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Can anyone experienced with Solar Return charts share insights on what my 2026 Solar Return might bring? Thank you!!
I checked my 2024 solar return chart and everything seems pretty okay until I see some intense 8th house placements... (Jupiter, North Node, Vertex, Chiron)
If anyone has some experience or knowledge about the chart, please share with me since I am honestly worried. Thank you very much!
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Intro to North Nodes & South Nodes in Astrology
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⊹ ⋆゚꒰ఎ ♥︎ ໒꒱ ⋆゚North node represents the mission we were brought upon in this universe. It represents the gift, talents, graceful lessons & etc, that will be brought upon for our highest good. In the other hand we have the south node which if you believe in past lives can tell you a bit about your past live and the natural abilities that were brought upon but also things we have to let go to ascend. So in a simple way the south node represents the gifts you have an easy time managing and putting to it’s best use but also represents your toxic ways that need to let go but you may have the tendencies to go back to.
⊹ ⋆゚꒰ఎ ♥︎ ໒꒱ ⋆゚South node synastry can represent karmic relationships usually you learn lessons from these connections. So look at the sign of your south node and the house sign ruler for what signs these natives may be. You may have a love- hate relationship with them because they trigger things you need to move on from but they feel like home to you. (Most powerful is conjuct)
⊹ ⋆゚꒰ఎ ♥︎ ໒꒱ ⋆゚North node in synastry represents similar things but usually more so in a positive note it can represent that the native will have a powerful impact on you towards your goal and they are someone you won’t forget ever, they help you towards your best self and it feels like you were destined to meet each other. (Most powerful is conjuct)
(In regards to synastry for example if you have Libra north node libra placements will impact you as the ways listed above) & same for the south node sign.
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North Node in the houses
ʚ ɞ Calculate your North Node here.
North Node in 1st: Here the native is on a road to creating and finding themselves. It is quite common that throughout the person’s life that they will be judged for who they are & may received not asked opinions from others. They may feel headless at some point because they may not know who they are at a point in their lives, they’ll try everything to find themselves & experimenting but may have trouble sticking to something. Though this gives them the gift of being quite experimental and open to whatever comes across their path. They are not the type to judge others for being themselves as they deeply value originality. Opposing the 7th house they may attract jealousy often especially because of something about themselves it could be their talent or something in their physical body that stands out and makes open enemies jealous, usually there is something about the native that sticks out since the beginning of their life if not they find something they love and cherish may attract jealousy and criticism because of it. People with this placement are commonly successful since a young age they may have had to grow up and become more independent and to choose themselves over others because they can easily get addicted to relationships & validations that would be their downfall. They need to let go of validation from external sources but themselves & to not be so critical on themselves. These natives have the natural ability to be charming & can navigate well with people and can have luck on their side on getting out of things.
North Node in 2nd: These people have a very good talents of being resourceful. These are the type of people who pride themselves on being unbothered as they would work on achieving things & working on themselves and their habits. Opposing the 8th house old traits & things to let go of do not come so easy for the native. They may have to let go of troubles with intimacy & the native tends to have hard time trusting others because they may also have a hard time trusting themselves. They need to learn that they have themselves because they can easily go into periods of times where they are in despair and do not ask for help or guidance. They have big chances this lifetime of being quite wealthy because of their abilities of being so resourceful and hardworking when manifested well. If they want something they can get it they just have to believe in themselves. Some of these natives hop around jobs & income sources for a while until they find the source that fits them to dedicate themselves too. They can be quite guarded and maybe even closed off individuals because they may be afraid of getting hurt or being taken advantage of with what they have obtained. Transformation follows them throughout this lifetime events that may shake them up a bit but they will rise again. They may be able to make work out of their trauma. In a negative note, they may work for the case needed to survive and etc. Natives have a natural alluring aura that others can’t help but notice and be drawn to it. It’s ideal that they protect their energy.
North Node in 3rd: The natives with this placement are incredibly objectively intelligent and knowledgable. It’s not surprising if a lot of astrology enthusiasts / astrologers have this placement as they seek for knowledge and things that stimulates their mind almost daily. The native may have to work on focusing on tasks more efficiently as they may easily get distracted with other things along their path. The native has the immense potential to develop being a great communicator / immense communication skills this lifetime. Others may be drawn to their words & sayings and may even get inspired by their words. Their words are their power and may be interested in stuff like reading and etc. May have a karmic lesson with siblings & may be important this lifetime. You may be always seeking for the truth but sometimes they may not bring you peace but anxiety let go of things and answers you don’t have control over.. because you always want to figure out things which is a blessing but can backfire your mental health. The native will hop around with interests and activities until they find one that suits them completely. You need to let go of being secretly a bit stubborn with your belief system you may think you’re always right because of your knowledge. Native is very persuasive.
North Node in 4th: The natives with this placement are very private individuals especially when it’s regarding about their own path. They are the type to keep their goals hidden until it’s achieved because they know how others may try to send them bad energy because of it. They may be exposed to the public light at some point in their lives but they are not always the most comfortable with it. The native may have a tendency to deal with their emotions in a unhealthy way usually specifically they may surpress them and ignore them because of the opposition to the 10th house. The native is blessed with natural feelings of being able to feel things correctly with their intuition they just have to grow the confidence with it and with this they may even help others with these gifts. The mother could have impacted them usually more in a positive note & the mother or a feminine figure could’ve helped them on their path with their wisdom. They may have some family members that are quite known. The natives this lifetime focus on the root of themselves. The foundation of their emotions & their way of love which is why they strongly benefit from self-care. Because of this they are very selective with their emotional friend groups. The native this lifetime becomes more aware of their subconscious patterns and may become more connected to their heritage & have a special bond with their grandparents and they could have guided them. Overall this is a very good placement objectively.
