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@youngsugarbabe
Iām at the point in my life where I just donāt care anymore, so if you stress me out Iām just not going to deal with you anymore
FREE ADVICE:
Don't talk about money first. Damn Daddy told me today that the biggest turnoff was when a girl would say "before we continue, I want you to know that I'm expecting X amount of money per visit/week/month." He said a ton of girls said that to him, and it made it really obvious that they only cared about the money. Of course we do only care about the money, but don't make it obvious. The whole point of a sugar baby and not a hooker is to have someone care about what he's saying and act interested. One of the reasons I landed this sugar daddy is because I didn't immediately talk about money. I told him that in my past I've gotten $600/visit and he said that was no problem, but we didn't bring it up again until right before our second date. Don't make it obvious that you just want money. Don't let it be the focus of the conversation. It should feel like you forgot to talk about it enough because you were having so much fun talking about other things about him. Xoxo
How do you get your SD to not just pay You for sex. I'm just starting out and my first POT just asked the difference Btwn intimacy and sex. Bc in my profile I say I don't have alex right now. What do I say?? How do you catch em??
It took me a LONG time to find a sugar daddy that didn't require sex. You have to convince them that they're missing more than just sex in their lives, and you're sure that they could just hire a hooker if they just wanted sex. Sugar babies are there for companionship, affection, and emotional intimacy. It's like having a cutie that they can go to for an escape from all the drama and stress in their lives. And also, sugar daddies want someone to listen to them and actually care about their interests. You have to find someone who is really missing more than just sex in their lives, and then they'll want more than just sex from you. You won't be able to convince a POT that he doesn't need sex if that's something he loves, no matter how great you are at marketing yourself. Don't get defeated, just keep looking š
FIRST DATE RESULTS:
He's a sugar daddy!!!! I'll call him Damn Daddy. Our Starbucks meeting went incredibly well and I actually really like him. He thinks I'm perfect for him, because I am. Here are the details: -He's not looking for a perfectly put together sugar baby. He's looking for someone who looks like a little girl. With my A cup, I freaking lucked out. He's 100% into the whole Daddy/daughter thing because his stepdaughter used to tease him all the time. He wants to recreate that, but he wants the idea of the sexual tension being forbidden. That means 2 things... -1. It's somewhere between platonic and sexual. There's no vaginal, anal, oral, etc sex going on, but it's not just friends either. He wants to give me a bath, help me get dressed, have me walk around in underwear and a T shirt, sit on his lap to get what I want, spanking when I'm being bad, all that fun stuff. But that's it. Just teasing. -2. It's going to be a little harder for me to get the luxurious things I want. Yes, dressing younger and going shopping etc is great, but you wouldn't buy a little girl lingerie and a little girl might not need her nails+hair done all the time. I'll have to play up the fact that I like sparkles so I can get some diamonds. -He's super kinky and taboo, but I'm working it to my advantage. This is my ideal type that I market myself towards because that's what I'm good at. I don't have plump boobs or a big ass, so I have to cater to men who like small girls. Most of the men who love A cups are interested in little girl role play. -He wants to take my traveling a lot, and I mean a LOT. I told him with my work schedule I won't be able to do that as much as he wants, but we'll see. He wants to take me to Germany in July so his pretty little girl can see all the castles, but I'm not sure if I can take time off work. If I can't and things are going well with him, I told him I would quit my job if he can cover what I'm making there now. He said we can work towards that in the future. I genuinely think he's a great guy. We'll see what type of allowance and gifts he gives, but so far he's talking the talk. He also mentioned that if this goes well, there will be a point where I can have anything in the world that I want. Stay tuned. Xoxo
I've got this "innocent but kinky" vibe going on š Give me your money
The Full Potential Challenge
Ever wonder what your life would be like if you lived up to your full potential? Would your body be healthier? Your skin clearer? Bank account bigger? I think about these things all the time, and, judging my a previous post, you guys do to. Below is a chart designed to help all of us live up to our full potential. Iāve broken it down into time frames to help keep you from getting overwhelmed. Write the chart down and hang it someplace where you can see it all the time. I will be starting this challenge tomorrow, 9/8. Iāll check in with you guys every Sunday to track my progress. I have specific goals in mind for myself, and you guys should make some too! I really want to know how you guys are doing. Tag your progress posts with #sbfpc so I can track it and take a look. Letās get to it!
