half a man at best

Too old for this. GMT +7. I'm hopelessly in too deep when it comes to Zayn Malik. It's sad. Come be sad with me. I have tissues.

[zaynohno]

omg I forgot all about tumblr - wonder if anybody remembers me on here 😂

[taovevo]

can you please please explain to me about this kris wu scandal? it's so confusing seeing ppl say its fake and not (ignore this if it is too bothersome ><)

tbh i wasnt gonna answer this or any of the more….colourful ones bc as i said in previous asks i dont wanna be dragged into this…but all the victim blaming and various other asks i got in my inbox calling the girl slurs, shielding him etc is really….just too much.

so here’s some stuff and you can decipher for yourself:

14 june 2am, gina releases 4 screenshots of her and wyf’s text convos (rough trans linked)

the same day some other girls came out and commented on gina’s post with bed pics of wyf (his fans here are saying they’re fake idk tho, altho the one (there’s 3) that doesn’t have a pinky tint to it might be but then again the pic cld have been taken before the tatt idk)

a girl using her friend’s weibo acct (because she doesn’t have one) messages gina with photos of herself and wyf which her friend took, she says she didn’t know wyf was this sort of person. she met him thru a friend, they drank a lot, and then had sex x x (she says she’s the one in white)

i think ppl were trying to say that the pics with him posted from the girl above and this one x were fake and some other guy, this is later debunked bc the guy never said it was him and was annoyed that ppl tried saying so.

audio/vids of wyf and girls at karaoke etc (just to help add up the stories, nothing too notable said/done - fans tried to say that they were all edited clips of words he’s said before then put into this video…..right...) x x

gina later posts another screenshot of a convo they had after the above things were posted by other girls, she says in the post: i always believed what you said was the truth, am i too naive... x (trans of the screenshot) (the 2nd image is a diff incident)

after refusing to answer the media gina finally gives one interview and basically plots out the timeline of her and wyf’s relationship and what happened after she posted the pics x (the vid)  x (i translated the vid v roughly for a friend, there’s some problematic shit in there as well - the n word was used)

vid of her literally tapping her phone to show wyf’s audio wechat messages to her, buying her a plane ticket x (basically pretty damn incriminating that it is him in the prev screenshots)

latest thing that happened: apparently wyf’s mum called gina to try and tell her to stop but she refused unless wyf talks it out with her but he didn’t x

oh and ppl are trying to show her in pics w this one guy, imply she was cheating etc, using him for fame like? ok? that doesn’t mean what wyf did is right? anyhow. the court case filed by wyf’s team never went @ gina. this has led many cnetz to question why he doesn’t sue the main source of the problem if it was fake?

i know some fans will try and discredit what im saying bc im not his fan etc but all i’m doing is translating what’s happening and i don’t believe it’s right to shield men/anyone over this. you can still be his fan?? just don’t defend someone when they obviously fucked up?

tldr: this is a girl, 6years younger, being led on and believing they’re dating, that this is more than sex (obv it’s not), she isn’t a groupie (as some ppl are trying to just chalk it up to), a man she was dating suddenly disappeared, she wants to know why, finds out that he may have cheated on her with other girls. this is the crux. calling her a ‘snitch’, ‘whore’ etc because of this is so ugly…..

[b93822170-deactivated20221123]

Why you dropping wyf tho what did he do to deserve this?

its a mess hes basically been fucking a 19 yr old girl chns girl from vancouver named gina nd telling her he loved her nd being rlly controlling nd nasty when he was only w her 2 fuck… hes been messing around w a bunch of girls too but he rlly made her believe they were dating nd she posted a bunch of their convos on weibo if u read chinese https://m.douban.com/group/topic/87439812/ hes just rlly gross nd ugly towards women in general hes been tht way for a while nd im done w him

[taovevo]

wow…ok nope bye. how can someone be this gross? if u wanna just fuck then dont give mixed signals n say u love her n keep stringing her along when it’s SO obvious that she thinks its more than sex……unless the only reason u cld get her to have sex with u is if u lied n made it more than it was……then…..that’s gross, manipulative n ive lost all respect.

[taovevo]

so...beautiful…just…ethereal

[zaynohno]

@itssimplylena 😭😭😭😭 he outdid himself, I'm about to keel over is2g

[zaynohno]

Ghosting in to say Mind of Mine just blew my fucking mind. I love Zayn.

[zaynohno]

*goes on tumblr after a decade of ghosting* *sees people are more insufferable than ever*

[thelanguiddreamer]

I'm an idiot (die hard ztan) who got mad at his first tweet lmao but it makes sense now what he meant, maybe it was just worded like he was being sarcastic or something when he wasn't, glad to see he isn't that much of a fuckboy! I think some of us might take this whole 'be sure to always call out your fave on their problematic behaviour!!' thing a bit too far lol

Not to be harsh, I’m saying this to be real, but yes, you all do take this call-out culture too far and over-project on people, often without bothering to actually read what they’re saying. And maybe he could’ve worded it differently or written a 5-page dissertation but the fact that we live in a world where that’s necessary is absurd. It’s not cute tbh, and I’m sick of it when it’s Zayn stans that do it the loudest because you will drive him away from social media and I wouldn’t blame him one bit. Like none of this shit is that serious but y’all make it serious and it’s boring now.

There are so many reasons to call him out. But in the last week alone, Zayn stans (not anyone else) have attacked him for doing what he wants with his body, a tweet and cutting his own damn hair. Like, enough, y’all. Enough.

[littlehailang]

1/? gifs of tao looking completely stunning in black hair. 

[princess-rishfish]

I’m gonna like die or something.

[fyzitao]

@黄子韬ZTAO工作室

[ztaohs]

2016/01/12 congrats to Huang Zitao on winning the Most Influential Male Singer at 2015 Mobile Video Festival Awards

[ztaohs]

me when anyone tryna wake me up

[zaynohno]

While I know I was into 1D for Zayn, I didn't think I'd come to hate the other four as much as I do now tbqh.

[bpinkgyeom]

I don’t understand why people turn Zayn tweets into ‘an indirect towards the boys’ or turning it into a ziam thing like??? Zayn’s life doesn’t revolve about 1D

[triharrytops]

i love liam experimenting with new music styles and subjects without denouncing all his previous music as uncool, how novel

[1999gorl]

maybe its bc he’s still in the band lmao and his songs were actually on their albums lol and enjoys making that music and got to be creative while being in the band lmao

[hobisdaydreams-deactivated20180]

tho you dont love liam enough to appreciate his music without making a snide jab at zayn good job nice 2 know ur as obsessed as i am

[samebutzayn]

since when is deeming a certain genre of music ‘uncool’ or not someone’s preference being dismissive or snide about said music? i don’t understand 1d fans trying to negate everything that zayn has explicitly said since he left the band- he wasn’t creatively fulfilled in the way that he’d wanted but appreciated the journey nonetheless. he’s never tried to belittle the music they made or dismiss the fans that loved their music either.