i think women are inherently dominant. they call the shots. this is my philosophy about femdom (gay word but alas), namely that it is the natural state of a woman to be the boss over the man who is eager to serve and provide, unless he integrated his feminine. at least in the social dynamics we have set up in place, but often out of naturally arising behaviours too. "women cherish connection while men only care about their stupid peepee" is not entirely true since men want connection also but it has merit, since the male libido can overwhelm and overtake while it appears on the surface that women are more reserved. in reality, we all are equal part male and female. its just that our physical egregore reinforces behaviours as a kind of placebo¹. if you look at "femsubs" i know this point was made a billion times but they very much are still standing to gain from everything that is happening. the stage revolves around her, she is worshipped, theoretically she should walk away having the most sexual power and having drained all men involved. the problem happens when the submissive woman drinks too much of her own coolaid and thinks herself needing to actually walk away a loser since she was the submissive one as per her own kink - and we know some women (especially this sort) have a bicameral view of themselves; this is why all the femsubs in the industry look so beat and ugly and old after 5 years. but it also shows her own power, again, since she did it herself, albeit from a point of ignorance. because the men involved also lose lifeforce (so where does this energy go i wonder). women who have sex are dominant and women who chose to abstain are dominant, women who are pillow princesses are dominant and women who slap the fuck out of their men are dominant. i searched far and wide for genuinely submissive women, and the only thing that comes close is insecure defeated depressed shy demure femcels in highschool - these are bona fide femcels and genuinely submissive even if they're into cbt and yaoi or something. but they often have a very transmutative interesting lifepath that makes them come out the most powerful people in adulthood. i think genuinely deminant men only happen when they successfully integrate their feminine and i have seen this happen. their anima almost elevates them and makes them hover, they have proven to themselves that they are the ultimate provider and now they can even provide for himself. it's not that theres something deminant about the woman archetype, i don't believe that, theyre kinda the exact same mass just arranged differently to me, but i guess there are virtues given/attributed to women that aren't done so to men that set in motion the conflict that is the theatre of life and existance. theres a lot to say about female narcissism too, about workism cult in men, but i swear to god you already find sentiments like this on lolcow.farm every day.
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