North Node in 5th: The natives with this placement are filled with bundles of joy & love inside of them. They know how it feels to feel left out or not treated the way they should be treated so they go out of their way to make others feel loved and supported as they subconsciously seek love and support as well. Opposing the 11th house the native may find themselves having karmic lessons with friendships & friends that could not be so trustworthy to the native it could be a bad pattern to go back to where they used to feel as if they fitted in even if it’s not good for them in the long run. This lifetime is to let themselves destress & have some fun for the sake of their health as they can be someone who puts a lot of effort in the higher good but may forget to let themselves have a little bit of fun and be a bit reckless as well. The native will find themselves being drawn to creative pursuits this lifetime as well as entertainment pursuits. Being creative is something that will come usually easily to the native or at least something prominent in their life. You see this placement in artists or entertainers or something creative and talented. The natives are blessed with obvious imaginative creative skills. The native is also extremely attractive and beautiful to others. Casual sex may also be a theme of their life. The native will also get the taste of romance this lifetime they may find themselves in love situations often this could come in the forms of friendships. They may experiment with love situations. They should let go off patterns of just only believing in faith instead of actively working towards their goal they may also hide what they called “weirdness” because they may wanna feel validated often.
North Node in 6th: Here the native has a talent of being logical and detail oriented. Since the native may have the gift of seeing beneath the bigger picture effortlessly, they may get carried away with small details and may have a hard time loosing control over things they don’t have control over as they may need a sense of control in their life in order to feel good. The native is easily respected and may love to help others with their best efforts but this can make them easily drained as it opposes the 12th house. The native is extremely vulnerable to energy unless well protected as they love to give and give. They are truly a selfless soul. The native may have the tendency to be a bit hard on themselves so they learn this life-time about self improvement instead of just seeing themselves as a “failure” or “worthless” as they can easily fall into a prisioned mindest. The native may be the type to be into diets & work out routines or at least idealize it but may have a hard time completely committing themselves to something. The native may have spiritual and intuitive gifts that can be carried from a past life and they will have it with them to aid them but they may have the tendency to not use their intuitive & spiritual gifts to it’s best maximized potential. The native may have tendencies to retreat from the world when they completely loose control over things. You’re quite the healer and you can heal others and yourself. Make sure to remember to nurture and care of your body and it’s nutrition and health. Since you’re so mystically selfless you may not know when to stop or give yourself a break. People tend to love your energy.
North Node in 7th: In this life-time the native’s focus is regarding their relationships with individuals and others. They may encounter connections that may test them but ultimately helps them ascend. The native is gifted individualism and independence from a past life but this can also come in the hands of being a little too detached because of this they learn this life-time to try to let others in even if it’s slowly. They may have not had a lot of people or friends in their past- life time so it’s a theme in this life-time. They value people who support them and don’t have time to play games. They may find themselves meeting all types of people & committed romantic relationship(s) are often found with this placement and the native is gifted with a higher chance of having a great marriage and relationship ultimately because of their shifting to commitment with others. However since they will try to achieve putting themselves out there this lifetime they may experienced open enemies and jealousy from others and this may effect them effectively. The native will work on being more open this life-time but they will never forget that they only got themselves in the end of the day. In some cases the native may strongly desire marriage and union with someone or/and being a lawyer. The individual may easily get extremely liked by others with their natural charm to handle conflict. They are quite peaceful but if they start something they’ll finish it.
North Node in 8th: In this lifetime the native may be guided onto a spiritual occult path. The native may find themselves naturally drawn to darker subjects maybe even tabboo subjects. From my research, a lot of witches / tarot readers / certified psychics have this placement & even great astrologers because of their way of being able to see things so intensely and beneath the surface. The native however may go through aching transformative experiences throughout life which can constantly regenerate who they are as a person and their beliefs which can make them a completely different person of who they were years ago. The native is blessed with the power of healing, they can heal others through pain and love but may struggle a bit with completely healing themselves and they could avoid the shadow work to do so. The native will be presented with important life- decisions constantly in life. The themes of death could be present in their life (it could mean literal death as it has a different approach in other cultures but also means new fresh starts as mentioned). The native will be gifted naturally of the power of being self-reliant and at some cases wealthy as it opposes the 2nd house. The native will find themselves in deep connections with others and themselves. The native life may have some themes of bonding-sex later on in life. The native has a way of captivating people with their attraction however this can cause some unwanted attention. The native may spends time being insecure of themselves and hiding themselves but then they unleash their talents onto the open and may even make money of their path and talents, I could go on about this placements for so long as it has so much to express.
North Node in 9th: The native this life-time will have a theme of finding the higher purpose to things the ultimate answer and truth seeker. The native can be quite the spiritual being and could be into things like meditation as for their routine. Since they’re so filled with wisdom at some point in their lives they may use it as a way to guide others and others will look up to them as someone respectable and worthy and praiseable. The native however may need to let go of the idea of always using logic to things as it opposes the 3rd house and let themselves feel completely free as their mind may have a hard time completely shutting off. The native may carry toxic mindsets from a past- life that are rather extremely pessimistic and harsh so they in this life-time work on a more realistic but optimistic approach to things especially regarding their mind and it’s thoughts. The native may be interested in travel and travel could be a big part of their life especially useful for their path they could get opportunities regarding travel however it could involve some sacrifice of leaving things behind for the greatest good. The native’s life-path may have quite the longevity. Teachers and gurus may inspire the native or they could become one themselves. They could want to publish their work or spiritual gifts to the public, they could even write books. The native however may have the tendencies of being quite scattered with their thoughts and organization and should work on details and organizing things. The native is blessed with great luck and fortune and abundance if the native believes in themselves. The native may be connected to their spirit guides and they will bring great guidance. While you may guide others make sure you take care of yourself first.
