Becoming the best version of yourself
Every decision you make either moves you closer to becoming her or further away. And the beautiful thing is that you get to choose who you're becoming every single dayy <33
Visualization: see her before you become her
Close your eyes,
Where does she live? How does she dress? What hobbies would she have? What kind of people would she surround herself with? How does she carry herself? How does she react to situations?
The clearer and more specific you imagine, the easier it is to start making those decisions that align with her!!
Affirmations: nothing with the actions
Repeat lines to yourself,
"I'm desired" "I'm the best version of myself" "I invite the best opportunities for myself" "I have an open heart and attract all the best things towards me"
.... these are just some examples, make them up as you go and as specific as you'd like!!
Keep a positive mindset, my luvvss <33
They aren't just affirmations - if your actions don't support those beliefs, your brain may struggle to believe them
I find mirror work works for me
Eventually, those thoughts stop feeling like affirmations but help you find steps for it to become your identity!!
Your Self-Concept Shapes Everything
If you constantly think, "I'm lazy", "I'm awkward", "I'm never chosen", "Nothing really works out for me"
Your brain will keep finding ways to prove that all those things are true about you
But imagine replacing those thoughts with these... <3 "I'm someone who always figures things out" "I'm becoming more confident each day" "I keep my promises to myself" Eventually, those thoughts will be about your brain see you!!
These become your identity ... and that identity again influences every choice you make xoxo
Growth Mindset: you are a human
One thing I've learned is that growth isn't supposed to look glamorous all the time
Sometimes it takes
starting over making mistakes being uncomfortable
If every version of yourself that you've admired had to begin somewhere,
Instead of asking and hurting your potential by saying things like "What if I fail?"
-- try asking...
"What if this is exactly what helps me grow??"
The people who achieve the most aren't the ones who never struggle, cuz thats honestly unrealistic; they're the ones who decide that every setback is a lesson instead of feeling like they lack something.
The Girl You're Dreaming of Already Exists
She's not waiting for a specific date
She's not waiting for the new year
She's not waiting until what she thinks is the right moment!!!
She starts with every choice you make
One healthy meal... one workout... would chapter... one difficult conversation... one promise kept <333
You don't become her overnight, she grows from you with every decision at a time.
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Hope you liked this my luv <33, lemme know if you like things like thisss
Byee for noww xoxoxo
