Ronnie Murrill, Public Speaker, Life Coach

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Ronnie (@rlmurril.bsky.social)

I’m curious about life, people, and the way connections and relationships are formed. What are your thoughts about your relationship with th

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A factor in the discontentment from being shut in during this stint with confinement comes from boredom and inactivity. Just sitting on your universal griping spot, doing no active construction about how bad things you feel things are in your corner of the universe is never going to bring you happiness. Sonja Lyubomirsky said, "If we observe genuinely happy people, we shall find that they do not just sit around being contented." They make things happen. They pursue new understandings, seek new achievements, and control their thoughts and feelings. In sum, the voluntary, effortful action-oriented activities have a powerful effect on how happy we are, over and above the impact of our circumstances that we find difficult to adjust to daily. Think about this; don't just sit there waiting for conditions to change; reorganize your thinking and do something about your life to make it better. Take ownership of your thinking and happiness. You in charge of your contentment. Make a decision to plant yourself in the right place for the best outcome. Life coaching provides the opportunity to bridge a to self-understanding to find your solutions. As a part of coaching, I am a Everything DiSC Authorized Partner, a Wiley brand. I am certified to provide training solutions for individuals, groups, organizations, managers, teams, and conflicts. My goal is to provide best practices for each solution. Contact me for more information today. #coaching #awareness #transformation #consulting #lifecoaching #amazing #purpose #significance #meaning #relationships #courageous #fear #selfcare #change #positivepsychologycoaching #happiness #emotionalintelligence #attunement Ronnie L. Murrill, Life Coach, Consultant Follow me at https://organizationalchangesolutions.com/conact-me

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Relationships are the unique setting to stage our personal growth, although they typically create some amount of disturbances and challenges. Have you ever found yourself in the stormy kind of relationship that leaves you feeling frustrated and wondering how you can live a life without entangled relationships? The nuclear option is cutting ties with everyone and everything distasteful in life, but that doesn't always work very well. The problem for many people is that they haven't learned that in life and relationships, we teach people how to treat us by what we tolerate. So, detangling relationships begin by making good choices for our benefit. Start with being an authentic person. Determine to be yourself, emotionally mature enough to know when to say no and decide how you are going to participate in relationships. Detach from the emotional consequences of other people's choices or preferences. Being free means letting go of someone else's idea about how life should be, other's expectations, and coming to terms with what is best for your life. Detaching means releasing someone else's emotional agenda and responding freely. Emotionally mature people have a positive attitude and don't have to please everyone or feel like a worm when they don't. If your circle of relationships expects you to conform to their every wish, they need a come to Jesus talk. People who want to grow their relationships can develop a plan with a coach that best fits their life. Life coaching provides the opportunity to bridge a to self-understanding to find your solutions. As a part of coaching, I am an Everything DiSC Authorized Partner, a Wiley brand. I am certified to provide training solutions for individuals, groups, organizations, managers, teams, and conflicts. My goal is to provide the best practices for each solution. Contact me for more information today. #coaching #awareness #transformation #consulting #lifecoaching #amazing #purpose #significance #meaning #relationships #courageous #fear #selfcare #change #positivepsychologycoaching #happiness #emotionalintelligence #attunement Ronnie L. Murrill, Life Coach-consultant https://organizationalchangesolutions.com (at Cleveland, Tennessee) https://www.instagram.com/p/B9NYoj2BLyj/?igshid=1u1joluvfj2k6

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When it comes down to the moment when we need to know who is in our corner, understanding the power of personal connections can change the outcome of our lives. Certainly, it is important to understand connection as an energy existing between people that shows up as they feel seen, heard, and valued. It is when you know you are safe and you are with your people where you belong. When people feel connected, there is the potential for the exchange of open communication without fear. When a connection exists, people form trusted bonds and receive sustenance feel secure because of the relationship. Unfortunately, secure connections are not available in many places that you would expect. Everyone cannot hear your story and connect, so choose secure, vital, life-giving connections who will contribute to the well-being of your life. Be sure to invest in building life-affirming connections in your life and business that feed your soul and work with the power that comes from secure relationships with people who bring you life. Life coaching provides the opportunity to bridge a to self-understanding to find your solutions. As a part of coaching, I am a Everything DiSC Authorized Partner, a Wiley brand. I am certified to provide training solutions for individuals, groups, organizations, managers, teams, and conflicts. My goal is to provide best practices for each solution. Contact me for more information today. #coaching #awareness #transformation #consulting #lifecoaching #amazing #purpose #significance #meaning #relationships #courageous #fear #selfcare #change #positivepsychologycoaching #happiness #emotionalintelligence #attunement Ronnie L. Murrill, Life Coach-consultant https://organizationalchangesolutions.com https://www.instagram.com/p/B89Qx57HRyc/?igshid=1g99rhc13de7b

