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So many angel numbers are showing up right now. Repeating sequences carry different messages. Numerology patterns can have specific unique meanings to each person. 555 divine changes, 222 everything is working out as planed, 111 frequency upgrades, 999 closing chapters.
I refuse to live a mediocre life 💋
Atlanta Predator Alert
Ladies in Atlanta and surrounding areas!!!
His name is Alex Roig! He lives in Buckhead, owns a weight loss clinic and frequents a lot of high end places. This man is NOT an SD. He preys on naive girls, offers them $200 per meet for overnights. Films them on his Snapchat doing all sorts of despicable things. He’s a drug user (coke et al) and pressures girls to do the same and FILMS them doing it. And I’ve been told even ropes girls into threesomes.
Ladies please be smart enough not to fall prey to men like this. Know that you are worth more than $200 and the man who recognizes your worth is coming very soon.
Never act new to this lifestyle or to luxury! Dinner at a fancy restaurant doesn’t equate to generous! Familiarize yourself with expensive things even if you don’t have it yet. Walk around Neiman Marcus and Saks, know what is in there. Know their prices
Know when a man is manipulating you, follow your instincts and please please please I repeat know your worth.
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1, 2, 3 Strikes! You're Out!
I've been thinking about the kind of experience I want to get out of sugaring. I know what some of you are thinking, “Yeah we all want a GREAT experience, duh heaux." Yet, I still see a lot of ladies down in the dumps from dealing with their sugar daddies. Unless he's the billionaire whale daddy of my dreams who has a rock on my finger, I don't ever want to experience a second of sadness, anger, or angst over these men.
DISCLAIMER: I'm claiming sugaring as purely a recreational activity for me. I will be fortunate enough to be financially stable so that I am able to be more discerning with SDs to keep the experience most excellent. Read: I'm not sugaring out of financial need, so I will not be following some of the sugaring out of financial need rules. Ex: Stop being so bothered your sugar daddys hygiene sucks, get your stacks then go take a bath. - Not I. No ma'am 😂
DISCLAIMER 2: Not knocking any baby who has to sugar out of financial need and have to deal with a stanking ass/otherwise vile SD, do you until you can level up boo.
Anyway,
I think to keep SDs from sapping my vibe I'll employ a 3 Strike Policy.
The aim of the 3SP is to keep salty or rude daddies tf away from me/train a decent SD into an excellent SD.
If anyone were to adopt this approach your strike policy can literally be whatever suits YOU best.
My Strike Policy
Strike 1 - Doesn't bring a gift/brings a poor quality gift on the first date.
Before y'all go in on me remember, didn't men use to bring flowers and candy on a first date? What happened to that?
So yes I'll be, "Asking for a gift that expresses the depth of your interest in me." The gift is to show what he thinks of you. The strike is for if the gift is insulting to you.
First strikes no matter what are not to be forgiven or erased. This strike strongly encourages the remembrance of your worth.
No Gift = Cheap/Doesn't Value You. No inbetween, no excuses.
Poor Quality Gift = Disrespect/Thoughtless. No inbetween, no excuses.
Good Quality+ Gift = Serious/Valued/Money/Trainable.
Strike 2 - This strike can be anything. He didn't pay you on time? Didn't pay the full amount? Lack luster date? Spoke to you recklessly? Anything.
Strike two is a training zone. It's a training zone because it is when you train him that his words/actions have consequences and train yourself to abide by your own set standards.
Strike 2 costs money to get it expunged. An apology deposit or gift should be received within a week (a week is my time limit, maybe yours is 3 days, a month, whatever date he tells you to hold off until). If the apology does not come on time... HE. IS. NOT. THE. ONE. FOR. ME.
Personally, I'd employ Strike 2 only through the phone/in text after the event took place, maybe you want to do it face to face.
Last thing, now I'm not saying every single little thing that irks your nerves is a strike that warrants a gift. This is for offenses against your arrangement and offenses against you as a person this isn't for if he texts you all day, this is for if he is constantly accusing you if shit via text all day. This isn't because he left you on read for several days, it's because he left you on read when you have a date that day. Follow?
Strike 3 - Strike 3 is what I call a hard strike area. These are the things your sugar daddy simply must not do!
If you know your hard passes, forewarn your SD about your hard limits (not just talking about sex) so that if this line is crossed, you know cut all communication, even skip strike two if you must.
Personally, I won't block him yet because men know when they do some shit they're not supposed to. So if you don't block AND keep him on read, you MIGHT get a big ass parting gift that he thinks will bring you back.
