Honestly it drives me nuts that so many of the people I care about do not support me and my ex figuring stuff out. we literally got together during a pandemic, live in two different states, work full time jobs, and both struggle with mental health issues so this year has been extremely hard for us both together and individually. I just don’t think people get that just because we are taking space to work on ourselves doesn’t mean we don’t have incredible love for each other. she’s always been my soulmate. From day 1. We both feel that way. She’s still my best friend. The space we have now has been so beneficial for us because we’ve both been able to face our demons in a healthy constructive way. we both know this storm won’t last forever, that’s never been a question. Love isn’t always easy and she’s taught me that.
