yes you CAN create ur own opportunities instead of simply waiting for them. luck can be manufactured! take courses, start going out and putting yourself in new environments, be CURIOUS. how many times have u struck up conversation with someone new?
i know it seems intimidating but the more you do it, the more you'll build stamina for it. putting yourself out there is a skill and just like any other skill you have to build it. the more things u do, the more things u educate yourself on -> the more opportunities will be known to you.
MAKE A GREAT INTRODUCTION ;
how are you introducing yourself? learn how to introduce yourself effectively and not in a generic way. in a way that sets you apart and makes you unique. this is essential for networking. remember girls, ur network is ur networth.
the main thing i have to say when making ur great introduction is to ensure that u appear with confident demeanor. this is very important and it's going to resonate most with people and set you apart.
LEVERAGE YOUR APPEARANCE ;
listen dollies, appearance does matter. but not more than your brain. humans are visual creatures so naturally they'll judge you based on how you look and how you present yourself, but what makes a lasting judgement is whats in ur head.
let your appearance open the door for you, and ur mind be what keeps you in there. to look your best and leverage your appearance you just have to study yourself and not be lazy.
THINGS TO KNOW ABOUT YOURSELF IN ORDER TO LEVERAGE YOUR APPEARANCE ;
â¤ď¸ face shape/eye shape/lip shape/nose shape
â¤ď¸ do you have thin or thick skin
â¤ď¸ cool vs. warm colors? bright vs. muted colors? which colors enhance u vs. drain you?
â¤ď¸ focal points in ur face
â¤ď¸ body shape and how to dress for it
â¤ď¸ your proportions
REVERSE ENGINEER ;
find the top three people who are doing what you want to do. what is your dream? what is your goal? do you wanna be a successful business woman? find 3 people who are successful in the realm of business where you wanna be, and reverse enginner how they got to the point they're at.
literally stalk what they did and repeat. piece together a blueprint based on their actions. find out what that person did to get there and do it too, in your OWN way. success really isn't so hard when u look it like that.
so what did we learn today ladies? to be a winner u should create ur own opportunities, study others, study yourself, and gain leverage. easy peasy...đŹđ
the more i watch the righteous gemstones the more iâm convinced that keefe thinks he is in a 24/7 d/s kink relationship with kelvin that kelvin is completely unaware of
Űśŕ§ ďš Ý Guys itâs okay to feel like shifting is hard.
Let it out. Itâs best to let it out so you donât hold it in. Feelings are not the truth, but they are existent. The best way to shift (imo) is by letting the thoughts go and allowing yourself to not accept them as the truth.
Think of thoughts like theories. You never really know if theyâre real or not. Some people choose to believe the earth is flat, some people donât. It doesnât matter if the earth is flat or not, what matters is if you believe youâre on it. Same thing with shifting.
It doesnât matter if you think shifting is impossible or not, what matters is if you accept the thought or not.
Shift because you accept your desired reality. Letting thoughts eat you up will only exhaust you.
What I believe best is that you control your mind. Thatâs why meditation is prominent in the shifting realm. It gives you better leeway to control your mind.
Another thing, most of us are overthinking everything. I know I get that way. I see many of you getting that way as well.
The best thing to do is to accept those thoughts as just bubbles that can be popped or can fall to the ground and pop themselves. It's all a selection process.
"I can't shift, what am I even doing?" *đŤ§đŤ§đŤ§*
"Wait I don't even have to believe this!" *bubble pops onto the ground*
That's how simple all of this is! You donât have to accept anything that you donât want to!
Iâm never going to sit here and tell you to ignore your thoughts because that is going to do nothing for you in all honesty. Ignoring how you feel and what you think will only suppress those things.
Accept thoughts that you believe should be accepted.
Let those who are unsolicited POP! You deserve to accept what you deserve. And that my friend, is a good experience.
Have you ever been so discouraged because your manifestations hadn't yet materialized in 3D that you began to doubt and think that manifestation doesn't exist? Well, that's where I am now, I don't know what to do đ
well hello!!
i've doubted myself and things many times, that's absurdly normal, but i personally don't subscribe to the idea of waiting for things to "materialise in the 3d." i don't like the implication that things have to lag and that there's any waiting time. you can have everything instantly. poof. there you go. yours now. accept it. all i personally do is expect it to happen and it does </3 even when i have doubts, i know the doubts are the part that are unrealistic, not getting my desires. literally tell your brain to shut up if it tells you anything else.
i've never thought manifestation was fake, i've been here too long, but imo a good way to push past the doubts is to practise with small things. tell yourself you'll see something specific next time you open an app. tell yourself your favourite song will start playing. and watch how it does.
sorry, i know this has been in my inbox for ages but i never looked. oops. đđ
If imagination is the one true reality, then why are you still depending on the physical to tell you what you have or don't have. If imagination is the only truth there is, that means everything that exists outside of it is false. That means that the physical reality is false. So why are you still in the big 2026 using the physical to tell you what is true for you or not.
If it's in your imagination (everything and anything is possible in imagination) then it is true. The moment you are aware of your "desires." The moment your desired reality comes into your awareness then that is the truth. Anything outside of that is false. Nothing else is required. It is done. Creation is finished.
ok guys I need help .. i used to want an sp whoâs a bad person but heâs just so mf fine to me but like I rlly donât wanna date him heâs just so sexy đ
ok this is my sign for you to NOT accept what you donât want. trust yourself. donât have a plan b. YOU ARE THE ONLY SOURCE!! thereâs nothing outside of u.
Originally I wanted these spikes (the yellow ones) and I was âmanifestingâ those, my mom bought me new spikes but I was scared she wouldnât buy them bc of the price. (Theyâre 200). So I settled for another model & colorway, it came too small so I decided to tell her about the original ones I wanted!
She bought them, they came within 2 days. Theyâre perf n I love them.
