Sofia The First

- she/her - 18/07 - live laugh love Tems

[777sanele]

Some pics of me, I don't feel like posting my full face yet but 🤷🏾‍♀️🧍🏾‍♀️🧍🏾‍♀️🧍🏾‍♀️

[777sanele]

An adoptee: I know getting adopted to a middle-class or upper middle-class family has opened doors for me which most likely would've been shut if I stayed with my biological family. But I'm still angry and sad because I was adopted, I hate being adopted so much I wish I was aborted. When I was religious as a child I cried to God(s) why He/they punished me by separating me from my mother and what I can do to get her back. Every year when my birthday is coming, it fills me with sadness because I don't have a real family, and I wish in the future there won't be kids who have to go through the same stuff I grew up with.

A person who isn't adopted: But I want to adopt kids because I don't like men and I'm infertile so I'll adopt a kid. I know all the problems it causes but I'll be so much better

Why you people have to comment on this shit? When adoptees are telling they're suicidal, they wish they were never born or feel worthless, have self-image or self-esteem problems why people who are not adopted feel the urge to talk on it? If you're not adopted you do not know how it feels to feel lost, abandoned and unwanted from early childhood, you don't know how it feels to feel like a back-up plan, a second chance, last option. So why would you bring up your own want for adoption especially right after reading again another adopted person telling how they've felt inferior compared to their siblings all their lives because their siblings are biologically related to the parents? Can you people read the room?

[777sanele]

Little brown girl, you are beautiful to me, I hope you see

Ebony Jenae in her song "Little Brown Girl"

[777sanele]

I was watching Boondocks and in the first episode the grandpa was giving a lecture to Huey and Riley and the grandpa said to them:

"We don't use the n-word in this house."

So of course Huey just HAS TO point out "Grandpa you said the word nigga twenty times yesterday." And the grandpa says, without any hesitation, with a half of a second pause, so little time after Huey has said his thing so the grandpa's intention had to be talking over Huey:

"Nigga, hush." Dude is out there yelling at the elementary schooler? That man was probably seventy? And danced naked in his house? Oh my days 😭😭

[777sanele]

Can we all take a deep breath, swallow down the pride, the parasocial relationship we have with our favourite celebrities and... STOP SUPPORTING NIGGAS WHO ARE PEDOPHILES, RAPISTS, SEXUAL ABUSERS IN GENERAL AND DID I MENTION PEDOPHILES?

I'm not talking about anyone especially, but just had to get this out of my mouth

[777sanele]

Hugging my teddy bear like it's my most trusted friend <3

[777sanele]

Taking care of kids is so fun, I've always enjoyed babysitting (as long as it's not my own siblings)

BUT

The worst time to do it is during ovulation. I just become so soft and more emotional, I want nothing but hold the kid securely in my arms and smell their hair. It's so crazy how much the hormones in my body affect how I think and feel

[livngdoll]

pampered pupz

[777sanele]

My poodle, Denis

It's a girl even tho it's name is Denis, and I really don't know should I write Denis, Dennys or Dennise so I use all three :D

[777sanele]

My Great Dane, Aamu <3

[777sanele]

Can someone hold my hand and explain in extreme detail why on the Earth us adoptees should be grateful for being adopted?

[pinklatte444]

White bitches making balaclavas fashionable n trendy after hatecriming hijabis like mashallah sister 🙏

[sweetestnpink]

Sweetestnpink talks 101 ☁︎ ❀

i will always root for my black girly girls, i love them with my whole heart.

[achillesinhighheels]

Sade for Cosmopolitan [1985]

[777sanele]

Tems from Raindance music video

[777sanele]

I can't get out of my head the two Tweets where the first lady said "watching 2000's movies is funny now in BBL era, 'cause the white women were freaking out if someone said they got glutes." And another lady responding to her said "White women didn't want to grow glutes until they saw black women with them."

I've been thinking about this shift in culture and Western beauty standards a lot, 'cause a lot women from Africa have naturally big glutes, I've grown up in this Kardashian-Jenner family era where the women of that family get fillers, botox, body lifts to look what us African women look naturally. It's very odd, because black women have been punished for being "thick", the first example of this I can think of is the sexualization of twerking and wining. During these past maybe fourteen years, our body has been the inspiration, the body that Kardashian-Jenner family has been imitating and after them, a lot of people – mostly women – have followed that path. Of course black women like SZA and Nicki Minaj get surgeries too, but the body white women were or are trying to shape themselves to is black woman's body: lip fillers, body lifts and fillers on butt cheeks-

The most annoying side of this plastic surgery beauty which Kardashian-Jenner family has brought upto people's faces, us black women do NOT get attention. Nobody says, "Ay, I think black women are beautiful", but at the same time who's surprised? These are the same masses of people who are happy of their beneficiary of white supremacy, these are the same groups of people who can't stand the sight of a black woman. Especially a black woman who is beautiful, sexy, attractive, smart, gentle, calm, welcoming and amazing to be around in every way, because the people who enjoy benefitting from racism and anti-blackness get intimidated when black women get positive attention. That's my theory on why from the raise of Kardashian-Jenner family's plastic surgery beauty standards to present day's BBL era, black women hardly get admiration for the things we have naturally.

[actual-howlinglikeaseaturtle]

Adoptee voice: I wish I was fucking aborted