North Node in 10th: This placement gives the native a hard-working demeanor and ambitious traits. In a past life-time the native may have worked on their emotional interior and their roots which gives them natural intuitive gifts and an emotional nature but they may not utilize it to it’s best ability which could make them struggle with these areas later on due to it’s opposition to the 4th house. They may struggle listening to their natural gut instincts and would rather approach things in a logical manner strictly. The native will be blessed this life-time with incredible drive and learning towards being successful regarding their career-life. They may reach an extremely well reputable career. The native is extremely mature even since a young age among their peers which could make them come across as cold or too unbothered. They may have a guiding father figure or a masculine figure who helps them on their path. The native may seek recognition or they may at least find themselves getting it easily which could make them prone to rumors and gossip and people jealous of their achievements and reputation however they’re strong enough to face this. The native may become a great authority figure in life and could make others work for them or follow them easily. However, the native is still quite private about themselves even if they are on pubic display or well-known they would only reveal what it is needed to reveal so getting to know them is quite different than who they presented themselves to be which doesn’t have to be a bad thing. The native has a great attachment to their family but would learn to be more independent this life-time. They love in a heavenly way but would rather protect themselves than give it out so much. Don’t invade their privacy at any cost and this could be something that could interfere with them within their career is curious people about who they truly are.
North Node in 11th: The native this life-time will focus on building a community and helping others. These people are usually very well liked among their peers and could have the chance to even be “popular”. However as it opposes the 5th house the native may have tendencies to want constant validation from others and loose themselves in the process. The native has natural charisma and creative talents that they could use to their advantage. They could have good opportunities on the internet and clubs. They could put out their talents on the internet especially to help others. The native however may have the tendency to want attention or have a bit of an ego that is hard to crash. The native has an extremely kind nature which others may try to use so it’s important that they establish strict boundaries for themselves. The native this life-time will try to and has great ability to spread awareness on important manners. It takes time for these natives to find true friends until later on in life and they could even feel isolated at some point in their lives even if as mentioned before they could be “popular” they still may feel isolated inside. The native may use romance and love in a way to feel validated. The native will constantly put out love to the world hoping that they receive it back they may even develop a “no one will love me like I love” mentality. The native wants to serve a higher basis on the world they didn’t come to this universe for nothing. They have great ideas to accomplish their goals and they most likely will they just have to work on the consistency of working up to their goals as they could have the tendencies to just wanna relax and have fun often. The native later on in life develops a great origin that they were trying to find earlier on in life instead of trying to fit in which could ultimately attract copy-cats and people who are lost themselves. They would be extremely loved especially later on in- life.
North Node in 12th: The native is quite a complex individual and this is not a bad thing but I can go on about this individual and their magical talents. The native is too self-sacrificing and it could come to the points they are niceto individuals who wronged them or are their secret enemies and their independence and boundaries are something they work on this life-time to say “No, I do not accept this and I do not have time to always help you.” This placement is common with extreme intuitives and tarot readers though they may be insecure of their gift until later on in life they start exploring it more. The native may have the tendency to be quite hard on themselves as it opposites the 6th house of Virgo. The native has a great imagination and can even get lost in themselves quite easily especially through things regarding music and they may resort to escapism when things get tough especially. The native is blessed with being a hard-worker however this comes with a price they may be the type of people to develop a low-self mindset if something doesn’t go as perfect as they imagine as they may have idealistic expectations. The native may have hard time sticking to something in their life path and finding pure joy on it as their path could be blurred at some points, so advice is when you find something that you love don’t be hard on yourself and stick to it. They can easily make their desires and dreams come to life and in the dream world they could get hints of their future path. In this life-time they are constantly working through self-improvement which would make the figures in their life proud of them. It’s possible they have gone through quite a lot and they may express this throughout their career. They will heal others with their intuition or/and their gifts however they may have an extremely hard time with this themselves. One thing I’ve noticed about this placement is that jealous people want them to be quiet and once they start succeeding in what they love people want them to stop and this is because they attract extremely jealousy with what they do but these people may not reveal themselves until later on it’s the people you least expect at times. The native has spirit guides that will constantly give them signs of re-direction of their path so watch out for angel numbers and stuff like that or simply ask signs that you are on the right path to your spirit guides! Never miss out on any sign you see and trust your gut. Make sure you never hide any part of yourself in the fear of being judged or excluded. I truly love these people for being so self-less and giving make sure to drink water and stay healthy and never neglect yourself. The native has talents of connecting to the divine perfectly. Since this is the 12th house we are talking about this life-time is very important you could achieve something that could be very essential in the next life-time if there is one. The native is a great worker and this could be great for career and money matters so they may be surprised when they can actually take a break and relax, as they could be a very nervous person.
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North node aspects
ʚ ɞ North Node aspecting black moon Lilith- The native will break out of any expectations set by any authority. The native will not let anyone tell them anything on what they do and how they do it. The native will attract love-hate reactions and jealousy especially from feminine figures on their talent. Independence and rawness follows them. They won’t allow control over them.
ʚ ɞ North Node aspecting the Sun- Confidence and creativity will help the native succeed onto their path. Others may assume they don’t have insecurities. Will adapt to more Leo like traits. The native is a journey to self-love. The Father may guide them if it’s positive aspected. The native will achieve major accomplishments this life-time that won’t go unnoticed. They may have an ego.
