“Trans women hate that they were born male/weren’t assigned female at birth and that’s why they’re so bitter and angry” is just straight up terf rhetoric. Anybody who says this or a variation on this is straight up a transmisogynist on the level of JK Rowling. Yes, even other trans people — yes, even other transfems. There is no way you can frame this that isn’t “trans women are bitches because they’re mad that they aren’t real women” no matter what language you use to communicate it.
Dudes... you can be nice to yourselves. You don't HAVE to hate that you were born male. Just because your book had the wrong cover, doesn't mean the story inside means nothing. You didn't start out right, but you don't have to hate it. You know that you were just born in a way you prefer not to present, and that's PERFECTLY alright! You don't have to hate yourself to be trans!
I hate when people see something controversial and don't see all sides of the story, so: Yes, people can be jerks, and you might end up hating your body due to others bringing you down, and that's valid too. You can hate that you were born in the wrong body, but don't hate yourself because other people taught you too! Everyone deserves love, no matter what form their in, and that includes you.
Everyone deserves love. And that includes the people who'll never be able to present fully the way they want.
You don't have to hate something to know it's wrong. You don't have to like something to know it's right.
Humans are complicated, and it's alright. And it's not healthy to take out anger on others, especially online, when you might not see the real-time consequences of your words.
I'm transmasc myself, and I understand that my body isn't what I want it to be...
But I don't hate it for it because it's not its fault. (I hate my biodad who left for milk for that)
Most people are just going to read that first paragraph and say I'm a misogynistic bastard but whatever, I think everyone's valid and deserves to have their opinions heard, so I'll listen to anyone who thinks I'm being rude.
I already tried too asshole and i failed. You say protect trans kids and then you tell a trans person you have no idea the age of to kill themselves. You have NO idea if I'm a minor. You have no idea who I am. You have NO clue what your words could do to people. Your terrible. I hope I NEVER meet you in real life because I would feel unsafe. Did you read all of what I had said? No. Noooooo you didn't. But that's fine, since you have no idea who I am! Right?
Also keep in mind, since it seems to be an issue, that I use the term dude WITHOUT adding on gender. I think of it as NON BINARY.
Hate when perisex artists and authors cling to the h slur after being told they shouldn't use it. Everybody understands that if you can't reclaim a slur then you shouldn't use it... except when it's about the h slur apparently. Are you consulting with an intersex person about it first? No? Then honestly just fuck off.
When you confront someone about it most of them excuse themselves and deflect and act like it's not a big deal. Writing tip: don't do that. Hold yourself accountable. Characters don't exist, people do. So prioritize real people instead.
Google is free. (I'm linking an explanation because I'm disinclined to use the word on a post where OP wouldn't name the word themselves, even though I am intersex.)
Perisex is just "not intersex". Like how "cis" is "not trans".
Hate when perisex artists and authors cling to the h slur after being told they shouldn't use it. Everybody understands that if you can't reclaim a slur then you shouldn't use it... except when it's about the h slur apparently. Are you consulting with an intersex person about it first? No? Then honestly just fuck off.
When you confront someone about it most of them excuse themselves and deflect and act like it's not a big deal. Writing tip: don't do that. Hold yourself accountable. Characters don't exist, people do. So prioritize real people instead.
living in "progressive" areas is always so funny, pastors will slide up to your clockable ass in public and be like "man isnt it fucked up how evil most christians are to you? im not im good. we're trustworthy. we've got a church nearby you can go to" and all the churches got lgbt flags flying outside and shit. who are u fooling bro? \*looks at all the lgbt christians ive seen and met* oh. oh you're fooling a lot of people.
Whats funnier is that Christianity didn't start homophobic. That hate was started by a mistranslation. The original said pedos are bad. And honestly? Pedos are much worse than gays.
i can't express how absolutely important it is that when you make an edgy, brooding, badass character who's tough as nails and good at fighting and whatever, you HAVE to give them at least one reason to become completely helpless and pathetic. you have a panic attack quota to fulfill.
HELLO welcome to the Babbit's Blog masterpost!!! On this post you'll find some fun facts about yours allegedly (me <33), some ref's for my different 'sona's, and a couple links to my fics and whatnot! Are you ready? No?? Excellent neither am i let's do this
Meet the Babbits!: the self-inserts/personas
the first ref is for my general/most commonly used persona, Babbit! They aren't really an anthro/furry as much as they are a humanoid with the head of a rabbit. I like to think of this one as the 'me' that's in my head- the purest form of my thoughts and feelings, but not the solid real-life me.
The second ref is my self-insert persona, Rabbit, the one i picture using most often when i'm reading a fic or imagining a self-insert scenario lol. This one is like the me that people see and meet and speak to in real actual life, if that makes sense. It's the way I come across to people and all of the things I wish I could iron out of my crumpled up real-self <3
The third is a much more specific 'sona, Hazel, who started off as a FNaF:SB animatronic self-insert. She does have a backstory and lore now, which i think makes her more of an OC than a self-insert, but a lot of her is still me and a lot of what she experiences in her backstory is from my life/instills the same feelings that were taken away from things that happened to me, so I think she kinda counts enough to put a ref for her here sdkjfsdhfj
(Why the different names?: makes things a little easier, and they hold meaning to me symbolically, I guess!)
Content!:
Here's a short list of my various fics that will get updated as I create more!
(it was, in reality, not fine.): FNaF Sun/Moon x Reader fanfic, gender neutral, for general audiences, fluff-fest, idiots to lovers
"You're the new tech/repairman at the Fazbear Mega Pizzaplex, unfortunately. Your first task? To make the Daycare Attendant into two separate animatronics. It's an amazing opportunity, really, and there is nothing you love more than getting a chance to really work with such tech! The only bad part is that you don't know how to tell anyone that you just might be in over your head. (You are extremely in over your head.)"