But once you get the parting gift, or he doesn't speak to you for whatever your time limit is, block him. No need to leave the window open with him, if he didn't act like he was going to trophy wife you up, he likely was never going to so. Block. Him. Remember your energy. You don't want it tainted by something you can control like a gotdamn sugar daddy.
Example Time
So let's say he brought a shitty gift. Strike 1 dialogue will work something like,
"Hey ____ 😊😊😊 I had such a wonderful time with you today! Going to _____ was just what I needed 🤩😍😍 I have to tell you something though, I didn't want to make a scene in public and I hoped the feeling would go away, but I was hurt you brought me this 25 dollar gift card to xyz, you promised to bring a gift that showed the d e p t h of your interest in me, and it makes me feel like you won't ever truly value me. I feel that we have such great banter. I thought you enjoyed yourself as much as I did. While I'm sure you meant no harm, I do look forward to seeing how you'll make this up to me soon 😘😘😘."
Let's pretend spoke to you crazy. Strike 2 dialogue can be much like Strike 1 dialogue. But just in case he's a clever fella mix it up more than how I have it written here,
"Hey ____😘 I had such a wonderful time with you today! Going to _____ was just what I needed 😍😍😍 I didn't want to make a scene in public, but I do need to tell you that I was hurt you said xyz, when I've told you xyz makes me feel very uncomfortable, and it makes me feel like you won't ever truly value me. I thought that we were so compatible. And I thought you respected me enough to be more courteous to my feelings. While I'm sure you meant no harm, I do look forward to seeing how you'll make this up to me soon 😘😘😘."
Again, spice it up/tailor it more than I have it here, but you get it.
Idk what my hard limits. I'm too easy going lol but, Strike 3 dialogue should not be long. Make it as short as possible. I really feel that short messages communicate to the SD he ReallyReally fucked up. here's something general for Strike 3 dialogue,
"_his name_, it hurts me so much to have to say this because I've been enjoying us so much, but I truly did not appreciate how rude you were to the waitstaff last night. This is not something I can tolerate."
Full stop. No need to explain further.
~perpetualsugar
What are the biggest differences between an average girl look vs. a successful escort look? Is it body? Fashion? Or act?
No, no, no...
What do you think...?
Yes, it’s all an act...
Plenty of plain women securing the bag. Plenty of model-looking girls getting used and dumped.
And no one ever speaks regarding this... but relegating yourself to an ultra-glamorous “bombshell” type, or even an all-natural “model” may actually be a detriment. Because you attract a personality inclined towards short-term thinking and satisfaction (aka, not as much revenue for you.)
And aside from fitting in and demonstrating some social capital to your audience or target client in regards to style, dress, external accessories, it is also meaningless in the pursuit of end goal (wealth).
People get too caught up in the details, bite off more than they can chew.
Ultimately, things like your heel height and the style of your nails hold no real meaning: they’re just arbitrary details used to 1) induce conversation, 2) attract the eye and signify someone who invests in their appearance, and 3) are blank canvases to project some qualities on that you want to be associated with in your persona of seduction.
Selecting them doesn’t mean anything otherwise - like nobody genuinely cares whether you’re all in nudes, though perhaps it’s to appear sensual and modern; or red nails, yet another popular choice, given that red’s supposed association with “passion”, which is also discretionary ...
You need to perfect the “heaux” aura… your mindset, the way you carry yourself, and your body language should indicate that you are a woman who fulfills the fantasy, but only if you obtain investment. Only then! Otherwise? Never.
You don’t need to wear ten thousand diamonds, or to don a crocodile Hermès Kelly.
You don’t need to have 10L of Juvederm injected.
You don’t need to have been on the cover of Vogue.
But you should be comfortable internally and externally, projecting the image, that you are a sexual object available for consumption at the right price. And you need to find men who recognize that quality, and terminate relations with anybody and anything that doesn’t recognize this.
Even I, as an escort, can recognize other escorts when traversing out and about. Just from a glimpse. And I can recognize clients - men who would hire escorts - from walking out and about. And men normally recognize me as an escort ... the number of times at Davos, I was asked, “Are you here for business or pleasure?”
The “heaux aura” or behavior signifying you are an escort normally comprises of body language, some overt sexuality, and positioning yourself in social situations where there is a “gray” area. Is a ‘good’ woman going to be out alone, at the bar, with no girlfriends or a boyfriend, at 9pm in a somewhat suggestive outfit? No...
So, how do you do this? How do you project this image?
The first change is internal.
When you go out… you internalize and have the mindset, that you don’t perform sexually for free.
