The Ponderings of Ella

Hold up. Slow down. Back up.

[yourintrovertedprincess]

[ollielephant]

[cumonthevoid]

none pizza with left beef

[the-chocolate-chip-pancake-blog]

It should be a rule of Tumblr to always reblog none pizza with left beef

[babymarkers]

ive missed you

[pisshandkerchief-deactivated202]

[yourintrovertedprincess]

Really wish I had someone to go to this concert with. Anyone like Elevation Worship?

[yourintrovertedprincess]

Just leave. Sometimes you gotta be the bad guy to better yourself.

[yourintrovertedprincess]

My guts is feeling crazy. But I definitely want more.

[yourintrovertedprincess]

To delete or not to delete

[perfeqt]

“Those who love you are not fooled by mistakes you have made, or by dark images you hold about yourself. They remember your beauty when you feel ugly; your wholeness when you are broken; your innocence when you feel guilty; and your purpose when you are confused.”

— Alan Cohen

[theedrdimple]

[just-a-hopeful-romantic-deactiv]

hey. it’s ok to miss them. they were a big part of your life, and you had some good times. times when you were happy. it’s ok to miss that, to miss the good things, the fun things. knowing you deserve better doesn’t mean you’re not going to miss them. It’s ok. what’s not ok is how they treated you. remember that.

[free-my-mindd]

Self-Love is the best love.

[iambrillyant]

“forgive all the versions of yourself that operated out of fear instead of growth, the ones that viewed comfort zones as safe havens and abandoned boundaries to keep other people happy, forgive all the versions of yourself that didn’t know that love begins with how you treat you.”

— iambrillyant

[yenshu-deactivated20240911]

Don't allow others to consume you. If they don't call, go to sleep. If they don't message you, put away your phone & have a good day. If they are distant and refuse to tell you what's wrong, go home and do something fun. You live for yourself first. They are secondary.

[dark-romantics]

~ Bianca Sparacino, "The Strength In Our Scars"

[thepeacefulgarden]

[spiritualseeker777]

[iambrillyant]

“to feel no guilt for consistently choosing you, to assume no responsibility for how they feel about you putting yourself first, to prioritize you without attaching their projections or assumptions of you; this is what freedom looks like.”

— iambrillyant

[yourintrovertedprincess]

High fives for slowly breaking