Lust.Love.Desire.Passion

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I never had a relationship before, I sometimes think that there is no one out there for me and i should just even stop thinking about a future boyfriend or girlfriend. What do you think i should do?

Focus on loving yourself first if you don't already. There are two possibilities, 1. There is someone out there for everyone in which case you have to find that one or 2. No one has a particular person they are meant to be with in which case your "one" could be anyone. Both possibilities are equally scary but it's only scary if you allow yourself to think you need anyone in the first place. I've been single for a very long time myself, it hurt so bad to never have someone to call mine but over time I learned to love myself and while having someone else would feel nice I'm not driving myself into a depressed state of mind chasing after anyone who doesn't want me

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Good blog. Express yourself.

I appreciate your kind words! It's important that we all express ourself in a society that demands us all be a certain way less we lose who we are and become the person the rest of the world wants us to be rather than who we really are

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That last ask you answered was honestly some of the most powerful advice I’ve ever read... I only wish I’d seen those words a few months ago, after I slept with a friend and totally tangled with the situation. I would have gone to the ends of the earth for this guy and when I told him how I had feelings for him he didn’t feel the same. I can accept that. But I’ve just spent so much time overthinking the situation and second guessing, worse bit is - he knows he has me around his finger now.

I'm sorry you had to go through the pain that may have caused. It's not easy breaking the chains a person might have on us but it's not impossible either. Breaking away is a very liberating feeling, you feel as if you are finally back in control of your life and are ready to move on. If you are a reader I recommend this book called "Milk and Honey" by Rupi Kaur. It's a short book of poems and writings many of which deal with the liberation of another person's hold on us. The book is full of powerful words

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me and this one guy are friends but fuck every weekend at work (even on the clock) and idk what to think. he's mentioned that he wants a girlfriend in front of me & stuff & i have really strong feelings for him. how do i find out if he really likes me or just sees me as a fuck buddy?

There are some people who think they want a relationship but in all honesty they are just don't like the feeling of being alone. A relationship is commitment and a responsibility and while it can ease those feelings of being alone what happens when you don't feel alone anymore? What happens when your ideals of what you want have been sated, will you still put forth the same effort, love, and affection you did when you thought you wanted a relationship? Now while he has mentioned he wants a girlfriend it's important to think about whether he means you. It's very possible that he only sees you as a fuck buddy and when you have those kinds of relations with someone it releases chemicals in your brain and makes you feel closer to someone than you actually are and maybe that's just him confiding in you with his inner desires but those desires not necessarily involving you. I would question him on what is is that he is feeling exactly. Is he lonely or does he genuinely want a relationship if so does he mean you or someone else in particular

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I’ve written short stories, poems, and have drawn many works…but she touched my heart in a way not even I can express

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Don’t be shy. I wanna see your inner most freak. Put away the lady and class. Bring out the animal. I want you to claw me, bite me, and fuck me as hard as you want to

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A body such as yours one cant help but take their time. Something so beautiful and divine, I just want to feel you all over. Run my hands across every curve and kiss every inch

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Men, Don't Be Afraid/ It's Not There Fault

I’m a 20 year old male and I started my romance blogs when I was 19. Something I got alot from followers is it’s amazing how much I know and how well I express myself. BARE WITH ME HERE, THIS IS IMPORTANT FOR MOSTLY THE MEN BUT I WANNA EXPLAIN THIS TO THE WOMEN TOO. Not all men can express themselves and honestly it’s not their fault, it’s mostly the fault of their male peers around them growing up and the media. As a man we are told we must be strong and rugged. If we show any sadness to anyone we are told, “Man up.” or “Don’t be a pussy” or even worse “Quit being gay” anyone who says this is probably uncomfortable expressing emotion themselves and doesn’t know how to act in a situation when being shown emotion. So this actually hinders a persons ability to express themselves. Do you see why I say to you women that it’s “not their fault”? Men, don’t be afraid to express yourself. Having feelings and emotions doesn’t make you any less of a man. It makes you all the more human.

