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oi come back here
no! but y’all can follow me on insta it’s zzzeldazone
How helpful could your life advice be when you’re still a teenager?
came back here to find a really specific post from 2018, im 25 now and laughing so fucking hard at this. yeah i was fully in spiritual psychosis running this account, i was just a ball of self hatred insecurity and the desperate plea for the universe to tell me what to do. it’s insane anyone listened to me. i am confused on how this person knew i was 19 at the time tho, it’s no where in my bio 🤨
wish we still lived in the kinda times when it was hard to trace people and you could just come up with a new name and move to a new town and start a completely new life as a new person with very little chances of someone finding out. i’d be making new identities like every 5 years
they took this from us
Hey OP is there something you want to talk about
yes my fat cock
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yeah…. you got your end of the deal?
here you go… just like you said… one turtle…. now where’s my request?
One frog…. Just like you wanted
good… thanks…. now leave forever….
Inaccurate. He should have asked for a level 9 and under dragon in exchange for a tiny frog.
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if u think im annoying now wait until i get over my fear of being perceived as annoying
Sun in the Houses
Sun in the 1st House
You are good at getting what you want.
Identifying your interests and desires is easy to you.
You have strong willpower and self-assurance.
You are respected for who you are and what you do.
You hide your insecurities behind a strong facade.
Taking orders from others feels like an insult to you.
You are capable of seizing great opportunities.
Sun in the 2nd House
Self-esteem is tied to your material possessions.
You value quality over quantity.
You usually know how to hold onto money, but you must be careful with spending too much on extravagant things.
You don’t mind hard work if it gets you what you want.
You dislike unexpected changes and people who never take responsibility for their own acions.
You rarely change your mind.
Sun in the 3rd House
You prize intellect and consider it the key to all things.
Nothing irritates you more than boredom.
You can become really argumentative and sarcastic when frustrated.
You are wise beyond your years.
You always strive for everything new and often simply can’t hold your attention for any more or less long time.
You have pretty light and mischievous sense of humor.
Sun in the 4th House
You are very protective of your home, family and the things you own.
Privacy is very important to you and you may not like just anybody coming into your home.
You love to keep sentimental things.
When people come to you with a problem you’re the first person to offer help.
It’s hard for you to let go of something or someone that was once close to you.
You follow your heart when it comes to trusting someone.
Sun in the 5th House
You are creative by nature and constantly seek opportunities for self-expression in everyday life.
Tradition is pretty important to you and your family is especially important.
You love the idea of having children.
You are a party animal and enjoy going out.
You love being the center of attention but at the end of the day you don’t care what other people think of you.
You desire a career that gives you an avenue to shine.
Sun in the 6th House
You aim for the top for a feeling of accomplishment.
You are always prepared to meet any obstacle, nothing stands in the way of your perfection.
It’s very difficult to convince you to relax and lower the pace of working.
You notice every little detail, no matter how small it is.
You’re likely to own a pet who you share a deep connection with.
You take great pride in being independent and hate to admit that you need help.
Sun in the 7th House
You are fun to be around and know how to bring a lot of energy into the room.
You shine particularly bright when interacting with your environment.
You are able to handle a busy social life.
Building relationsips and lasting connections makes you happy.
Your sense of self can be easily shaken or projected onto others.
Being in a relationship makes you feel complete.
Sun in the 8th House
You experience many transformations throughout your life.
No one is able to hide things from you.
To you, people are complex and life is one mystery after the next.
You stumble upon hidden knowledge but feel unable to share it.
You are very private and quiet about your interests.
You hate when people try to tell you what to do or act like they know you.
Sun in the 9th House
You tend to rely on your instincts and intuition.
You dislike routine and prefer to experience new places and things.
Higher education, philosophy and travelling illuminate your sense of identity.
You put enthusiasm and passion into any goal you are striving towards.
You have a thirst for knowledge but little patience for details.
You are very outspoken about your beliefs.
Sun in the 10th House
You may not always want to be the leader, but you can’t stand getting behind someone who is sloppy and inefficient.
Your career might be structured with the help of your father.
You will do whatever it takes to succeed.
You have a personality that naturally demands respect.
You have high standards in most aspects of your life.
