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We're done here. Bye.

[yourfaveshatefujoshis]

This Blog is Now Officially Done

it was a good run but after talking it over with the other mods this blog has run its course and it was really fun for the time but now would be a good time to end this. the blog will still be here, but we will not be updating or posting anymore and mod banshee will be changing the blog to reflect this. the discord server may remain. if you want to find us we will be on the following blogs:

Mod Banshee: @tentamissile-spam (main) @sound-hz (art) also runs the your faves hate fujos server so you can find him there.

Mod Monty: @mobworm

Nathan (founder): @philosemite

Other mods were not in contact at time of writing so we cannot give out their contacts.

[yourfaveshatefujoshis]

This Blog is Now Officially Done

it was a good run but after talking it over with the other mods this blog has run its course and it was really fun for the time but now would be a good time to end this. the blog will still be here, but we will not be updating or posting anymore and mod banshee will be changing the blog to reflect this. the discord server may remain. if you want to find us we will be on the following blogs:

Mod Banshee: @tentamissile-spam (main) @sound-hz (art) also runs the your faves hate fujos server so you can find him there.

Mod Monty: @mobworm

Nathan (founder): @philosemite

Other mods were not in contact at time of writing so we cannot give out their contacts.

[yourfaveshatefujoshis]

This Blog is Now Officially Done

it was a good run but after talking it over with the other mods this blog has run its course and it was really fun for the time but now would be a good time to end this. the blog will still be here, but we will not be updating or posting anymore and mod banshee will be changing the blog to reflect this. the discord server may remain. if you want to find us we will be on the following blogs:

Mod Banshee: @tentamissile-spam (main) @sound-hz (art) also runs the your faves hate fujos server so you can find him there.

Mod Monty: @mobworm

Nathan (founder): @philosemite

Other mods were not in contact at time of writing so we cannot give out their contacts.

[yourfaveshatefujoshis]

This Blog is Now Officially Done

it was a good run but after talking it over with the other mods this blog has run its course and it was really fun for the time but now would be a good time to end this. the blog will still be here, but we will not be updating or posting anymore and mod banshee will be changing the blog to reflect this. the discord server may remain. if you want to find us we will be on the following blogs:

Mod Banshee: @tentamissile-spam (main) @sound-hz (art) also runs the your faves hate fujos server so you can find him there.

Mod Monty: @mobworm

Nathan (founder): @philosemite

Other mods were not in contact at time of writing so we cannot give out their contacts.

[yourfaveshatefujoshis]

This Blog is Now Officially Done

it was a good run but after talking it over with the other mods this blog has run its course and it was really fun for the time but now would be a good time to end this. the blog will still be here, but we will not be updating or posting anymore and mod banshee will be changing the blog to reflect this. the discord server may remain. if you want to find us we will be on the following blogs:

Mod Banshee: @tentamissile-spam (main) @sound-hz (art) also runs the your faves hate fujos server so you can find him there.

Mod Monty: @mobworm

Nathan (founder): @philosemite

Other mods were not in contact at time of writing so we cannot give out their contacts.

[yourfaveshatefujoshis]

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[i-hate-chick-fil-a]

Arizona prison officials won't let inmates read book that critiques the criminal justice system

Arizona prison officials have banned inmates from reading "Chokehold," a critically-acclaimed critique of the American criminal-justice system.

That makes sense. If the inmates knew all about the for profit prison system and back door slavery they’d be very enraged about it.

The book is “Chokehold,” by Paul Butler, a former Washington DC prosecutor who wrote it after being wrongly arrested. From the article:

Butler, who is African-American, wrote the book after he was arrested on false assault allegations, an event that dramatically changed his view of the justice system.

“During the trial, I experienced for myself a lot of things that defendants I’d prosecuted said were evidence of how unfair the system was: Police lied, witnesses who knew what happened didn’t come forward,” Butler told The Guardian in 2017.

“The jury took less than 10 minutes to acquit me,” he said, because “I could afford the best lawyer in the city, had legal skills and social standing, and because I was innocent.

“But the experience made a man out of me. It made a black man out of me.”

According to the article they also banned one of Maya Angelou’s book too.

So I’m guessing that the officials want to keep them 100% imprisoned, physically and mentally.

[idlnmclean]

End slavery.