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What about the moment in life when things happen that are so profound that it’s like a window of awareness opened that seems to change a life forever. The impact of thought-provoking moments is the opportunity to gain something helpful about the content of life and experience lucidity resulting in learning that is more focused upon living that brings attention to this place in life. Daniel Goleman said, “We learn best with focused attention. As we focus on what we're learning, the brain maps that information on what we already know making new neural connections.” When new connections are made in the mind, introductions are made to information that means life can never be the same and a path must be narrowed to be effectively lived. Transformational moments of clarity often coming through life lessons speak loudly with a message that words could never articulate so it could be understood and bring surprising destinations. Being courageous is being that person who is present when those situations happen and the person learns to lean into things that suck about life with a willingness to think about responses to fear and the armor people normally put on preventing vulnerability from fully being embraced. Brené Brown said, “Authenticity is the daily practice of letting go of who we think we're supposed to be and embracing who we are.” Having the courage to show up in the difficult scenes of life and taking off the armor and exposing the thoughts, emotions, and behaviors we use to protect our lives allows living with vulnerability and the potential to embrace who we really are in life situations. Life coaching provides the opportunity to bridge a to self-understanding to find your solutions. As a part of coaching, I am a Everything DiSC Authorized Partner, a Wiley brand. I am certified to provide training solutions for individuals, groups, organizations, managers, teams, and conflicts. My goal is to provide best practices for each solution. Contact me for more information today. #coaching #awareness #transformation #consulting #lifecoaching #amazing #purpose #significance #meaning #relationships #courageous #fear #selfcare #change #positivepsychologycoaching #happiness #emotionalintelligence #attunement Ronnie L. Murrill, Life Coach-consultant http://organizationalchangesolutions.com

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Often, people with different personalities and perspectives about things disagree and some wonder why do people have such passionate views that seem to disagree. In fact, two people can see the same thing, disagree, and yet both be right at times. It's not logical; it's psychological, and it's what people believe to be true. Some people have difficulty accepting what others passionately believe, but ideals and perceptions are created through the way emotions are processed, a schema is organized into perception in the mind, and judgments are formed. People attribute meaning to people, events, objects, fact, observation, emotional stimuli, sensory input, and other things experienced in life. Often, attribution is incorrect ill informed, full of bias, and not well reasoned. However, it should be noted that human observations are not absolute, infinite, or immutable and always should be considered subjective. While one view of life is important to the person who holds it, there may be other things to consider or other ways to look at something normally viewed from a binary perspective. Consequently, when considering the fallibility of human opinion, It might be helpful to stop and consider whose glasses are being looked through to get to a point of view or is it important enough to invest time considering. Life coaching provides the opportunity to bridge a to self-understanding to find your solutions. As a part of coaching, I am a Everything DiSC Authorized Partner, a Wiley brand. I am certified to provide training solutions for individuals, groups, organizations, managers, teams, and conflicts. My goal is to provide best practices for each solution. Contact me for more information today. #coaching #awareness #transformation #consulting #lifecoaching #amazing #purpose #significance #meaning #relationships #courageous #fear #selfcare #change #positivepsychologycoaching #happiness #emotionalintelligence #attunement Ronnie L. Murrill, Life Coach-consultant http://organizationalchangesolutions.com (at Cleveland, Tennessee) https://www.instagram.com/p/B77qwcVhfAx/?igshid=10ijkjwjqxi8i

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Bertrand Russell said, “We have to learn to put up with the fact that some people say things we don’t like.” In fact, it is not what people say that is important or that we don’t like it. It is how we feel about it and what we do about it that makes a difference. The learning curve is what people do about what they feel so often. It is that ‘Inside-Out’ approach to personal and interpersonal effectiveness means people must begin with themselves, not with the offensive thing someone else said. Start with the inner part of the self, with paradigms, your character, and your motives. The inside-out approach is one that understands that private victories precede public victories, that making and keeping promises to ourselves precedes making and keeping promises to others. It is futile to put personality ahead of character, to try to improve relationships with others before improving ourselves. What we do shows who we really are from the inside out. Life coaching provides the opportunity to bridge a to self-understanding to find your solutions. As a part of coaching, I am a Everything DiSC Authorized Partner, a Wiley brand. I am certified to provide training solutions for individuals, groups, organizations, managers, teams, and conflicts. My goal is to provide best practices for each solution. Contact me for more information today. #coaching #awareness #transformation #consulting #lifecoaching #amazing #purpose #significance #meaning #relationships #courageous #fear #selfcare #change #positivepsychologycoaching #happiness #emotionalintelligence #attunement 
Ronnie L. Murrill, Life Coach-consultant https://organizationalchangesolutions.com (at Cleveland, Tennessee)
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Fortunately, sooner or later the awareness sets in those things you have to face in life do not go away. Problems in life are developmental, sometimes divine appointments created by the ebb and flow of life as it has been lived. A hard truth is that most adult problems come to life and bring an opportunity for development that might not otherwise arise because of a series of choices or conditions in life. The direction the solutions take is in a potential person someone might become that is waiting on the other side of problems when the right choices are made. Problems are a time when individuals must develop resilience to work through their emotional states about having problems that seem unfair, overwhelming, or even embarrassing. The problems that come to life are situations that come to bring a chance to learn to stretch a little further and grow as a person. Consequently, whatever pops up in life's inbox must be worked through or else it remains forever a barrier to the growth and development of the spirit and will be the sounding. Life coaching provides the opportunity to bridge a to self-understanding to find your solutions. As a part of coaching, I am a Everything DiSC Authorized Partner, a Wiley brand. I am certified to provide training solutions for individuals, groups, organizations, managers, teams, and conflicts. My goal is to provide best practices for each solution. Contact me for more information today. #coaching #awareness #transformation #consulting #lifecoaching #amazing #purpose #significance #meaning #relationships #courageous #fear #selfcare #change #positivepsychologycoaching #happiness #emotionalintelligence #attunement Ronnie L. Murrill, Life Coach-consultant https:/organizationalchangesolutions.com (at Cleveland, Tennessee) https://www.instagram.com/p/B7t_YRbBlWc/?igshid=1hnixr888cf39