EVERY MORNING
Stretch. First thing. Really give your body enough time to wake up. Touch your toes. Roll out your shoulders. Do not hit snooze!
Do your full skincare routine. I have mine detailed here, but do whatever works for you and your complexion. BeĀ gentle andĀ consistent.Ā
Brush your teeth and floss. I used to be a big floss-skipper too, but youād be amazed at how dig of a difference it makes. Rinse with a whitening mouthwash. I use one by Crest, and I notice a major difference in my teethās overall whiteness in just a few days.
Give yourself enough time to get ready. Whether youāre a wash-and-go kind of girl, or someone who spends an hour doing a full contouring routine before class (and either one is fine!), make sure you arenāt rushing. If you need to wake up a few minutes earlier than normal, so be it. Rushing sets an awful, stressed-out tone for the rest of the day. Allow yourself to be relaxed before taking on the day.
Eat something. Iām not going to say eat a big breakfast, because some people (myself included) just canāt eat in the morning. But you should eat, or at least bring a little something with you to work or school. If you canāt eat a full breakfast, grab a fruit! You wonāt be as hungry come lunch time, making you less likely to gorge yourself.
Shower. You can do this at night, in the morning, whatever. Again, this is something you should allow some time for. I donāt wash my hair every day, but I do condition it every day (from the ears down). Scrub yourself with a delicious-smelling body wash. If you shave, make yourself as smooth as a dolphin, dude. If you donāt, then donāt and donāt ever ever ever let anyone make you feel bad or weird about it. When you get out of the shower, wrap yourself in a fluffy towel and totally slather your sexy self with lotion. Top to bottom. Do it as soon as you can post-shower so it can really sink in.Ā
Put leave-in condition throughout your damp hair and comb it through.
Put on an outfit that makes you feel good! So important!
Drink water. Drink water. Drink water. Drink water!!!!!
Take a look at your daily to-do list. Knock out the most pressing stuff first. Take pride when you cross things off your list.
Make your bed! Oh my god, make your bed. Do it. Do it. Do it.Ā
EVERY AFTERNOONĀ
Follow theĀ ātouch it onceā approach. This is a truly life-changing thing. When a task is in front of you, no matter how big or small, just do it right then and there. How many times have you gotten a work email or homework assignment and thought,Ā āEh, Iāll do it laterā? And then later never comes? Once something pops up, do it once. Squash it and be done. Cross things off your list and feel like a badass.
Try to go for a walk at lunch. Even one little lap around the block or campus will reenergize you like nobodyās business.Ā
Drink water. Drink water. Drink water. Drink water!!!!!
Be present. This is so hard for me too, but you have to make a major effort to be present in whatever youāre doing. Be engaged and plugged-in and just exist in the moment. Give 100 percent.
Be friendly to friends and strangers. A smile goes a long way.
Eat something. Eat what you packed for lunch (see below) and take a break from working while you do it. You needĀ āyou timeā!
EVERY EVENING
Take your makeup off as soon as youāre in for the night. Wash your face with your full routine and let your skin have a break.Ā
Workout. You can also do this in the morning. Whatever works for you. Make a great playlist and go hard af. Get your cardio in. Get your strength training in. Earn every freaking sweat bead forming on your forehead. Earn your shower!
Knock out your homework. Life is infinitely better you donāt have anything hanging over your head. Half the time, the energy and emotion you spent dreading/putting off your work is ten times worse than the work itself.
Make a list of what needs to be done tomorrow. Itāll set you up for success the next day, and you wonāt forget anything!
Drink water. Drink water. Drink water. Drink water!!!!!
Lay out your clothes for tomorrow. This will save you SO MUCH TIME in the morning omg I canāt even tell you how important this is.
Eat something great. And once youāve decided to be done eating for the night, be done. Brush your teeth so you canāt eat again.
After brushing, do a whitening treatment. Whether itās classic baking soda, a Crest white strip, or a laser. Do something. And floss! Retainers in too, ladies 0:)
Relax! Take a few hours to do what YOU want to do. Scroll through Tumblr, binge on some Netflix, FaceTime gossip with your friends, anything. Do whatever makes you happiest.Ā
Shut the electronics off an hour before you want to go to bed. Put your phone on sleep mode. If you stare at the screen, it will keep you awake and alert and you wonāt be able to fall asleep. A good nightās sleep is crucial for weightless and general happiness lol
Do a quick sweep of your room and see if thereās anything you can put away real quick. A clean space is a happy space.