After Everything Was Fixed (but you were still broken): AU FNaF Sun/Moon x (Animatronic) Reader, gender neutral, read with caution, angst, harm to sentient robots, traumatized main character, hurt/comfort slow burn, romance slow burn
"The virus was gone. Everyone was fixed. You had been put back together. It's a time for a new beginning, to do things right this time, to wash away the past and paint a better future.
Their memories of the infection had- mercifully- been taken away from them.
Yours had not.
He doesn't understand why you try to avoid him. Even if you could tell him, you're not sure you would. You want to be his friend, but it's difficult; every time you see him, you remember the hundreds of times he killed you."
A fic where you are a repairman-themed STAFFbot, taking place post-virus. In the past, Moon, infected by the virus, took delight in attacking and dismantling the reader during the night. Now, in the present, you find yourself burdened by the memories of the past while everyone around you has no recollection of the events. It gets more complicated as Sun and Moon, both now cleared of the virus, grow curious of you. This fic will follow a series of arcs, presently on arc one. For anyone curious, feel free to send an ask about the arcs in 'After Everything Was Fixed'!
The Sun, the Moon, and the Blazing Comet (title subject to change): AU FNaF Sun/Moon/Eclipse x Reader, gender neutral, teen and up audiences, travel/journey, betrayal, hurt/comfort slowburn, reconciling, themes of breaking the mold, found family
(TBA)
Hold My Broken Hands (title subject to change): AU FNaF Sun/Moon x Reader, gender neutral, mature audiences, dark romance, dark comedy, severe bodily harm, mutilation, murder, obsessive behavior, possessive behavior, lovesick
(TBA)
My AU's!:
i'm going to make a Babbit-AUs-Masterpost and then put the link here i swear, i just have so many im sorry jdfhsjdfhs (like more than twenty)
Fandoms!:
I enjoy, have been in, made or make content for:
Pokemon
Undertale
FNaF
Creepypasta (YEAH I KNOW LET ME LIVE OKAY)
My Little Pony (I KNOW OKAY LEAVE ME ALONE)
Steven Universe
Star Trek
Warrior Cats
i'm sure theres more but i just forgot everything i have ever liked wheeeeeze
Whomst the hell?:
HI I'm Rabbit! Or Bones! Or Babbit! Or Avarice/Ava, if you want to go for a more legitimate-sounding name. I'm 24 years old, prefer to use they/them pronouns, and so, so incredibly ace. I've been drawing as long as I've had the ability to hold a pen, writing since I was in grade school, and being a plague to the ones around me since the beginning of time!
If you've seen my art, its probably from the absolute mountain of fluffy-wuffy love-dovey (y/n) x Sundrop/Moondrop/Eclipse doodles I've been sharing for several years now sdfjhsdj. If you've heard of my fics, it was probably the one I made just for fun that's now turned into an actual fanfiction that I enjoy writing, the silly-lovey-fluff incarnate (it was, in reality, not fine.) !
Likes n Dislikes!:
I'm a sucker for sap, fluff, and lots and lots of love-dovey bullshit! I also like stories about finding oneself and monsters being befriended or loved. I like space, aliens, robots, the odd and strange, injecting humanity into things not human, monsters, creatures, animals, the fae, concepts of spirits and karma and the afterlife, and more! I dislike 'fanservice', most anime tbh LOL it's not personal I just don't enjoy it im srry, FLY BABIES i know they have an actual name but i hate that word too pls just dont i will scream, sexually aggressive/forceful content/characters, being made to feel small, dumb, or trapped,
Other!:
I have a pretty high gross-out tolerance! I also have a pretty high 'wow that's messed up huh' tolerance, in that sometimes I will just say stuff that's super grim or dark or messed up and not realize it lmao. I am full of random facts and anecdotes, especially weird or gross ones! sometimes i get on tangents that can go for actual hours so pls forgive that lol
WARNINGS:
THIS BLOG MAY FEATURE CONTENT BASED ON/RELATED TO THEMES OF GUILT, CHILDHOOD LOSS, GRIEF, SELF HATRED, DISCONNECTION FROM REALITY/SELF, TRAUMA, AND SEVERE DEPRESSION/ANXIETY. YES I AM GETTING HELP. YES I AM OKAY. THANK YOU FOR YOUR PATIENCE AND UNDERSTANDING.
I don't think the waffle joke is really as bad as everyone makes it out to be, like throwing in a joke or reference about waffles doesn't automatically mean you are infantalizing Toby as a character.
People lump it in with the cheesecake joke but that was literally started as a fatphobic jab, the waffle joke was always just... Toby rlly likes waffles. And i just don't think thats a fair comparison. Also the waffle joke was (accidentally) started by the creator and was a reflection of Toby's very canon hyper playful personality. Yes people in the fandom flandarized the shit out of him and boiled him down to just the hyper annoying silly guy, which yes in return was infantalizing, but that ain't the waffle jokes fault.
At least not entirely. I consider the waffle joke less of a result of the infantalization and more of a sign of what was to come. I just think if someone wants to make a waffle reference in what is clearly just some silly unserious fanart it shouldn't be the end of the world. Idk.
How dare you give me the idea to draw oh god the worms demand it oh god no no NOOOOOOOOOOO yes I gotta- no I need less stress- BUT THE LIL GUY CAN FIT IN A TUPPERWARE CONTAINER AGJDBKSJSJDJS HELP THE WORMSSSS