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Learning to communicate differently with people in an effective manner and getting to the next level where people respond requires ending something and leaving it behind about the way we use words in conversations. Learning new things that are more effective often means stopping, thinking, and, and moving on because there is a better way of responding. In fact, growth demands that we move on from dead spots where there is no signal in life and no real communication. However, without knowing a hopeful destination, self-awareness, clarity, and the ability to overcome obstacles; forward movement can slip through the fingers quickly. People can quickly lose the ability to end things and remain stuck, never becoming who they are meant to be, never accomplishing all that their talents and abilities should afford them. Henry Cloud said. “When you encourage someone, it literally changes their brain chemistry to be able to perform... it sends fuel to the brain. Wouldn’t you like to be one of those people? Contact me today for a discovery call and learn a way to become a positive person who can harness your own strengths to become the person God designed you to be. That’s what life coaching does, it builds the bridge to self-understanding. As a part of coaching, I am a Everything DiSC Authorized Partner, a Wiley brand. I am certified to provide training solutions for individuals, groups, organizations, managers, teams, and conflicts. My goal is to provide best practices for each solution. Contact me for more information today. #coaching #awareness #transformation #consulting #lifecoaching #amazing #purpose #significance #meaning #relationships #courageous #fear #selfcare #change #positivepsychologycoaching #happiness #emotionalintelligence #attunement Ronnie L. Murrill, Life Coach-Consultant https:/organizationalchangesolutions.com (at Cleveland, Tennessee) https://www.instagram.com/p/B7rgMXnl2cg/?igshid=avhmo7q709tk

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Personal development is not for everyone and usually, only people who are motivated will take the necessary steps to change things in life without taking specific growth steps. However, people often feel stuck, lack awareness, and need a plan that asks the right questions. If you would like smarter goals, coaching can help you move in a clear direction toward purpose. Change begins with growth steps, to break loose from a place that you feel stuck consider what Henry Cloud said, "To get greater than 100% return on a growth step, give up defensiveness. Defensiveness stifles performance, and destroys relationships." That’s what life coaching does, it builds the bridge to self-understanding. As a part of coaching, I am a Everything DiSC Authorized Partner, a Wiley brand. I am certified to provide training solutions for individuals, groups, organizations, managers, teams, and conflicts. My goal is to provide best practices for each solution. Contact me for more information today. #coaching #awareness #transformation #consulting #lifecoaching #amazing #purpose #significance #meaning #relationships #courageous #fear #selfcare #change #positivepsychologycoaching #happiness #emotionalintelligence #attunement Ronnie L. Murrill, Life Coach-Consultant https://organizationalchangesolutions.com (at Cleveland, Tennessee) https://www.instagram.com/p/B7e9ei0l8rJ/?igshid=k1q47p8y6q5r

