50 flavours of mi goi

Mi goi is love, mi goi is life. Roses are blue, I love you. Seize the day. I am your best girl friend and wingman trapped in a guy's body. INFJ/INFP, depends of the day really. Ace (A♥), but still an annoying fuck. Whovian, Sherlockian and soooo much more. Oh, wow, lovely...

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You give my world colours.

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But even when you like somebody, a big part of that typically includes treasuring the idea that your feelings are reciprocated. It's impossible to like someone unconditionally.

Scum's Wish 44, Mengo Yokoyari

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I would have liked to spend more time on this, but you get the idea.

Happy Ace Week! Again, thank you all for continuing to reblog my previous aaw entries. Visibility is so so important. Enjoy <3

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It’s Asexual Awareness week and so I thought I’d finally post this guest comic I did a last year for Oh Joy Sex Toy (warning: the link is NSFW). To be honest, “ace discourse” on this website exhausts me, so I wasn’t going to post this. But I decided I wanted to just get something off my chest. 

I spent the majority of my life thinking there was something seriously wrong with me. And learning about Asexuality not only freed me (somewhat) from that, it also freed me from compulsory heterosexuality. See, I assumed because I wasn’t sexually attracted to women, I had to be straight. Nevermind that I wasn’t sexually attracted to ANYONE, compulsory heterosexuality had convinced me that I just had to “wait for the right guy” or some bullshit. Finding out I was ace allowed me to THEN make the realization that I wasn’t straight. But it didn’t happen right away.

Sexuality and orientation are complicated, multilayered, confusing. I think it’s important to acknowledge that cishet ace struggles and experiences are not comparable to those of LGBT folks. They have their own hurdles certainly, but the institutional oppression of LGBT people is much more severe and blatant. I do not think that is up for debate. 

But I do think it is also important to acknowledge that when society is enforcing heterosexuality, it can be extremely difficult to unpack every aspect of one’s orientation at once. This goes for every LGBTQIA+ person. We all have to undergo a process of figuring ourselves out, and it is rough. So I really think having awareness and resources and outreach about Asexuality is hugely important within the LGBT community, because LGBT folks may not realize that asexuality is part of that identity they’re figuring out, and that can be a major stumbling block. 

Anyhoo that’s my 2 cents. To all my aces and especially my LGBT aces - you are not broken, and you don’t have to be ashamed of any part of your identity <3

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MBTI types as food

MBTI types as dollicious. Art by meago

INFJ - Blueberry

INFP - Green Tea

ENFP - Ramen

ENFJ - Banana

ISFP - Choc Mint Ice Cream

ESFP - Mojito

ISTP - Dragon Fruit

ESTP - Watermelon

ISFJ - Olive

ESFJ - Spaghetti

ISTJ - Carrot Cake

ESTJ - Apple Pie

INTJ - Mushroom

INTP - Meringue

ENTP - Mochi

ENTJ - Wine

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Sometimes, I catch myself trying to remember the last time I had a meaningful physical contact with another person, just a hug or a heartfelt squeeze of my hand, and my heart twitches

Paula Hawkins, "The Girl On The Train"

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