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Lonely

You ever lay awake at night after not having spoken to anyone that day. You didn’t speak to anyone not because you couldn’t but simply because you’re alwaysthe first one to make an effort and that day you just didn’t? You start tothink to yourself, “I’m just not gonna talk to anyone. I don’t need anyone else but myself. If they really cared then they can contact me first”. Then time goes by and you pick up your phone and contact one of them. After having made that big speech to yourself you give in.You know deep down that they’d have never made an effort to talk to you. They don’t care as much as you do. The sad part is as much as we hate to admit it, even if we did go so ling without talkkibg to anyone we would only be hurting ourselves more than them because we are the few people in this world who actually care…

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I’ve tried distancing myself, making up excuses, intentionally finding a reason to be upset, pushing you away but none of it ever works…because the thing I’m trying to get away from? Is in here…right here, inside of me. I can’t escape these feelings and as tired as I am of running from them I’ll probably still try because I don’t know what else to do. We stay friends but i’ll always feel like we were meant to be more than that and since we can’t be more…it sometimes makes me want to run. However, at the same time I want to stay. Stay in your presence, your thoughts, and your heart. Never have I felt something more compelling than this bond we share. Something that drives me absolutley insane and hurts so, so much yet I choose to stay…because honestly I couldn’t imagine how things would be if I left

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Apologies

I apologise for the lack of posts. I assure you im still on tumblr very often. I just have no motivation to write much these days. There were people in my life who made me feel the way I did in my posts but things aren't the same. I originally made this blog for one person and it blossomed to be the center of all my feelings but now...I dont really feel much. Sorry. The blog isn't dead, just not much romance or passion in my life at the moment

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I really have liked this guy for a long time. He has a lot of friends is really nice and funny which is the complete opposite of me because I'm extremely shy and don't talk much. My friend messaged him one day pretending to be me and as soon as I texted him the conversation fell flat. This was right before school ended and I didn't think he would come back but now I see him all the time and I can't bring myself to speak. He doesn't know I have these feelings again . Any advice?

The important thing is to have confidence if you're going to speak to him and let me explain this to you; confidence is not "I know he will like me" confidence is "I'll be okay if he doesn't" So go talk to him, be friendly but don't make yourself vulnerable. Talk for a bit then later on drop a few hints that you are interested and maybe he will drop some hints that he is interested in you too, however, do not throw yourself at the feet of this guy. Do not bend over backwards trying to gain his favor. Do not give him that kind of power over you, I cannot stress that enough. You are a beautiful individual and if he can't see that then he doesn't deserve you. Not saying you can't be friends, just dont put more into the glass only for him to drink from it and not put anything into it himself or he will run you dry

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I want to be close with you, emotionaly and spiritually and right now more than anything…physically. I want you to grasp the full of my member and tease me with your lips just before you climb atop of me and slowly come down, coaxing my member inbetween your legs. Rock back and forth, riding me like it’s yours. I want to feel you drip down my legs in pleasure and soak these sheets with your waters. Make me call to the heavens and scream your name. Own it. Ride it. Take it. Fuck me. Fuck me! FUCK ME

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You've got me especially wound up today. Ever since the sun came up you've been teasing me. Sexual remarks, rubbing against me, slapping my butt here and there. It hasn't even been a full twenty four hours since we moved in together and you're ready to let the neighbors know we're complete freaks for eachother...

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You ever meet someone who means alot to you? I’m not talking about the average “makes me smile, makes me feel special” kind of person. You meet numerous people like that in a lifetime. I mean someone who you fight harder for than you do for yourself. Someone who you strive to be a better person for because you can’t let them down. Someone who brings out the man or woman in you that you didn’t know existed until they came along. You seriously discover new things about yourself just from being with this person and you grow together and they teach you things and you teach them and you begin to blossom into something great…I met someone like this…but this person was also the one person I couldn’t be with…you know what type im talking about. That person you cant be with because of distance, age, or some other reason that in your heart you think isn’t a big deal but in your mind you know just how big of a deal it really is…I still talk to this person and you can hear it between us that those feelings are there. If we were ever together our nights would end up much like this picture displayed above..on edge..both of us wanting to go for it but knowing we shouldn’t because of those “reasons”…those are the nights that I fall asleep whispering to myself, “If only, if only…”

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It Has To Stop

When you start talking to someone be upfront about your intentions early on. If you just want sex, say it, but do NOT lead them on with fallacies and false hopes of a genuine relationship just because you needed to get them in your bed. You can say, “Oh it’s just a broken heart, they’ll get over it in time” but a broken heart is more detrimental than you realize. People can become less trusting, paranoid, solitary and push those who are sincere with their intentions away and possibly cause them to throw away a beautiful future; and for what? Just so you could have an orgasm? Stop breaking hearts for such trivial things

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When I was ten years old I couldn’t picture my future. I didn’t think i’d be going to a highschool in a different county, I didn’t know i’d have my heart broken several times, I didn’t know i’d be joining the military, and I didn’t know i’d meet someone as amazing as you. We don’t get to see eachother much and that has kept us from blossoming into something great…However, if there is one thing I do know for certain in this life of mine it’s that you and I were meant for eachother