You are extremely bold when trying to make a point or an impression.
Sun in the 11th House
You have great faith in the efficacy of the power of the group to change society.
You can’t hold back your opinion even if it will get you in trouble.
People will never be able to figure out what you’re thinking or feeling, because it’s constantly changing.
You don’t like to limit yourself or your creativity and will actively seek the unknown and unexplored.
Bringing people together and making things better will help your ego to shine.
You are driven by the need to help other people.
Sun in the 12th House
You understand things that others fail to notice.
You need a lot of alone time to think and explore your inner world.
You need to be careful who you surround yourself with, because you tend to absorb energies from other people.
You have strong healing and perhaps even psychic abilities.
You might have trouble realizing your full potential.
You can sometimes have a strong inner desire for fame or you dream about being in the limelight.
Honestly don’t ruin ur relationship w tarot relationship readings and relationship compatibility. It’s never gonna be perfect and all it’ll do is make you question ur relationship. I’ve never once done compatibility readings about my person bc I don’t need anymore influence over my opinion than my own, but I have done tarot and I know it’s just fuel for my paranoid ass to find some type of problem. If you’re doing them because you’re questioning and you need validation or clarification on that, I get that, but just trust ur own opinion/thoughts and deal with them 🤷🏻♀️
This isn’t going to apply to anyone other than ppl who grew up in a shitty family who constantly fought with you or eachother, bc this is more for people who are addicted to conflict and resolution. But tbh that’s most people!! So here u go here’s ur sign if this resonates. Stop looking for problems, solve them as they come and enjoy the good while it’s there.
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Hi what makes better synastry for marriage or long term relationship for partners that both get bored in relationships easily? Are any of them 7,1,8,10,9,4,11, or 12th house synastry? I guess I’m asking what houses make it so that the relationship is long lasting and comfortable but also exciting and interesting?
Synastry For Long Term Relationships in Astrology
1. Strong Saturn Aspects
Typically in harmonious aspect but I’ve seen Saturn in hard aspect in longer-term couples. This is because Saturn is glue. He equals longevity. Seeing Saturn conjunction Venus, or on the 7th house cusp can indicate long term commitment. 4th house means committed home and structured family.
2. Venus in Harmonious Aspect to Saturn
People often associate love with responsibility. They are usually quite committed to their partners and they take their relationships seriously. I often see this aspect in couples that have been together for a very long time, [even if they are not legally married]. If this aspect is in the 5th house, it could mean a committed relationship where people may not even have a ‘title’. 5th house with these two is often the long term “f-buddy” aspect.
3. 12th House Overlays
Remember, the 12th house is also a very “spiritual house”, so there can feel as if there is a soulmate thing going on. When relationship significators are connected with the twelfth house, there may be a tendency to either keep relationships rather sheltered and private. The advantage of this is keeping others out. Usually, when relationships go south, it’s because too many parties are/were involved be it by opinion/busybodies or affairs. Ironically, 12th house overlays can be attracted to secret affairs or relationships. There is often a deep, inner need to look for support from a lover, and some pleasure is taken from keeping things private. This can happen when the ruler of the seventh or fifth house is situated in the twelfth house, or the ruler is strongly aspecting a planet in the twelfth house or the ruler of the twelfth house.
4. 7th House Overlays
7th house rules marriage and partnerships. When there are mutual overlays or Venus, Moon, Saturn, the Sun here, this can indicate important and long-lasting relationships. Virgo 7th house can equate long life with someone else or “growing old together”.
5. Juno conjunct 4th or 7th House Ruler
Juno is the Roman goddess of marriage, The Greek Queen Hera’s counterpart. When someone’s Juno lands in the house of marriage or the house of home and family, this can be a strong indicator of a “spouse”. If she is making aspects to Venus, Saturn, or the moon even better.
6. Vertex conjunct Venus
Vertex in your chart is your fated point. Your karma. When the planet of Love is sitting on someone els’s point of “fate” it could mean a ‘fated’ connection in love.
7. North Node Double whammies
North node is your goal in life Where you’re “headed”. When someone else’s NN conjunct yours they are meant to be in your life moving “forward”. For more context, see what houses they fall in and check transits.