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Rescuing people in our orbit from the natural consequences of disabling attitudes, words, decisions and behaviors, leaves the problem of no opportunity for the person to generate effective solutions for themselves. When a rescue takes place from poor choices and ineffective behavior leaves a gap in life, there is no power available for a rescued person to learn to deal with challenges or ineffective decisions in their life space. Sooner or later, every person must take ownership of their own words, attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors or the choices will take ownership of them and destroy them. The result of others taking ownership rescuing results in further pain compounding a problem requiring the painful step requiring letting others learn to solve their own problems instead of running to the rescue to save them from personal pain. Not allowing others to deal with problems or foolish decisions from recurring challenges to maturity says something about the rescuer and their beliefs about the rescued. But, ultimately it says something about the willingness to leave matters in the hands of God, no matter how far things get beyond our control. That’s what life coaching does, it builds the bridge to self-understanding. As a part of coaching, I am a Everything DiSC Authorized Partner, a Wiley brand. I am certified to provide training solutions for individuals, groups, organizations, managers, teams, and conflicts. My goal is to provide best practices for each solution. Contact me for more information today. #coaching #awareness #transformation #consulting #lifecoaching #amazing #purpose #significance #meaning #relationships #courageous #fear #selfcare #change #positivepsychologycoaching #happiness #emotionalintelligence #attunement Ronnie L. Murrill, Life Coach-Consultant http://organizationalchangesolutions.com (at Cleveland, Tennessee) https://www.instagram.com/p/B7bxyaKF2gv/?igshid=1egyi31qt0974

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Fitting in is a low rent, short-term approach to life that makes life easy with people who have little interest in your well-being in the first place. It is a strategy that gets you nowhere and gives someone else the satisfaction of reaching their goal for your life. Standing out is making a decision to have a long-term strategy that takes the will and determination to get things done. Decide to stand out and produce and produce results. Conversations with a Life Coach is about you seeing That’s what life coaching does, it builds the bridge to self-understanding. As a part of coaching, I am a Everything DiSC Authorized Partner, a Wiley brand. I am certified to provide training solutions for individuals, groups, organizations, managers, teams, and conflicts. My goal is to provide best practices for each solution. Contact me for more information today. #coaching #awareness #transformation #consulting #lifecoaching #amazing #purpose #significance #meaning #relationships #courageous #fear #selfcare #change #positivepsychologycoaching #happiness #emotionalintelligence #attunement 
Ronnie L. Murrill, Life Coach-Consultant http://organizationalchangesolutions.com (at Cleveland, Tennessee)
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Happy 2020, It's going to be a great year. Thanks for your friendship and support, Contact me for more information today. #coaching #awareness #transformation #consulting #lifecoaching #amazing #purpose #significance #meaning #relationships #courageous #fear #selfcare #change #positivepsychologycoaching #happiness #emotionalintelligence #attunement Ronnie L. Murrill, Life Coach-Consultant http://organizationalchangesolutions.com (at Cleveland, Tennessee) https://www.instagram.com/p/B6w-nxHlIYr/?igshid=euec1lso9sw2

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Circumstances are temporary developments, but character lasts forever. Often it seems like circumstances are never-ending and temptation often bears up life. For those facing temptation, facing the fatal temptation to give up and quit trying from C.S. Lewis, Letters, January 20, 1942, underscores the challenge between circumstances and character. “I know all about the despair of overcoming chronic temptation. It is not serious, provided self-offended petulance, annoyance at breaking records, impatience, etc., don’t get the upper hand. No amount of falls will really undo us if we keep picking ourselves up each time...The only fatal thing is to lose one’s temper and give up.” Something to consider when the temptation to give up is overwhelming is where do we want to end up in our circumstances. Think about what obstacles are you facing that may keep you from the place you want to be? What steps can be nailed down today to foster feelings of assurance that you will not be sidetracked today? If you want to develop a smarter goal to get there, contact me today about how you can develop a plan based on your character and strengths. That’s what life coaching does, it builds the bridge to self-understanding. As a part of coaching, I am a Everything DiSC Authorized Partner, a Wiley brand. I am certified to provide training solutions for individuals, groups, organizations, managers, teams, and conflicts. My goal is to provide best practices for each solution. Contact me for more information today. #coaching #awareness #transformation #consulting #lifecoaching #amazing #purpose #significance #meaning #relationships #courageous #fear #selfcare #change #positivepsychologycoaching #happiness #emotionalintelligence #attunement Ronnie L. Murrill, Life Coach-Consultant http://organizationalchangesolutions.com (at Cleveland, Tennessee) https://www.instagram.com/p/B6wB_9RFH-U/?igshid=1ulwxvgfestnf

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Merry Christmas to al my friends and followers. I hope your life is filled with joy and a love for life. Call me if you need a coach. (at Cleveland, Tennessee) https://www.instagram.com/p/B6fVZYElxve/?igshid=h3oak8wfsmlk

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Seth Godin says, The only thing worse than starting something and failing... is not starting something that you want to do. There are days that all you can do is just do the best you can to get it all done. But then there are those leftover tasks. This is the time of year to think about wrapping life up for 2018 and getting a plan for next year. If you're interested in developing a plan for next year, next week, or even tomorrow; join my facebook group and join the discussion as we prepare to talk about smarter goals for 2019. https://www.facebook.com/groups/2135450400084362/?source_id=1524762311122207 https://organizationalchangesolutions.com (at Cleveland, Tennessee) https://www.instagram.com/p/B6G2NimlKz8/?igshid=1l8kztay16xbr

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