ʚ ɞ North Node aspecting the Moon- The native will use their natural intuitive gifts and nurturing gifts to guide them. The native will focus on nurturing themselves and their body in this life-time. Their emotions are a big focus. If positively aspected connections with women will help the native.
ʚ ɞ North Node Aspecting Mercury- The native will use their natural intelligence and wit to guide them on their journey. They can even have the tendencies to be trickers. May have a talent for writing and will love to share their words with people. Will be seen as educated and informative to the public.
ʚ ɞ North Node Aspecting Venus- The native’s attraction and alluring nature won’t go unnoticed. The native is easily loved and idealized. The native may have talents for arts and anything regarding beauty & makeup etc. The native may be interested in modeling or anything regarding this. Native may receive compliments but may have a hard time believing them if negatively aspected. May find “the one” or a great soulmate this life-time especially if positively aspected.
ʚ ɞ North Node aspecting Mars- The native has a never-ending drive to achieve their goals and hardly lets anything stop them. However, they need to recharge their energy when they can. They may be seen as intimidating to others and powerful. Will leave a strong mark on the world. May have a dominant energy or/and choose a more dominant path.
ʚ ɞ North Node Aspecting Jupiter- Native has natural luck this life-time to achieve their desires and goals. The native could be quite spiritually in-tuned. The native will be easily liked by others. However the native may have the tendencies to rely on luck a lot rather than hard-work purely.
ʚ ɞ North Node Aspecting Uranus- Native will follow an unexpected path a bit similar to black moon Lilith. Native has a innovative nature. Common in enginneers and people interested in computers. They could be seen as rebellious. Their life path may constantly change so they should work on grounding themselves. Native is also very intuitive.
ʚ ɞ North Node Aspecting Neptune- Native may have a hard time figuring out their path. Native is prone to idealizing things easily. If negatively aspected they may not believe in themselves enough. Native will be blessed with spiritual gifts to aid them. You could be good at poetry or arts or anything that lets you use your imagination greatly.
ʚ ɞ This is extra but if Juno positively aspects the North Node the native could have a greater luck finding themselves a long-term healthy future spouse and could impact them greatly.
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Hello everybody! This is my very first PAC to make up for how I couldn’t release the MC game today. I hope this doesn’t flop because it’s my first time but please give me feedback on whether it resonated! The topic is: what do you need to hear right now? / your past, present, and future. There will be three piles, 1-3 from top to bottom. (Sorry I can’t figure out how to put them side by side)
Choose the pile(s) you feel most drawn to. Happy reading, good day!
☾ Pile 1
Some of you could be very carefree and playful, especially as children. 6, or 222 might be important numbers for you. Some water and fixed energy here, Scorpio, Leo, Sun dominants. Even if you weren't innocent or playful when you were young, there is quite an air of youthfulness to people here. Some of you are quite idealistic. I'm also seeing cancer moon, cancer placements. Some of you are quite dedicated and hardworking people. Taurus placements too. I feel like in the past, you could have been somebody who is trustworthy and has strong morals and integrity, and I really admire you for that. These qualities will help you in life, so keep it up! Right now, several areas of your life could be coming to an end, and some of you might feel like entering a new stage in your life. You might not like the new changes that are coming, but in the future, you will look back and appreciate it. Some of you might have gone through a betrayal recently, I sense some friendship problems. Please stay optimistic, I see opportunities for this pile to be meeting new people, perhaps even making new connections and friends. Once some of you have accepted the fact that changes are coming, you will continue growing and thriving. To those who have been putting in effort or taking the initiative, you will reap what you sow. The word "strict" popped into my head, that could mean something for some of you. Some advice for you now are: Some of you might be in an argument with somebody, or somebody has triggered you. This is a sign not to let it slide- think deeper; is there anything that needs to be healed here? Or, what do you want others to see? For some of you, there might be something you are called to do or pulled towards. Trust the feeling, let loose, and have some fun. For some others, you might be ignoring a niggling feeling that something is wrong. This could snowball into a big problem, so please watch out.
☾ Pile 2
Neptune, Pisces placements or dominants here. Some of you could be very indecisive or were indecisive. Aries energy, maybe venus or moon. Some people here should be more open minded; or else they could be missing precious opportunities being presented to them. Some moon energy here, Sagittarius suns maybe? Some of you can be optimistic and hopeful people, you have won many battles in life. Maybe some of you have 1H or prominent Pluto. For those of you who are mistrustful of others, there might be someone coming in that might change your view on life soon. I see water, waves, maybe some of you like water / beaches or have been somewhere near there before. Some people here could have a maternal figure who played quite a huge role in their lives. Perhaps you were born with a silver spoon in your mouth, or at the very least in a financially stable family. Either way, you didn't really have to worry about money. Some of you could also be nurtured well in your childhood. Some of you might have Libra in your 11h, or have many friends and connections. You are kind and compassionate as well. Some of you could be dealing with an air sign or are an air sign, especially Aquarius. Some of you might feel trapped or cornered, in a seemingly inescapable situation. Don't fret, this situation might be overcome soon. Someone might come to help you or unexpected things could happen. In the future, you might get a sudden inheritance or windfall, but I also see a failed relationship. There could also be a situation where you have to take sides; remain neutral until you have clearer information. Additional advice: Some of you could be on the verge of a spiritual awakening or have gone through on already. If some of you get new opportunities, accepting them might reap good rewards. To those who are in touch with their spirit guides, they want you to know that they are always ready and willing to help you. They might send you signs or you could see some signs, pay very close attention to what the universe is trying to tell you. Some of you can be dealing with toxic people, especially energy vampires. These people are not worth your time and you should cut them off. They are dimming your light. Lastly, a few of you should try expressing yourself more, do something you like. Maybe through writing, singing, art. There could also be a situation making you uncomfortable, speak up about it. I saw some green and Chanel for this pile, if that's any indicator.