8. 8th house Overlays
8th house is about shared resources, karma, death, sex, rebirth, etc. When Venus, Vertex, North Node, Saturn, Moon, or 7th house/12th house ruler land in a partner's chart here, there can be heavy and long term attachments between people. Remember, even though Saturn is considered “glue”, Pluto can also have a very long term “binding’ effect on two people. this house is quite literally the house of “til-death-do-us-part”.
9. Venus conjunct Uranus or Venus in the 11th House
This aspect is very good for people who live unconventional love lives. This placement/overlay can indicate two people who never get tired of each other. Romance could have birthed from friendship or out of the blue. There is always something exciting here. I see this aspect between swingers or those who have open marriages. If you get bored easily or are not a fan of traditional “monogamy” then this is the aspect/overlay for you.
10. Sun Conjunct Jupiter/in the 5th house or 7th House
Sun is a benefic and ruler of the 5th house that’s about playfulness and leisure. Jupiter is about joy, forgiveness, and expansion. Two individuals with this overlay will simply like being around each other. They’ll have FUN together, go on adventures together. May overlook issues because they would rather have the other person than fight. It makes for typically agreeable and jolly marriages. Lots of fun and travel together. Lots of babies too.
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Pauline’s book recs : a MASTERPOST
Shit, it’s 2020 and I’ve updated this Behemoth again. There’s both old and new in here. If you’re having problems with links overlapping, it is most likely the app/dashboard glitching—try the permalink version, and everything should work out, even on mobile. And of course, HAVE FUN.
Ressources : where to find books online?
CLASSICAL LITERATURE (ANTIQUITY) Where should I start? The fundamental works Where should I start? The mythology-oriented works Where should I start? Mythology, but make it non-greek Where should I start? The translation edition A very touristic overview of Ancient Greek literature Different texts for Antigone Different texts for Elektra Different texts and translations for The Odyssey
CLASSIC [? who cares] BOOKS (ALL ERAS) First things first : a few favourites And works in translation : a few more favourites Where should I start? My first classics A very touristic overview of literature reading Modern classics Reading women : a few favourites ; wait, much more Reading men : a few favourites Children literature : a few favourites ; more Experimental literature Where should I start? English and US literature Where should I start? Modern Italian literature Where should I start? German and Austrian literature Where should I start? Russian literature Where should I start? Irish literature I’m terribly unknowledgeable about? Japanese literature Where should I start? Renaissance literature Where should I start? French literature for intermediate level Where should I start? French Medieval literature Where should I start? Victorian literature Where should I start? Contemporary literature Reading classics to children Children literature for adults (?) A bit of myth, a bit of fairy tale Short-length classics ; more here Short stories One last thing: books I don’t want to check out
POETRY First things first : a few favourites Second things second : a bunch of recs Where should I start? Poetry Learning French? Easy French poetry Lesbian French poetry Russian poetry : a few favourites Narrative poems ; much more Mystic poems Poems about separation Poems about love Poems about happiness Poems about exile Poems about poetry
DRAMA First things first : a few favourites
NON-FICTION First things first : a few favourites ; more recent On feminism (it’s old) On translation On literary analysis and adaptation On first-level literary analysis and French movements On biographies and diaries ; more here ; and more? On writing theory and another one On art history On reader-response theory Very lacking, but on female history On witches On Sufism Literary interviews Essays
YEARLY SUMMARY Best of 2018 : Prose Summary of 2018 Best of 2017 : Fiction Best of 2017 : Poetry Best of 2016 : Fiction Best of 2016 : Poetry 2016 Summer reading list 2015 - 2016 awaited releases Best of 2015 : Fiction Best of 2015 : Poetry