Crawl into your bed (arenāt you happy you took the time to make it?!) and read a book by lamplight for a while. When you start to feel sleepy, go to sleep. Donāt push it. You kicked ass today and you deserve rest.Ā
EVERY WEEKEND
Do something with your friends. It just has to be one thing. Even if youāre just hanging out at the coffee shop, spending time with your squad will make you a better, happier person.
Drink water. Drink water. Drink water. Drink water!!!!!
Do something just for you. Set your laptop up in the bathroom and watch a Netflix marathon while you take a bubble bath. Buy an old school bottle of Mr. Bubbles ($3 at Target!) and really just soak. Relax. Light a candle.
Do something creative. You can read a book, write, blog, draw, code, anything. It just has to be something that speaks to your passion.
Track your progress. Just do this once a week so it doesnāt become all-consuming. And remember that non-scale victories are just as important as shedding pounds.
Take the time to be grateful. Tell your friend how much you admire her taste in music. Mention to your mom how much you love her cooking and how happy you are that she takes care of you. Thank your teaching after an especially interesting lecture. When you do something awesome, take a moment to admire yourself. Be grateful for even the little things.
Anything I missed? Reblog + add yours! Donāt forget to tag your progress!
starting this Monday!
Iāll just reblog and fav cause I need to read this in the morning!
Get on that grind!!! šš¼šš¼šš¼
Need. To. Do. This
TIPS: How To Manipulate the Conversation
1. You want me to look beautiful, donāt you? āØ(Translation: Buy me that outfit/hair/nails/lingerie)
2. You said you want the best for me.āØ(Translation: Give me the extra money)
3. I just want to feel safe and secure.āØ(Translation: Get me my own hotel suite)
4. Youāve inspired me to be betterāØ(Translation: pay for this elite yoga retreat)
5. I feel like you donāt trust me and Iām giving you my body. āØ(Translation: Give me the money first) āØāØ6. Take me to XYZ and Iāll look so beautiful youāll make all the men in the room jealous āØ(Translation: Take me to this broadway play)
7. I bought a new bikini for you! When are you gonna let me show it off for you (Translation: take me to Hawaii)
8. That man is making me uncomfortable *hold his hand while someone else is checking you out* āØ(Translation: other people think Iām hot and check me out all the time. Know that.)
Putting these up for anyone who needs them today.
Toxic Parents: Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life by Susan Forward
Why Does he DO That: Inside The Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft
Cannot recommend WDHDT highly enough. Iāve found it helpful not just for romantic relationships, but also for growing up w a āunexplainable/uncontrollableā dad.
IT HAS ALSO BEEN REALLY HELPFUL FOR UNDERSTANDING ONLINE MOB HARASSMENT.
So if youāve ever been bombarded w threats to be raped/killed, (soā¦if youāre a minority and youāve been on the Internet for a while), this book might be useful for getting clarity around the whole entitled, abusive mindset that drives certain kinds of people to behave that way. And by āgetting clarityā, I mean (for me) being able to go āoh, thatās whatās happeningā and not really feel scared anymore. Or angry, or drawn out into it, or anything.
And if youāre still standing around going ābut how does something like GamerGate happen?ā or ābut why do men hit their wives?ā or whatever ā please read that book and learn something.
^^^^ truth WDHDT is fantastic at cutting down MRA bullshit and calling it what it really is
Also recommending
Please consider reading these. WDHDT is really, really helpful. And I know some of you are struggling with abusive relationships, friendships, families, etc. Youāre not alone. There is help.
Yo. This family holiday, please, please take care of yourself. You arenāt there to be anybody elseās cushion.
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents
Reading any of these books does not mean you donāt love your parents or family. Ā Itās just self care for helping you cope and not repeat the behaviors.Ā
A gentle reminder that I have Toxic Parents as a FREE PDF if you would like to download it and read it on your own.Ā Take care of yourselves.
All the books in this thread are great; adding this one because it was the most helpful to me. Free pdf here
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"Bring a friend for my nigga" ...First of all, I'm not even coming.
I want this ā¤
DON'T FORGET TO DRINK WATER TODAY.
GUYS
I have a new Sugar Daddy Iām meeting today, Iām really excited for this one. He doesnāt want sexual hook ups or anything like that so he says, because he had this super weird relationship with his step daughter and wants to feel that again.
