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[melisica]

[3ncompassinq]

[nutellahead-deactivated20161225]

[guav-ah]

Zippora Seven photographed by Terence Connors for She Made Me ‘Warm Summer Breezes’

[lovlae]

wooooah this is one of my favorite pictures ever, this is my dream

[fotobilog]

[illness-deactivated20180325]

as a mentally ill, if you haven’t taken your shower you’re not gonna wanna do anything else. do that first. this sounds like baby advice but fuckin’ do that first

[illness-deactivated20180325]

i understand that this is suspicious advice coming from norman bates but do it

[mpdrolet]

[eroticmoss]

[frogribbit]

i wish people would stop romanticizing not eating breakfast and not getting enough sleep and being dependent on coffee to function and always being in a bad mood and treating yourself poorly because that behavior is very unhealthy for you

[itsonbitch]

[ponyregrets]

pro-tip for my younger followers: adulthood is cleaning your bedroom because the electrician is coming and you don’t want them to know how you live

[chiefguideandcentre-deactivated]

I feel so attacked right now

[jeliyfish]

[parfloral]

♥

[visvya]

[parfloral]

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[iraexe]

[brutereason]

I find it fascinating that people who choose not to have children are generally assumed to feel really strongly about not having children (or even to feel really strongly against children, anyone’s children, in general). I am probably not going to have children, not because I REALLY REALLY HATE the idea of having children, but because I don’t really really love it. Out of all the major decisions I will make in my life, this one is the only irreversible one. I can sell a house, quit a job, divorce a spouse, whatever. I cannot unhave a child. I cannot opt out of being a parent once I become a parent. I can’t even take a step back for the sake of self-care or whatever, or else my child will suffer.

So for me, having children is fuck yes or not at all. The default will be to remain childfree. Having children should be an opt-in decision, not an opt-out one. Until/unless I develop really strong feelings about wanting to have children, I won’t have them, even if that means I never end up having them at all.

[yadivagirl]

As a mother, I really wish more people gave having children this kind of clear contemplation and thought. It’s an irreversible decision. Too many people don’t understand that.

[bigbigbigtruck]

this this this this this.

[3ncompassinq]

shitty video from general admission idek what song this was

[childmagazine]