THEMATIC LISTS By character Works featuring Persephone Works featuring Kassandra Works featuring male protagonists written by women Works featuring the House as a character Works featuring mermaids Works featuring the femme fatale archetype Works featuring female villains Works with Nature as a character Works with supernatural entities as a human double Works with introspective characters Works with narcissistic characters Romances featuring softer male protagonists Trope : Star-crossed lovers Trope : Friends to lovers Trope : Villainous love Trope : Toxic mother figure Trope : adaptating Beauty and the Beast Trope : adaptating Bluebeard By theme LGBTQ+ (a terribly old and lacking list) Books taking place in a single building Books taking place in one House Books taking place in a high school Books about seeing into the Future Books by the sea (and the few pirates) Books set in Paris Books about girlhood Books about introspection and self-discovery Books about melancholy and sadness Books about happiness and hope Books with symbolism and atmosphere Books about moral corruption and spiritual decadence Books about sex politics and philosophy Books about the female rage Books about or taking place during World War I Books featuring suicides Poems for mothers Poems about poetry Great love stories Unusual love stories Idealised, bittersweet love ; more By genres Rewriting Greek and Roman myths Rewriting Fairy Tales ; and again Writing and rewriting Arthuriana Favourites free-to-play text-based games Gothic and neo-gothic Southern Gothic Magical realism Dystopias Young Adult Horror novels (but check the gothic instead) Crime novels Medieval historical fiction Just, like, sappy stuff
By context Beach reading Travel reading Halloween reading (spooky!) Winter reading Summer reading ; another Lockdown reading (you can still ask!) By book Books similar to The Secret History Books similar to Wuthering Heights ; again Books similar to A Grief Observed Books similar to The Brothers Karamazov Books similar to On Being Ill Books similar to Eros the Bittersweet Books similar to Dracula Excerpts similar to Dido and Aeneas parting in the Aeneid Recommended editions of Romeo and Juliet Recommended editions of Shakespeare’s Sonnets Recommended editions of Wuthering Heights Recommended translations of Tristan and Yseult Lit criticism on Dorian Gray Lit criticism on Sonnets to Orpheus Books adapted to the screen (1) Books adapted to the screen (2) By author Favourite French writers Favourite Contemporary writers What to read? By Women French writers What to read? By Anne Carson (And some prep reading for Anne Carson) What to read? By Richard Siken What to read? By Roland Barthes What to read? By Agatha Christie What to read? By E. A. Poe What to read? By Daphné du Maurier What to read? By Sylvia Plath What to read? By Priya Sarukkai Chabria What to read? By Hélène Cixous What to read? On and by Branwell Brontë If you love Anne Carson If you love Angela Carter If you love Louise Glück If you love Virginia Woolf If you love Sylvia Plath If you love Marguerite Duras If you love Emile Zola If you love Colette
Bonus:
SO MUCH THIS!!
When helping kids learn from their mistakes and correcting past behavior, it’s important for parents and other role models to separate what they DID, and who they ARE.
Look at the exchange in the images above. The kid apologizes for “being bad,” and the adult points out that it isn’t a question of “being.” It’s about specific behavior.
“Definitely was acting brand new. But you ain’t got a bad bone in your body.”
For a personal example, I’ve been working with one of my kids about bullying other kids. And when she behaves that way, I will tell her, “What you’re doing is bullying,” or “Stop bullying them.”
What I WON’T say is “You’re being a bully.”
Because kids listen (even when we feel like they aren’t) and they are constantly taking in information that they use to define themselves. And the worst thing I could do in this situation is say, “You’re being a bully,” and they believe me.
It happens so often, it’s tragic. We tell kids, “You’re a bully,” “You’re dumb,” “You’re being obnoxious,” and they internalize that. And as soon as a kid accepts “I am a bully” as part of their identity, they will act accordingly.
On the flip side, I used to think it was OK to label kids with “being” statements as long as they were positive, but I’ve learned even that has hidden dangers.
For example, imagine one of my kids finishes a puzzle really quickly, and I respond by saying, “You’re so smart!” Seems great, right?
But what happens when they move on to a harder puzzle and they don’t finish as quickly? So they start thinking things like, “Dad said I’m smart because I can do puzzles fast. But I didn’t do this one fast so I guess I’m not smart after all.” Or, “Dad says I’m smart because I can do puzzles fast, but I didn’t do this one fast so it must be a stupid puzzle that’s made wrong.”
I guess my point is, use “you are” statements sparingly and carefully with kids. Tell them things like, “You are important,” “You are valuable,” “You are loved.” But when it comes to behavior, make it clear that what they do does not define who they are. Let them define themselves.
Stuff like that still has me messed up.
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Finding the Center Within: The Healing Way of Mindfulness Meditation