What are some ways that women can build up their femininity or sensuality? Would you suggest taking pole dancing classes or anything that makes you feel sexy or is that too unladylike?
Sensuality is not the same as sexuality although it can help with that. Sensuality is when you are in touch with your senses and appealing to each and every sense: Do you not only look put together but you also smell good? Does your voice sound clear and are you articulate with your words? Do you walk gracefully?
Being ladylike is the same thing as being classy but the feminine gender norm version of it. That does not mean you don’t have a sense of humor or that you can’t like/ participate in sex it simply means that you are more conservative about it and nurture the fact that there is a time and place for everything. That in mind, pole dance classes are fine because it is formal and in a professional setting, dancing on randos at the club, or twerking in public would be the “unladylike”. Pole dance is an art that will help you gain more control of your body.
General ways to become more sensual:
Physical activity such as dance or yoga
Self care rituals: take a bubble bath while listening to music and drinking wine or tea etc.
Be a flirt and stop being scared
Become more touchy-feely in your relationships (of all kinds)
Learn about spirituality. Not necessarily the ambiguous new age stuff but learn about theology and develop some level of spirituality if you feel connected to any religion or beliefs
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