He pretty much said sheās 27 and married now, but she used to sit on his lap and tease him all the time. He wants to recreate that as well as give me baths, wash my hair, dress me, etc. Heās into the daddy daughter thing, so Iām hoping this will work out well.
He also asked me to come to Germany with him in July š I told him Iāll see, but if I do that Iāll most likely have to quit my job. Hereās hoping this works out!
I started doing porn
Because sugaring wasn't making me enough money and since then I have hated myself. My friend Kimmy Granger posted on Facebook today "To all of you who think my life is gum drops and lolly pops because of what I do and how much fun you think I have, you're sadly mistaken. The men are absolutely disgusting, cheating, lying little snakes and have zero class or sense of direction on how to treat a female and They'll make you feel special amongst every other slut who they come across, the females don't know how to treat themselves or anyone else with respect and will stab anyone in the back if it means they'll make extra money or gain popularity, the money isn't even THAT fucking great once you're hit with all your monthly fees and invoices INCLUDING your own personal bills, your self esteem and inner confidence begins to drastically decrease due to the little superficial flaws you didn't know you had until it's pointed out in high definition footage or people's words, you lose respect and damage relationships with people who you love and care about and vise versa, you put yourself in a position where good and bad energies are exchanged with another human being you either are completely disinterested in or just met 15 minutes prior to the shooting of the film, you go home after your shoots 80% of the time feeling like a little piece of processed meat who will only get a one time only fraction of what that company will be making off of for the rest of their fucking life, your body will hurt and stress from all the random call times, traveling and physical trauma, you'll require medications for the last 3 parts written above because you'll become too competitive to want to even stop, you begin to put needles and chemicals in your beautiful healthy body in order to actually feel adequate, you lose grip and allow both sides of your life to cross fires and forget who YOU really are, you'll actually believe that you belong to someone and they love or care about you when really they have zero intention of ever making you a priority in their fucked up little world of shitty relationships and depression, you'll start to hope and dream every fucking day that maybe some wonderful human being of any shape or form will see the beauty that you lost sight of and sweep you off your feet, someone that will truly make you feel loved and remind you everyday how special you actually are, you'll allow everything that you were warned about take its course first hand and begin to re evaluate decisions that will now follow you for the rest of your life. Sadly the list goes on and on. But what's even more sad is how your ultimate goals through all of that BULLSHIT is to walk up on a fucking stage at the end of your most degrading and physically straneous year, and except an award for being the most epic whore for the world's viewing pleasure. Mind you, you're most likely not even gonna be able to win one those retarded dust collecting pieces of shits unless you're willing to wipe out the last bit of morals you had stored away, and really just give every single one of your holes up to as many companies and people who run the entire industry. God forbid you're actually selective and choose to have standards when it comes to who gets to use your body for their own financial benefit..... well then that's when you're just a prude or considered unreliable or even unusable. don't worry though! they'll find some other naive little soul who will actually do it for maybe even a lower rate! So no hard feelings. Glad to be here. So stoked I ruined my body and relationship with my own family to be taken advantage of by the armpit of all quality men and to lose every inch of value as a human being." I'm just going to leave it here for you all because I don't have the energy to type my own rant right now.
Hey! I was going through the sugar baby tag and am messaging a few SBs. I'm considering getting into it and I'm actually also 19 years old. I'm a college student looking to pay my bills and study abroad. Do you have any advice/tips? Thanks! Sorry if you get a lot of messages like this/if this is annoying. xx
Sorry, I haven't been on in a long time! I would recommend not doing it at all. Once a sex worker, always a sex worker. I'm not going to lie girl I have tried to stop sugaring so many times. It's not glamorous like it's made out to be. You have to lose a lot of your morals and integrity for money. You'll set a limit and say "I won't do this" and it's just a matter of zeros to get you to do it anyway. If you haven't started, I would recommend staying FAR away from the sugar life. It has ruined me and all my friends. Good luck girl XOXO
R.I.P. The 2976 American people that lost their lives on 9/11 and R.I.P. the 48,644 Afghan and 1,690,903 Iraqi and 35000 Pakistani people that paid the ultimate price for a crime they did not commit
this is the only september 11th post Iām reblogging
So done hahaha
This new guy said he was very "sucssesfull" and also "want to be a trophy wife,,,,ok" and when he kept using a bunch of commas like that I asked about it and he was like "lol its no big deal,,,,,,,,let it go" NO THANKS. Real sugar daddies can spell and use punctuation correctly, right?