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Mars in the 8H /Pluto in the 12h having dark entities attack our dreams. We know it wasn’t just a nightmare. My advise is to put on some spiritual music or mantras while you sleep. Helps a whole lot. Also keep scary movies to a minimum. Without faith it’s a very very scary placement.

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To my fellow 12H Venus

To understand a 12H Venus, I want you to think about that personal belonging from a loved one who passed away or someone you no longer see. When you smell that shirt, perfume, or hear a certain song, for just a second you can feel them again. For a moment, you travel back in time, and the tears of love and longing flood your eyes. That’s where a 12H Venus lives. We live in loving memory. We live in longing, because missing you is how we know how to love best.

We find those who are lost in addiction, mental health struggles, and grief because we know what it’s like to be lost and forgotten. We know what it’s like to love behind closed doors and in dark rooms, to feel like we were never enough for others to stay and love us too. We remember that even the lost souls are still human, and very much our people.

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Hi! It’s me again ❤️

We’ve heard time and time again from many astrologers how important Mercury is. Let me be the 50 millionth person to say, if you and your partner do not have a good Mercury connection, at least the same element, the misunderstandings will eventually lead to distance and strain in the relationship. IDC how well your Venus or Moon signs get along. Mercury is how they think about you, the relationship itself, and how much you stay on their mind.

I have an earth Moon and Sun, also a water Mars and Venus, but I have a Libra Mercury, and talking to earth Mercuries is sooooo draining to me because they struggle to keep conversations flowing without reiterating everything, taking too long to understand, or turning it into an argument. I love y’all, but lord, I’d rather sit in silence sometimes.

As an air Mercury, I need to be able to bounce ideas around quickly. I also need someone who understands my thought process. Don’t try to make someone with a water Mercury understand doing things just for the plot, the experiment, or the latest gossip. Air Mercuries need to be able to dump information and get good feedback so they can learn at a faster pace.

I love all Mercuries, though, and I’ll start a series diving deep into each one’s unique advantages and disadvantages.

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Just a random observation, but Cancer moon love for their mother is deeper that meets the eye. It’s almost scary because some of them may never really leave her, they’ll move their spouse in just to be able to stay with her, move next door, or stay emotionally attached forever. The attachment can feel almost childlike well into adulthood.

On the flip side, I’ve noticed many Cancer Moons don’t do well when they aren’t close to their mom whether she passed away or lives far away. They can lose that sense of security and end up slipping into addiction or extreme dependency in toxic relationships because they feel a constant need to fill that void. Some Cancer Moons genuinely struggle because their mother becomes such a huge part of their identity.

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Can we have a discussion on accurate it is that a man will marry a woman who has his Jupiter in her big 3 and sometimes her Venus!! So many charts I’ve seen of men who seem very happy, with no known scandals!! Very interesting.

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Scorpio Venus (yours truly)

Scorpio Venus and sex can easily turn into an obsession. Not because we are overly sexual, but because we attach intensity to it. It becomes a way to feel powerful, wanted, and emotionally connected without having to fully open up. The chase, the tension, the control, all of it feeds something deeper than just physical desire.

Sex can feel therapeutic for us. It can calm anxiety, distract from emotional pain, and temporarily fill whatever void we are trying not to look at. It is a quick way to feel close to someone without having to explain ourselves. In that moment, we feel in control. We feel chosen. We feel less alone.

The problem is when it turns into a coping mechanism.

If we are not self aware, we can start using sex to avoid real vulnerability. We may confuse intensity with intimacy. We might sleep with someone to feel bonded, then pull away once it becomes emotionally real. Or we might stay in situations that are toxic because the sexual connection feels addictive.

Self sabotage shows up when we test people instead of trusting them. When we cheat out of fear of being betrayed first. When we push boundaries just to see who will tolerate us. Sometimes we would rather ruin something ourselves than risk being left.

With Scorpio Venus, sex is rarely casual. It is either deeply connecting or deeply destructive. And which one it becomes depends on how healed we are.

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Who can point me to a good astrography reader ?

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Cancer mars checklist (me)

Nipples are foreplay

Cry baby

Angry

Loving

Big mama

I hate you

The real grinch

Kids love us we love them

Nap time or will burn the world down

Capricorn mars & Venus are Daddy ( cannot but will try to resist) 🥵🥰😘

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Scorpio mars men

Mars in Scorpio men, let’s talk about it. Maybe it’s just my experience, but they aren’t as kinky as everyone thinks, but that doesn’t mean they don’t get the job done. It’s more like missionary the way movies do it: intense, focused, and so deeply satisfying. But as someone with heavy Scorpio placements, let me tell you this: if you think for even a second that this placement knows the meaning of “let bygones be bygones,” you are sadly mistaken, and now it might just cost you your life lol. They hold grudges in a way that feels dense and lingering, yet you wouldn’t know unless they chose to reveal it. And when they do, the way they describe the hurt almost aches to listen to. Best believe they’ll get their revenge, and yes, they definitely keep their enemies close. So do yourself a favor and re-evaluate your Scorpio Mars friends and ask, “Did he really forgive me?” lol.

But like I’ve said before, no placement is purely bad or purely good. The upside is their stamina is insane and their devotion is unmatched. After all, Mars is the traditional ruler. The eye contact. The way they touch you, even casually, can send goosebumps straight up your thigh. They even sit and position their bodies in a way that feels seductive without trying. Muah, chef’s kiss. They give me Sydney’s dangerously sexy boyfriend Billy from Scream right after he reveals himself, licking the blood off the knife. Like, do I run, or do I just lay here?