[note-a-bear]

This is literally the reason prison education programs and libraries have been defunded, neglected, and often straight up removed from even low security sites.

In the 70s and 80s (and frankly before that, but those decades coincide with the general Tough On Crime™ push that’s still running amok) there was a boom in self-taught and correspondence taught lawyers coming out of jail. These people then turned around and became advocates for reform and/or defense lawyers in relatively large numbers.

Can’t have that, so what do you do? You narrow the options for prisoner education. The less options an incarcerated person has, the more likely they’ll wind up back in prison.

This is slavery, yes. And it’s also a wholesale attack on the (spurious, but still) idea of rehabilitation through imprisonment.

[danidonovan]

I’ve been working on being more conscious of how I write emails, and made this handy printable guide! I have a bad habit of overusing exclamation points, emojis, and qualifiers like “just” and “possibly” to sound extra-friendly and non-threatening in emails. (“Just wondering / just confirming / just checking / just making sure / just wanted to let you know”) You are allowed to take up space. Your voice deserves to be heard. Your opinions matter. You don’t need to apologize for existing or asking for what you need. You are not “bossy” or “bitchy” for not sounding like a pep-machine 24/7. If you act like a doormat, you better develop a taste for shoe leather. You have power too. Don’t be afraid to stand up for yourself— no one else is gonna do it for you.

[couldnt-think-of-a-funny-name]

listen idk I’m thinking about how before new moon came out it was like….every single news story was debating on whether or not they should keep taylor lautner as Jacob, because he wasn’t buff enough, and the film studio and the general public essentially pressured him into doing insane diets and workout routines just so he can keep a role he already won, just because no one would even entertain the character looking slightly different than described, and it was treated as this great thing, like damn, he really pulled it off!!! he’s hot now!!! he can keep the part!!! and that’s just so fucked up like. he was fucking 15 years old??? they spray painted abs onto Robert Pattinson in the same film. Taylor Lautner was LITERALLY A FIFTEEN YEAR OLD and practically the entire world slammed him for not having an unreal body, and then once he obtained one grown ass women were drooling over him like a piece of meat for the rest of his teenage years. what the fuck. 

[couldnt-think-of-a-funny-name]

I’m still on this! Imagine you’re still going thru puberty and the world is so obsessed with your body that you become a sex symbol for MOTHERS. first all the focus on whether or not he could get the body and then constant focus on what it looks like for the next 4 or 5 years like! That’s so fucked up he didn’t NEED an 8-pack THEY SPRAY PAINTED ABS ON ROB IN THE SAME MOVIE

[couldnt-think-of-a-funny-name]

he did interviews on all his crazy work out routines and said he had to carry around beef patties and other high protein foods wherever he went so he was just eating constantly THATS NOT ALRIGHT and every single magazine article or ET news segment was covering this the whole time. Fans were vocally debating whether he deserved to keep the role that HE ALREADY EARNED. This was such a big deal. What the fuck.

[couldnt-think-of-a-funny-name]

[couldnt-think-of-a-funny-name]

so the highest paid teenager was also the second sexist man of the year, huh

[secretly-a-cat-pls-dont-tell]

[spongehole]

*Racialized pedophilia

[succulentbud]

now how do I make discreet merch that helps people in the closet be proud of who they are without being totally outed…….

I remember a friend saying they would love to buy pride merch but is not open about it yet…..I wonder how I can help them, and others, out….

[succulentbud]

I call these “no this isnt that LGBT bullshit what the fuxk are you talking about” set

[lesbianofshalott]

help for a desperate runaway

Hey guys. As you know I’ve recently run away from my abusive mother.

Well, in order to support myself I’m looking for a job. I haven’t been contacted yet by any of the places I’ve applied to, but I’m trying to be optimistic.

In the meantime I’m relying on donations and help from friends. Unfortunately I’m running out of money quick, as it seems I underestimated how much living costs. $6 for antihistamines didn’t seem like much in the past, but it sure does now. Don’t get me started on deodorant.

If anybody is able to help me with expenses such as food, transport, my phone, etc. I would be truly grateful.

My PayPal account is here.

[lesbianofshalott]

This has just become more urgent as my mother tracked me down, and I will now be staying on the Gold Coast, which means my travel will cost about $15 a day until I can get somewhere closer.

