We live in a society where it is seen as more normal for a man to transition to being a woman and claim heâs a lesbian afterwards, than for him to be a gender nonconforming heterosexual man. Itâs as if the ladder is something impossible and never heard of.
Thatâs what our society is like. Progress is made for everyone, except straight people who have been stuck in the same gender stereotypes chains since 7000 B.C and everyone is reluctant to even speak up about this.
Hello, hereâs your daily friendly reminder that:
Women donât have to look good for men
Looks (hair length, clothes, makeup or the lack of makeup) donât indicate somebodyâs sexuality; revolians exist.
Sexual objectification of both men and women in the media affects peopleâs self esteem and mental health
Liking âmasculineâ women is not the same thing as liking men, and liking âfeminineâ men is not the same thing as liking women.
You donât have to force yourself to be someone youâre not just because you would fit in better with the rest.
Current gender stereotypes and gender roles are at the basis of the inequality between men and women, and have been so since they were established.
Biology and social constructs are two separate things.
I hate to see these sorts of posts. The âglow upâ kind of posts where they glorify women transforming themselves in some plastic looking dolls to show that âthere is hopeâ for every (natural) looking woman. This isnât okay. This should not be accepted- youâre implying that natural women (who donât wax, dye their hair and wear makeup and contact lenses) are ugly.
Women are forced to live up to this impossible and absurd standards EVERY SINGLE DAY of their lives yet MEN are allowed to exist with unshaved faces, short hair, no makeup or dyed hair or contact lenses at all.
This just goes to show how sexist our society still is- women who donât perform these social constructs are called out and told that they need to perfect themselves in order to cater to the average guyâs desires. And before you tell me âitâs her choiceâ- look at the picture from before she was younger- before she got socialized to look a certain way- she seemed happy enough- that until she learns what you need to do to fit in and look âbeautifulâ.