☾ Pile 3
More Leo / Fire energy here. Some of you could be really jovial people :) Libra moon or mercury, and air placements here. Jupiter dominants. Some of you are calm, but passive and non confrontational. Fair too. 4 or 19 could be important numbers for you. I see blue as well. Aries, Virgo, Venus and Mercury energy here. In the past, some of you might have gone through many hardships to get to where you are today. Most of you could be well to do or born into a good family. The good thing is, you don't boast or be arrogant about it, and I like that humble attitude. Some Cancer here. Some of you could have a strong female figure come into your life soon, they would likely influence you in a lot of ways. I just know some of you are in denial about something, face it or else it'll come back to bite you in the ass. This could be about love as well, some of you are catching feelings. Take a break and get in touch with your intuition and feelings, don't be rash. Uranus dominance for some of you? New adventures and opportunities are coming along, good luck with that! Take the initiative, and don't let your fears get you down! For others there could be a major event happening in your life soon. Additional advice: Some of you might have to face something or do something that requires your courage and bravery. You should look at your fears in a better light and let it point you in a direction you should go. This pile is quite unsure as well. Some of you don't feel ready to do something; go for it! It could potentially break an unhealthy cycle in your life. Others could be meeting a new person who will become very dear to you, (be it in a romantic or platonic way.) Be yourself and they will find you. Lastly, some of you should let your friends support you instead of shouldering everything yourself. This could also mean you need to expand your friend circle.
aight I'm finally done, I have a feeling this is very messy and I'm getting cold feet so I'm gonna hide in a corner while you guys read this :')
I do accept constructive criticism and feedback so send it in if you would like. Thank you for taking the time to read this, I did my best and I hope it's up to everyone's standards. :)
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“Một điều nhịn, chín điều lành”
Cuối tuần trước, tôi đến Chicago làm người điều hành cho một panel ở hội thảo cho sinh viên Việt Nam ở Mỹ. Diễn giả trong panel trả lời hơi dài làm quá thời hạn của chương trình, ban tổ chức ngồi dưới cứ thấp thỏm cứ ra hiệu cho chúng tôi ngắt lời diễn giả. Tôi nhìn sang người điều hành cùng tôi: “Anh ngắt lời đi.” Anh nhăn mặt: “Em ngắt lời đi.” Chúng tôi không ai chịu ngắt lời diễn giả và panel hết thời gian khi mà mới hỏi được hai câu hỏi. Điều làm tôi băn khoăn là nếu panel đó bằng tiếng Anh, tôi đã không có vấn đề gì ngắt lời người khác. Bạn bè người nước ngoài biết đến tôi như một đứa thẳng thắn, không ngại bắt lỗi người khác khi cần thiết. Nhưng khi nói tiếng Việt, tự nhiên tôi thấy tâm thế của mình quay trở về ngôi làng mà tôi lớn lên, nơi tôi được dạy “dĩ hoà vi quý", “một điều nhịn, chín điều lành”, tránh đối đầu, không làm gì để người khác mất mặt. Ngắt lời người khác hay ra dấu hiệu rằng họ nói dài quá là một điều không tưởng.
Tối hôm đó, tôi đi bar với mấy người bạn người Việt. Lúc chúng tôi đang ở quầy gọi đồ uống, một anh chàng Mỹ trắng đến quàng vai anh bạn tôi, ngắt lời bạn tôi để gọi đồ uống cho mình. Bartender thấy bạn tôi im lặng liền phục vụ anh chàng Mỹ trắng đó. Ở Mỹ, personal space (không gian cá nhân) rất được coi trọng. Không ai xâm phạm personal space của người khác, trừ khi họ không tôn trọng người đó. Bạn Mỹ trắng này xâm phạm personal space của bạn tôi một cách thô thiển. Tôi hỏi bạn tôi sao không nói gì, anh chàng nhăn mặt, đúng như lúc tôi và người điều hành cùng tôi đã từng nhăn mặt.
Khi về Việt Nam, tôi gặp cái nhăn mặt khó xử đó rất nhiều. Đó là khi mẹ tôi không bao giờ nhắc khách bỏ giày ngay cả khi mẹ vừa lau nhà xong vì sợ làm quê khách. Đó là khi bạn tôi khổ sở uống rượu đến mức say xỉn chỉ vì không đủ tự tin để nói không với người ép uống rượu. Đó là khi trong phòng họp, sếp đưa ra một ý tưởng dở ẹc mà không ai phản đối vì sợ mang tiếng đối đầu sếp.
Khi đọc sách về Việt Nam của tác giả nước ngoài, tôi luôn đọc được rằng Việt Nam là một dân tộc ôn hoà, ngại đối đầu, nhưng hãy xem cái sự ôn hoà, ngại đối đầu đó đưa dân tộc Việt Nam đến đâu? Sinh viên Việt Nam ở nước ngoài được coi là hiền lành, ít đặt câu hỏi, ít tham gia thảo luận vì ngại không ngắt lời thầy cô hay bạn bè cùng lớp. Mặc dù có nhiều người Việt thành công ở nước ngoài, tôi gặp không ít người Việt mắc kẹt ở vị trí nhân viên nhiều năm ròng rã vì không có “leadership qualities”: không đủ tự tin trình bày ý kiến của mình và thuyết phục người khác làm theo. Một anh làm khá cao trong một doanh nghiệp tài chính ở New York chia sẻ rằng trong bài phỏng vấn, anh có bài kiểm tra cửa sổ: mở cửa sổ cho gió lạnh lùa vào phòng phỏng vấn và xem ứng cử viên có đủ tự tin để đứng lên đóng cửa hay không. Phần đông người Việt, tôi nghĩ, sẽ không qua được bài kiểm tra này.