[marzipanandminutiae]

sometimes I hate how much modern clothing is determined to show women’s bodies

like if it’s not skimpy, it’s skin-tight- leggings, skinny jeans, bodycon dresses, etc.

doing historical costuming has made me hyper-aware of just how “on display” my body is when I’m wearing normal modern outfits, and it affects my behavior. don’t bend over to pick things up at work because men will stare at your ass. sit differently so you don’t show stomach rolls. a guy running a pop-up stand next to my shop commented so much on how I had “great legs” that I didn’t wear leggings and skirts- one of my favorite winter outfit combinations -for the rest of the season

there’s a certain freedom in medium-to-long skirts and skirt supports, I find: the freedom to define what people see of my body. men won’t stop being creepy no matter what women wear, but I like that kind of dramatic body re-framing. you don’t get to see my legs and hips, Creepy Guys. you get to see a massive bell skirt, or a bustle, or an upended trumpet flower shape. my body is to be seen only by those I’ve chosen to trust, not the world at large

of course, empowerment is different for different women. some feel comfortable and powerful showing as much of their shape as possible, and I applaud them in doing exactly that. what pisses me off is the pressure from the fashion industry for all of us to be empowered by the same thing…a thing that just so happens to tie in with the diet industry and the cosmetics industry. it’s easier to sell the idea that you have to be hairless and smooth and thin and blemish-free when it’s all on display

sometimes I just wish I could go about in a hoop skirt and a t-shirt that says “fuck off” in delicate script

[fuguhbuguhbuhugguhval]

[marzipanandminutiae]

BEST RESPONSE TO ANY POST OF MINE EVER

THANK YOU

[butchniqabi]

I’ve seen this post a few times now and I just wanted to say that muslimahs (not just hijabis) have been talking about this for a while. This post is great, honestly, but I can’t help but feel a little sad at this posts popularity. Muslimahs will talk about modesty and the concept of hijab and will be called regressive, but once put into a different context the same idea is praised. This is absolutely not shaming the OP or anyone who reblogged this (I feel like taking control of your sexuality is something that needs to be talked about!) but I can’t help but feel like there is a clear line about whose modesty we support and why

[veryfunnymemes]

[la-laborista-republiko]

[ellewritesfiction]

I was about to be M A D but this is truly good advice.

[lemonpixycat]

An important addendum to this!!! Unpaid internships are ONLY LEGAL if: -The work that you are doing benefits YOU and not the company (ex: you being told to fetch coffees for the managers benefits THEM, and does not benefit your education. this is work that would LEGALLY need to be paid.) -There has to be a CLEAR and UNDERSTOOD agreement that the internship is unpaid. If you were led to be expected it was a paid internship and they suddenly were liek “what? no it was unapid”, then the law is on your side to be paid because they didn’t make the agreement clear enough. -The work you are doing must COMPLEMENT the work of paid employees there, NOT replace it.  -The work you do must be RELEVANT to your topic of education. (Again , going back to the coffee example; the chances that fetching some one coffee is relevant to your education is not likely. this is not allowed.) Always remember these things when taking an unpaid internship; you actually DO have legal rights in this regard! Unpaid Internship are supposed to benefit YOU, not the employer :)

[yourfaveshatefujoshis]

ive only seen this said once before, and i think its worth saying again:

while fujoshi circles cause harm to mlm lets also not ignore the fact that its also in the very broad category of using fandom to groom minors given the amount of young fujos involved in these circles oftentimes pandering to adults.

[glowpop]

it still….astounds me how like…ao3 doesn’t even have that many functions and it still hasn’t left beta and you can only join after getting an invite like what…are they DOING with all those “rainy day funds” like apart from server upkeep which is like fine whatever but apart from that. what on earth else are they spending the fucking money on. they don’t even moderate the content that gets there so like. what the hell.

[glowpop]

i’ve said this before but like screams imagine if we treated ao3 like any other platform like tumblr or smth for instance can you imagine the fucking riot people would thro if tumblr asked for monthly donations LOL?

[glowpop]

besides about ninety percent of the people arguing in defense of ao3 are white english majors who have no clear grasp of how the internet works…of how little upkeep a site like ao3 actually needs…please go back to your hole and write your drarry pwp or w/e

[succulentbud]

the worst take to ever come out of social media is “fiction does not equal reality”, when. the Jaws Effect is literally right there and proves just how much of an impact media truly has on people’s psyche