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Sexology

I remember when @awda said that having a composite Chiron in Pisces meant the best sex of your life, but only if the mood was right and the setting felt magical. And when I say magical, I mean moonlight, candles, atmosphere. TMI, but I remember one experience where the sunset was pouring through the window and reflecting in his eyes, lawddd it felt unreal. Sex with this placement is something you wait for all day, something you anticipate. It feels like a spell that only activates at a certain hour, very Cinderella coded, except you do not turn into a pumpkin at midnight.

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Let’s get one thing straight: Lilith should not be glorified. What people label as sexy, dangerous, or risky is often just toxicity romanticized, and it frequently leads to self sabotage.

Take Lilith in the 7th house, for example. These individuals are extremely magnetic. They attract people easily. Others want to be close to them, befriend them, love them. That magnetism is real. But the shadow side, especially when undeveloped, can be deeply destructive. And I say this without trying to offend anyone. Everyone carries both light and shadow.

An undeveloped Lilith in the 7th can make for very harmful friends or partners. They may lure others in with favors, charm, or flattering words, only to become the knife in your back. I have seen this placement give bad advice intentionally, talk behind people’s backs, distort events when relaying them to others, and even steal from friends or family. No one is off limits. In some cases, I have seen betrayals that reached as far as a parent.

They play the victim exceptionally well and are highly skilled with words, using them to regain control or power when they feel threatened. This is the shadow of Lilith. After all, Lilith walked away from God.

Rather than glorifying this energy, we should be asking why Lilith exists as our shadow and doing the shadow work she demands. For Lilith in the 7th, the instinct to reject others first, because rejection feels inevitable, is a defense mechanism. But that defense only ensures isolation, cutting them off from the deep bonds they will eventually crave later in life.

The truth is, if these individuals confronted their shadow instead of manipulating it, if they stopped disconnecting and controlling relationships out of fear, their power would be unmatched. But power without self awareness does not liberate. It destroys.

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I absolutely envy Venus in the 1st house. The natural elegance, the presence, the way they set the tone every time they step outside. I am genuinely curious though. Do most Venus 1H people go through an ugly duckling phase before turning into complete bombshells later on?

I have noticed women often try to tear them down, saying it is just the clothes, the makeup, or surgery that gets them attention. But honestly, it is so much more than that. There is something magnetic about them, borderline magical I promise.

The only downside I have seen is the need for constant validation. Some Venus 1H people can take it far, needing attention not just from their partner, but from their friends significant others or even their best friend’s crush. I wonder if that comes from being overlooked during that earlier ugly duckling stage.

Still, I love them. Just understand Venus in the 1st will never dim their looks or their vibe for anyone, and honestly that is okay. Let us just make sure there is room for others to shine too. 😂

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As someone with strong 8H and 12H energy, I cannot stand 8H synastry in a relationship ,I can handle it in friendships, but romantically it’s just too much. On the flip side, I actually prefer 12H synastry in relationships, yet it’s a huge “no” for friendships.

Anyone else feel the same way?

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The glorification of Lilith in the 1H on this app makes my stomach hurt. I have a 1H Sagittarius placement, and I can’t tell you how lonely it is. Friendships start beautifully and then end out of nowhere, or you realize the person you’ve been calling your best friend secretly hates your guts, keeping you around just to mimic you, steal your movements, your speech, your peace. Then one day they shatter every “friendship memory” by finally saying how they truly feel, or worse, telling someone else who brings it back to you.

And men? They love to try to tame you. They fall in love with everything that makes you strong and authentic, then turn around and backhand you into submission the moment they realize you’re bigger than the program they’re running.

Lilith in the 1H isn’t some edgy aesthetic, it’s moving through life without a real sense of home, because people would rather keep their carpets clean than welcome in someone they’ve always seen as the outsider.

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There’s not a Taurus moon alive that doesn’t have my complete and utter devotion. I’d kiss the ground you walk on. But let’s not talk about needing to be liked like your Libra co-ruler because you are DIVINE, you hear me? The kind of beauty that doesn’t beg to be seen because you are the scene. You are the atmosphere, the warmth in the room, the scent of cookies baking on Christmas Eve.

And you know it, people will try to take from you. Your money, your clothes, your perfume, your essence. They’ll love your energy but never pour it back. And still, you keep giving — giving until there’s nothing left but your soft heart beating for people who never deserved it.

Stop. You are the luxury. You are the comfort. You are the magic everyone chases but can never quite touch.

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As a Scorpio Venus in the 12h, I don’t know if I wanna speak for the 12h Venus or Scorpio Venus when I say this or both. But we have to start admitting the self-sabotage that we do in relationships, where we feel like love is consuming us or has more power. We secretly and I wanna find the right word when I say this we secretly wish our person would leave us, or do something that gives us a reason to leave, because truthfully, we love so purely and selfishly at the same time, that we want to fantasize the loss and be alone.

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Libra moon men are sociopaths. Extremely smart and cunning but the mask they wear permanently is diabolically effective. You don’t know them and if you think you do, you don’t. They will cheat and with the closet people around you. Nobody’s off limits! In my K.Michelle voice 🗣️