Khi mới sang Mỹ, tôi có lần bị người phục vụ đưa nhầm đồ ăn sang một món tôi rất không thích. Không muốn gây ồn ào, tôi không yêu cầu đổi và cố ăn vài miếng rồi bỏ. Bạn tôi đã cáu và bảo tôi: “Why didn’t say anything? You have to stand up for yourself. If you don’t, nobody else will.” Nếu chúng ta không lên tiếng cho quyền lợi bản thân, không ai khác sẽ lên tiếng cho chúng ta.
Chúng ta được dạy là nhẫn nhịn để cuộc sống ôn hoà, nhưng sự nhẫn nhịn, dĩ hoà vi quý của tôi không làm cho những người xung quanh tôi hạnh phúc. Nếu họ thực sự quan tâm đến tôi, họ sẽ vui hơn khi biết tôi được thoải mái. Tương tự như vậy, tôi cũng muốn bạn bè tôi có thể nói với tôi những điều làm họ cảm thấy không thoải mái. Nếu tôi quên bỏ giày ở nhà một người bạn có thói quen bỏ giày, hy vọng bạn tôi sẽ nhắc. Nếu bạn tôi không muốn uống rượu bia hay ăn món gì, tôi sẽ không ép – nếu tôi vô tình ham vui ép, tôi mong bạn tôi sẽ bảo tôi ngừng lại.
Trong nhiều trường hợp, nhẫn nhịn là tốt. Nhưng trong không ít trường hợp, sự nhẫn nhịn biến chúng ta trở thành kẻ yếu đuối, để người khác bắt nạt, một điều nhịn thành chín điều nhục. Tôi ước gì ngày bé, thay vì luôn dạy tôi phải nhẫn nhịn, người lớn dạy tôi biết khi nào nên nhịn, khi nào nên lên tiếng cho bản thân. Bây giờ lớn rôi, tôi dần học cách đứng lên bảo vệ mình và cuộc sống trở nên dễ thở hơn hẳn. Vì không phải che dấu sự bất tiện người khác gây cho mình, tôi không có lý do gì để nói xấu người khác sau lưng. Bạn bè tôi cũng cảm thấy vô tư hơn khi chơi cùng tôi bởi họ biết tôi nói thích là thích, không thích là không thích, không phải e dè rào trước đón sau. Cuộc sống quá ngắn ngủi, thời gian làm điều mình thích còn chưa đủ, lấy đâu ra thời gian làm điều mình không thích.
~ Huyền Chip ~
Astro Observations
This is the first time I’ve made this. Just what I have observed :)
Virgo stelliums can be really unwilling to listen or even learn when undeveloped. In combination with a Leo Mars they may have a superiority complex that can become toxic.
People with Earth Mars (especially Capricorn) are the ones that don’t lose their cool even when someone is going crazy in front of them. They are the ones that rile people up by not reacting at all.
Having Pisces energy around you can really have a calming effect.
Leo Mars is one placement that loves to have all the attention (always!) and can become overbearing when insecure.
Libra Mars can make a person very calm when angry even with other placements that may be volatile.
Aries moons with water suns tend to cry when angry.
Most Sagittarius risings are extroverts and don’t find it difficult to talk to new people.
The placement in your 12th house really says what your drunk personality will be. For example: libra risings become a bit quiet. Virgo risings turn into a crazy extrovert and talk to everyone around them. Sag risings get horny😂. Cancer in 12th house cry very often when drunk🤭
Having Uranus in 5th house can bring a delay in the persons romantic experiences :/
eighth house stellium people draw in really weird things. Eg. one of my friends with an eighth house stellium used to have a stray cat that used to come and sit in front of their apartment (that was on the ninth floor) in the middle of the night. He’d never met or fed the cat ever before. 🤷🏻♀️
A friend of mine also had the same experience. She has 8H stellium and there was a white chicken (the security guard was the owner) that came to her apartment every night (when she usually came home). People on the same floor were all so amazed they even joked that the chicken adored her.
Isn't it weird that a chicken went to the 2nd floor by stairs to meet people he didn't know?? And he even remembered the right apartment every time...
That chicken kept doing that for about a month before the security brought him to somewhere else. I bet she must have given him some food.
Dear me,
Today I want to talk a little. So bear with me, okay?
I am the type of person who notices details. I pay attention to gestures of others - what they do, how they talk, and then I make calculation, to judge whether I should befriend with them or not. I prefer simple people, but it doesn't mean I can tolerate fools. I want to be friend with someone who is mature, they should know what to do in certain situations, and they HAVE TO know manners. I expect high standard, sorry.
At the same time, I notice details, which lead to me often romanticize things other people do. I easily take to someone. They might be the one who picks up my pen from the ground, who talks to me in a soft voice or the one who pretends to do something ridiculous so that I don't have to endure. These make my heart flutter. People might think I overthink too much, but actually, I guess the reason here is I don't receive enough the amount of love I crave for, or more sadly is because I give out too much but receive much lesser. Whatever the reason is, I certainly do crave for love. To me, love doesn't stereotypically mean a special relationship between a man and woman, but love is when people care for people, even in the smallest yet most heart-warming way... Don't you just love it when someone suddenly hugs you and shout happily "Found you!" ? Like when you should have been the one to clean the class because you didn't stand in the circle of 3 that your teacher ask for but instead in the circle of 4. You ran to that circle latest, but your classmate in that circle suddenly ran to another circle of 3 in class, and pretended he was the 4th one who ran to the circle to fool the teacher, the teacher saw him ran, they think he was the one, and boom! You managed to escape, just by standing there looking at your friend doing silly things (but cute of course). I was slightly shock at that time, then I feel guilty, then thankful, then guilty, then thankful, then I take to him.
