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a non-RP sideblog for regularposting, the scribe is a mostly-gay transman is in his 40s, likes/follows/asks will come from RP main @a-knight-errant where you can find more information on the scribe should you wish
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i think if you put in enough academic investment at some point you should be allowed to talk about long dead historical figures like theyre your friends
Should, can, do. At this point all my irls know that if I bring Laura into a conversation I am for sure talking about my own personal close friend Laura Ingalls Wilder. There is no "allowed". Live your dreams you beautiful people
misgendering play is not as hot and never could be as hot as repeatedly gendering someone correctly in a way that feels the tiniest bit threatening and humiliating
the wisdom ive learnt is that becoming part of a friend group 1) takes a long time and 2) involves a lot of feeling awkward and left out at first. there’s nothing terrible about this but if you grew up chronically lonely or have any kind of trauma relating to social isolation this likely feels Really Wrong and activates danger signals. but both fortunately and unfortunately it’s just how becoming close to new people works most of the time
another thing that was not intuitive to me as someone who grew up an autistic loner: basically everyone on the planet is starved for connection all the time and almost everything people do is an attempt to reach out to another. most seemingly illogical interactions and behaviours can be explained by this. you have to take as many of these invitations as you can. even if you're wrong you still attempted to bring more warmth into the world
re ehrc guidance. which is not legally binding.
I wish we lived in a beautiful world where people did not use things for evil because I wish I could send gifts to people without knowing their address or asking them to doxx themselves. because like. for example sometimes i will be like oh that's a cute guinea pig plushie I wish I could send it to my guinea pig mutual who I've never spoken to or interacted with because I think they'd like it. but I can't do that without being like, hi, I'm a stranger on the internet you've never spoken to, tell me your home address, I want to mail you an object. I just want to be able to hand a box to the post office worker and be like, hello, this is for guineapigmutual, and they will nod and say yep we know exactly who that is and they will take it and mail it and I don't need to ever know the actual address or name or anything. unfortunately things cannot work like this but I can dream
Oh wow yes, I had this experience recently and then felt very weird about having excitedly impulse-bought the thing because of course I cannot actually ask to send it to the moot that came to mind when I saw it, that would be so weird and creepy
On the plus side though the thing is mine now and it lives in plain view in my home and reminds me of said moot whenever it catches my eye, so that is a nice outcome
This is an EXTREMELY blessed post! And accurate! When I first moved out I was so excited for my new place I slept on the floor and had my tv there and that was it. Loved it. You grow and you build and you gain and you lose. I lost that place and everything in it. Now I have a new place with new things and it’s very much home.
In the future, there is a small, quiet room that is just yours, where you are safe and you are free. In that room your shoulders will finally start to come down from around your ears. Nobody can come into that room unless you let them. In that clean quiet place, you will work and you will study. You will love and you will heal.
-Captain Awkward, “Should I Move Away From My Abusive Family?”
Leaving Home before 18: A Practical Guide for Cast-Offs, Runaways, and Everybody in Between
Ask the Bitches: “I Just Turned 18 and My Parents Are Kicking Me Out. How Do I Brace Myself?”
{ MASTERPOST } Everything You Need To Know About Living Independently for the First Time
Oh, huuuuge shout out for the Captain Awkward quote! So much of what I know about how to be a grownass adult came from the years I spent serving in the Awkward Army. That blog is GOLD 💛
The power of these three things combined will improve your life beyond recognition istg
if you're confused about all the pumpkins and ghosts and stuff, it's actually a sort of seasonal harvest festival in parts of the northern hemisphere. yeah, it's kinda weird to think about how it's autumn down there when up here it's spring, haha yeah imagine them all, upside down, and getting colder in october when it's just starting to warm up
and can you imagine, down there it's COLD at christmas, crazy right?
that's nonsense, why would it be cold at christmas, it doesn't even make sense? that's a festival about the birth of something??? obviously that happens in summer.
Excuse me?! What you guys doing calling the northern hemisphere "down there"?! We're north. That's UP on a map when it's oriented properly.
what the fuck are you talking about?
Even more of my moots are reblogging each other today and I am so into it
So satisfying when I get to praise two moots with one like
It's like stroke one, kiss one free
Concealing an erection is SOOOO fucking hot to me. I love to fantasize about seeing someone's face go bright red as they slam a pillow over their lap, chuckling nervously and sweating. Just knowing they're red hot and throbbing under there, their body BEGGING them to give in and fuck already. Trying to tuck it into the waistband of their boxers with shakey hands, and ultimately giving up when their boner just pulls their boxers away from their body. Eventually giving in and excusing themselves to the bathroom to "handle it" quickly. Ughhhhh
Mamdani says he won’t ban snowball fights despite cops getting pelted with the frosty orbs
journalists can't bear to say the same thing twice, so: frosty orbs
What an absolutely ridiculous phrase. I can't possibly think of any context in which that wording could possibly fit. Actually, do you know what, hold that thought
Ryan Gosling and Michael Pitt in Murder by Numbers (2002)
“In order for white people and other people in privileged social locations to truly be invested in liberation work, they must be willing to not only see themselves, but also see the people they harm. They must be willing to set aside their intentions and see their impact. They must? In some sense, be willing to die: to experience death of the ego.”
- Grieving While Black by Breeshia Wade
PSA to UK trans and/or nonbinary friends this evening: it's a perfectly reasonable act of self-care to ignore the news about government guidance as it's dropping, and wait for pro-trans organisations to read through the details and create summaries of how it will affect us. After the Cass Report came out, such summaries were beginning to circulate within 48hrs.
The initial reaction to the guidance online will be emotional (for very good reason) and will include hot takes that may well make things seem worse than they are, and cause undue anxiety and stress.
I have no wish to minimise and say "It's not that bad." Of course it's bad. Everything that comes out of the government's mouth on the subject of trans people is persecutory horseshit.
But you don't have to ride their rollercoaster. You don't have to go into the tags and stress yourself out wondering exactly what the fuck it means and what we can do about it. Those answers will come soon.
I for one am sending this out and then not looking at the tags again until Sunday at least.
Take care of yourselves out there. Don't let the bastards make you feel any worse than you have to. I love you.
"girl dinner" "boy kibble" can y'all just eat a meal gender neutrally
gender neutrients
Polyamory but person A and B are inlove and A and C are inlove
And B and C are enemies <3
One for the "I loved the fantasy of this and then I lived the reality of it" archives. Fantasy and reality are very different animals of course so here's hoping I find my way back to being able to enjoy the fantasy again one day 😂 😬