Your time is not free …
Your beauty is not free…
Your presence is not free …!
Read it, internalize it, embody it, breathe it. You don’t explain yourself: when somebody even questions this mentality or framework, you move on.
The second you go out to freestyle, your mindset should be, where is the money? Are you making rent tonight, or no?
Because then, you control your body language to project the image that you are sexually available. You are not a regular woman. What does a regular woman do?
A regular woman hides behind their phone, pretending to be busy. A regular woman avoids eye contact and is timid and insecure. A regular woman is afraid to be seen as sexual and to take up space. She gazes around hurriedly to seem preoccupied. She’s there to relax and be alone, to meet a friend, for a little business meeting.
You differentiate yourself. You’re alone and seem approachable. You’re not on your phone, and you are open and confident. You are aware you’re easily an object of desire, and own it. You are sexually open and in control. And yes, you are a sexual being, but only for the right price. You make eye contact.
And if you’re a beginner, it will take time to reprogram yourself. You need to constantly re-position yourself, and notice and alter the way you carry yourself to give that suggestive, questionable atmosphere. A steep learning curve. So practice whenever you can, and exert discipline.
It should happen. If you are in the right position, meaning, you are 1) in a locality with high amounts of wealth, 2) in a space with a high number of single, unattached men, and 3) have the right body language, it should occur.
You nip conversations with useless men in the bud. You keep your eyes on the prize. You internalize your value and remain unwavering on your end goal.
And you’ll always experience dead nights, or useless men seeking to exploit you. Grow a thick skin; unfortunately, male entitlement to attractive members of the female sex knows no bounds and knows no humility or humbleness..: Make it clear you are here for business - get to the action as fast as possible. Cut them off; keep it moving.
At one point, you’ll probably have practiced your body language and presence so often, it will happen without you even noticing. And you’ll be approached for solicitation even when you don’t intend to. They will come and find you. Then it becomes yet another problem to deal with. 😉
XIII Ways to Be a Lady
I. Always call and return your mother’s calls as promptly as you possibly can. Remind her in every conversation how appreciative you are – how much you love, miss and adore her. II. Make it a ritual to smile every morning. Doing so will send signals to the brain making it think it’s happy. Smiling is associated with happiness; this will naturally help the brain release endorphins (a chemical that promotes a healthy, elevated attitude). Maintaining a balanced diet and consistent workout regimen helps as well. III. Invest no time on men who feel indifferent towards your interests. A man who does not care what melodies ignite your heart strings with love, or exchanges words of endearment, is a man not worth getting to know. Real men know to cater to their significant other – internal and external. IV. Keep all negative social media activities to a minimum, no real lady engages or wastes time on things like Twitter subtweets or passive-aggressive Facebook statuses. Social media is démodé. V. Broaden your horizons. Become well-rounded, learn a new language, read more books, watch classic foreign films, subscribe to travelogue, take a culinary course! Culture yourself, actually know what you are talking about. No one likes a pretentious snob. VI. Stop looking at marriage as the defining endeavor in a woman’s life, no matter how much it has been ingrained into you. It should neither be something you actively disdain, nor something you seek out with deadlines. It’ll happen when you’re ready. VII. Never allow anyone to stop you from crying. Crying cleanses the soul. All you need is a rose petal bubble bath, aromatherapy and chamomile tea. Immerse yourself in a chocolate coma at Max Brenner if you must. Comfort food was made for moments like these. VIII. Your home should be a reflection of who you are. Keep fresh-cut flowers in your home, scented candles (personally, I love Diptyque and Jo Malone fragrance oils). Acquire a signature wine and master a delectable dish you can always serve to your guest – be a great hostess! IX. Show respect to people who don’t even deserve it; not as a reflection of their character, but as a reflection of yours. What you say about others says a lot more about you. X. Date the kind of person who will still respect you when you no longer love them. Date the kind of person who will still respect you when they no longer love you. Do not waste your emotional capacities on individuals whose respect for you is conditional. XI. Have at least one outfit ready in your wardrobe for almost every occasion: job interview, your first date, family events etc. The amount of headaches that can be spared by simply having a versatile blazer, LBD and pencil skirt at one’s disposal are incalculable. XII. What would Grace Kelly do? When in doubt, Rosé. XIII. Live by this quote: “Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place.” —Kurt Vonnegut
Idk why people are so shocked at the kardashians being mute during this time. What part of they don’t like Black people, only Black dick don’t y’all understand?! I have to laugh chile.
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Reblogging because beautiful deserves beautiful name.
I wanna go here one day…
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Photographic experience I must take
its even more amazing at night