Ah... I want to say thank you to him so much. I was so shy so I just bowed my head, like a nod. I pray that from now on, he will receive a lots of love and luck. Thank you! :")
Okay I've done babbling. Now is when I get serious (I guess :) ) Okay so, I think the studying abroad dream of mine may actually come true. I have never sensed it coming so near like this before. This is the time I can get the closest to my dream. I do believe in myself, I believe I can do it. Today is 5th September, 2020. I hope to see myself in my dream land next time we talk~ Bye bye and take good care of yourself. Always keep in mind that you're loved, and always treat people with kindness. Eat sweets if you want, my love. See you next time there.
Love,
From me.
The year kinda feel rushed, but I'm glad I got into top 5 of my class. It wasn't easy. Of course it was not, but still, my classmates treated me well enough. I just feel so thankful for having a friend who we can effortlessly be kind towards each other. Inspite of that, I still don't like studying, I ain't smart :D
Yeah and so I'm still trying. My dream life is to study abroad, find a job there, stay there, meet a lover, have a family with him, live there and then repay what my parents have done for me. I'm just a teenager now and I'm not the type who always fights their best. Right. But I am going to make my dream come true. Definitely, I promise.
To someone, please wait for me. To my dream, wait for me. I'm coming and I love you so much. ❤
Your dear,
Me.
I wonder where are you? The one that I commit to?
For now, I don't need love, I don't think I want to be in love. I want to love and marry one you, so that I won't break anyone's heart and I won't be sad when both decide to break up.
I want to save my love for you and you only. I'm not pretty, nor do I'm confident in myself, I've got many things to do, to try and to work on. When you and I are ready, we will be the one for each other.
Random thoughts on Moon signs and why Aries Moon is annoying to have
I saw this tweet a while ago that had a list of planetary placements to die for. The first one was Aries Sun/Moon. As an Aries Moon myself, my response was “Nah-ahhh you DON’T want that. This is dangerous territory, trust me”. And then I started thinking about Moon signs, why does Aries Moon suck, which Moon placements are nice and which not so much.
You know why Moon in Aries is bad? Sometimes you see these kids at grocery shops that start crying and yelling and tumbling on the floor because their parent doesn’t want to buy them candy (actually, big chances are, they are Aries Moons, but that’s not what I’m trying to convey here). As kids they are going to externalise their angry feelings, I mean, everyone’s okay with that, they’re kids, it’s just candy. Worst case scenario, you’re just going to roll your eyes at them. But think of an adult who has this screaming, hurt and angry kid inside. It’s still there. It won’t magically change signs once you’re old enough. And yeah, it’s going to yell sometimes. And be a cry-baby. And passionately experience every feeling with their whole self, good AND bad. Sometimes it’s going to want to scream into a pillow because it’s so impatient and frustrated and it just wants everything NOW. Someone on lindaland once said, “you don’t have Moon with Moon in Aries, you just have two Marses”. Touché.
Okay but if you want to know something about Aries Moon, know that it feels the urge to be independent. Hates restrictions with their whole heart. Impulsive. Veryyyy impatient, as we have already established. Hates being told what to do. Having constant battle with their emotions. Open and naive (remember it’s the child of the zodiac). Very cheery and child-like on one hand but on the other, emotions are expressed and felt in a very raw way, let’s say, with a burning passion. Will chase everything. And you can only imagine how an Aries Moon feels when it catches the thing it wants. Likes being the first one in everything. Physical activity is good for their mental health. Kind of obsessed with sex.
Taurus Moon. It’s Venusian. It’s exalted. It’s nice and cosy. It probably has a nice, soothing voice. Think of Elton John, he has Taurus Moon. Beautiful voice but also an eye for beauty and luxury. Can be stubborn in its emotions but hey, at least it’s stable, right? It’s sensual, just like everything Taurus, and probably loves food way too much. It’s in touch with its own body and the only downfall to that is when a Taurus Moon person experiences negative emotions, it affects their whole body. Like, negative emotions can make them physically ill.
Gemini Moon. Ohh Geminis… You know that Mean Girls quote about Regina George “That’s why her hair is so big. It’s full of secrets”. I think of that when I think of Gemini Moons. Like, they just know things. They collect secrets like some friggin Finnick Odair. And they analyze them, probably to the point of brain overheat. So, if you don’t want a fried mind, I don’t advise having a Gemini Moon. Not that you have a choice, but. They also like to talk. A lot. Love to gossip, just sayin. And seem very friendly when you talk to them. I say “seem” for a reason *whispers* don’t trust them.
Cancer Moon. Mushy feelings. The homebodies. The family types. The comfy ones, but not in the way Taureans are. Gentle and creative. Likes to take care of others. Kinda reminds me of sitting with a hot cup of tea and typing poetry into your laptop on a rainy day. Idk. All water Moons are overly emotional but Cancer Moon can be moody and changeable and very sensitive to, you guessed it, Moon phases. CLINGY. You guys are clingy, just admit it.
Leo Moon. There’s something about them… It’s like the star quality of a Leo but it beams from within, you know? It’s like something inside was pushing them towards greatness. They just have to believe in themselves and they will shine. Loves creative pursuits, arts, theatre, music, just anyhing fun. Expressive. Charming. Inspiring. Hopeless romantic. Can be flashy too, it’s Leo after all. Wanna make them feel good? Compliment them, they LOVE it and need it.
