I think most successful men know that they are a target for gold diggers, but how do you think all these women still manage to trick them. For example Wendi had a ‘bad reputation’ since day one but still managed to draw in smart successful men, I love her and she’s an inspiration but I don’t believe men are this dumb....
Any woman who has the audacity to be attracted to or has the desire to be with someone financially stable is automatically considered a gold digger. So it’s best to just play off of the assumption and use it to your benefit.
It’s nothing but an act by these men who claim to hate “gold diggers”; they absolutely love having their egos stroked.
This explains precisely why men love gold diggers and their hypocrisy.
Men seek external power, not authentic power, as his identity is predicated upon his status, money, notoriety, and fame. He will even sacrifice his values and morals to achieve it, as it is just that important.
One of the ways in which men feel empowered is through this game in which they claim to resent and avoid gold diggers. Of course men are not attempting to avoid gold diggers, as gold diggers provide many positive benefits to the male ego. Gold diggers make it possible for his ego to get stroked and receive cookies free of charge. Men love the idea that a woman is pursuing him and wants him – even if it is for his money. Were this not true, men would not go to great lengths to ensure that women are made aware of their wealth and accomplishments. Men incessantly flaunt what they have, who they know and what they do. Men are the biggest whores and trick turners by advertising what they have to offer, offering their phallus in return for an orgasm, as well as the great pretense that they are in love in order to get their sexual needs met.
Consequently, men invite themselves to be manipulated and used by women. Otherwise, they wouldn’t make it a point to make sure that a woman knows all that he has. When was the last time a woman met a man who wasn’t making sure she knows about his house, sees photos of his cars, makes sure she rides in his luxury car, constantly talking about his many business trips overseas, etc.
Later on, once he has tired of his own game, and is ready for some new cookies to parlay in, he will have the audacity to complain.
In no manner are men attempting to avoid gold diggers, as they claim. The most profound hypocrisy of men regarding this subject is this: Men create and perpetuate the spirit of gold diggers. They are the ones who establish the foundation for a woman to consider and become a gold digger. They encourage gold diggerism. Metaphorically speaking, how would a woman know anything about the gold in a man’s back yard to dig for, were he not so openly promoting and announcing all that he has. Again, males want a woman to dig for gold.
If avoiding gold diggers are of such concern to males, why do the majority, not a few, consistently place themselves in a position for a woman to assume that she can dig for his gold? He hasn’t even met the woman yet he quickly paints a picture that he is living large. This is no accident; this is deliberate.
For this reason, I will always support and encourage my fellow gold diggers.