Virgo Moon. Okay… for some reason I know a lot of Virgo Moons and let me tell you… there’s something gentle about them. They’re quiet and polite and - this is not a commonly talked about Virgo trait, but - they’re softies, you know? But they need work, probably to distract themselves from all the thoughts. It’s a lot more focused mercurial energy that Geminis, grounded and analytical. But that also makes them prone to overthinking and anxieties. Can be hard on themselves… so they work even more. And unlike Gemini Moons, they’re SHYYYYY.
Libra Moon. Everyone loves them. Ugh the irresistible charm. They’re the people’s people. Again, it’s that Venus. The difference is, Taurus loves to be loved and spoiled. Libra will love and spoil others, they just want to be nice and stuff. And they have an eye for beauty and arts. Chances are a Libra Moon person is beauty and art themselves. Has an internal need for relationships. But it’s air so has a tendency to intellectualize these relationships… and everything else tbh. Great communication. Social.
Sporpio Moon. They straight up give me the creeps. My sister is a 0° Scorpio Moon so I KNOW. Don’t get me wrong, I love Scorpio Suns… but Moons… It’s like the water of the water, the over-emotional ones. Kiiiiiind of simmilar to Aries in the sense, that they feel emotions A LOT but it’s not straight-forward like with Aries. Instead, it’s pushy and passive-aggressive and manipulative, not very trustful and secretive. OH MY GOD, so secretive. It’s just intense.
Sagittarius Moon. Ahhhhhh my favourite. And I don’t think I say it because I’m Sag dominant… Sag Moons are just FUN. They exude FUN. Their playfulness and cheerfulness comes from their heart, that’s why it’s so special. Thinks and feels big. Big hopes and visions, maybe too big sometimes. Aries and Leo are focused more on the self, Sag on the other hand, is focused on the world - the actual world or a fictional one. Loves movies and is probably a bookworm. Philosophical. Optimistic and lighthearted. Kind of a dork - whether an adorable or annoying one lol.
Capricorn Moon. I’m sorry but ya’ll are just depressing. I have Moon square Saturn so I kind of get the vibe. I feel like having a Cap Moon is like having something squashing you from the inside; very withdrawn. It’s cool if you get to work, and Cap Moons can be workaholics and hard workers… But if you give into that hermitism (yea I just made that word up) and get lazy due to… things… or being too overwhelmed by that Saturn energy, you get squashed, basically. Also, fears and lots of reservations. I feel like these guys have issues with that.
Aquarius Moon. My Aqua friends… let me tell you. They’re not necessary weirdos, as people say. But they are humanitarians at their core. Like, THEY JUST CARE. So that makes them sensitive. But not in a watery way. Can be veryyyy aloof and hard to get to. Will probably intellectualize their emotions and try to detach from them. All about people but not like a Libra. Difference is, Aqua wants to be independent. Expressive and intelligent.
Pisces Moon. My favourite water Moon. It’s dreamy and soft. Yeah, a bit flakey, but let’s NOT talk about it. I feel like Pisces Moons just get emotions. They understand them because they’re all about the collective. That makes them empathetic. Intuitive. Romantic. The artistic types. DAYDREAMERS TO THE MAX, they’re in another dimension. It’s like sometimes you talk to them but they’re somewhere else. Prolly loves being near the water, it’s like the sea is calling them. May have escapist tendencies.
research!
please reblog/reply with your Mercury placement and how often do you dream, how well do you remember your dreams, if they are realistic or fanciful & if you’d be interested in a longer survey on the subject 💫
I have Sag Mercury in the 8th House.
I usually dream, not that much but sometimes I dream a lot and sometimes not at all, but now dreams kind of continuously appear. I remember the dream for some first hours after waking up, but then they usually fade away, yet there are certain dreams that I can't forget. Since I started to keep track of my dream, I've realized that many of them are fanciful and involve magic, like I somehow live in a complete unknown world where they use magic and tools, I can fly and can stay underwater for hours,... People in my dreams are usually strangers, they are my friends and they help me overcome "the task". Animals do appear, dogs and snakes are the most common. My dreams are like stories, most of the time I am the main character but there are times when I don't "live" in the dream, just watch it. I notice that I do have dreams about the 8th House (you know, taboos, mysteries, ghost, death, sex and things like that, they did appear in my dreams.) And dreams sometimes are really simple, what I think of right before I go to bed, or the thing I think of the least on the day, I dream.
English isn't my mother tongue so feel free to check my grammar mistakes, it helps me a lot. Also, I'm looking forward to your next surveys!
Hello!! Just found your blog and I immediately love your moodboards so much 💓 So... could you please make one for an INFP Sag - Scorpio cusp with Capricorn Venus? Thank you, hope you're having a nice day! 💕
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INFP-Sag Scorpio Cusp-Capricorn Venus
good mediators who may be seen as illogical or irrational due to them preferring to place importance on people’s feelings than who is wrong and right, perfectionists, tend to overwork due to high standards they place on themselves, careful before approaching love but when they do fall in love, they’re extremely loyal, very supportive and are amazing listeners
Wow this actually is my favorite color, a little shade of pastel blue, periwinkle and light grey. I really love this so much, thank you @ryujaems for your lovely descriptions and moodboard 💓💓
If a planet falls in your (house),
1st House: it becomes part of your persona
2nd House: it is what you hold onto for security
3rd House: it expressed in your communication
4th House: it is made private
5th House: it colors your self-expression/creativity
6th House: it needs daily work
7th House: it is what you look for in a partner
8th House: it'll go through drastic changes
9th House: it colors your worldview
10th House: it is made public
11th House: it'll advance socially
12th House: it's embedded in your subconscious
Me lacking Air, having retrograde Mercury and Mercury in detriment in natal chart: :)