Cassula Lemonade Surname V

Cass’ the name, Valheim is the only game. 35, new england, she/they

[a-little-lynx]

Menaces n Mice this’ home now! Welcome!

All likes and follows come from @thelittlest-lynx !

Minors, blank, ageless blogs: DNI.

Ahoy there, I’m Cass!

I was brought forth from the depths on May the Sixth, 1991, shuffled from Romania to Massaholia in July ‘91. I am 4’10”, mostly a woman, mostly human. I am married to an extremely tall human man who I refer to as the Viking.

I was diagnosed with adhd as a kid, but it’s not just that though there’s neurodivergence aplenty so, don’t mind the casshole. She’s usually kind and sweet, but not always, and not always on purpose.

I smoke a decent amount of weed. It keeps me sane and makes human interactions infinitely less anxiety-inducing. I do it for the people, tbh. Any and all tips and content proceeds go directly to my weed fund unless otherwise specified! Weed also helps keep me generally slutty. So, be sure to follow the link above, subscribe, and all serious content requests are to my ask box* first please! *off anon!

I’m getting back into sewing! I desperately need to figure out what the embodiment of Taurus in emerald green and gold looks like. Please help.

I am enchanted by the moon and the stars, and their home: space. The ocean has my heart, the mountains have my soul. The snow will always be my first love.

I consider myself bi, but it looks more like pan as the days roll on but it’s the stuff inside, the breadth and character, the brains and dreams, that I really look for. …real talk I just like the colors of the bi flag better. (No, no. That’s a joke. I’ve always considered bi to be “any”, meaning that I find anyone attractive, any one. So, I stick with bi. I know, I know. Not correct. Meh.)

I refer to my mutuals as Menaces and Mice. Most of the menaces and mice have tags of their own, whether or not they’re aware is another story.

*~*Trans rights are human rights, BLM, fiercely pro-women’s rights, free Palestine, land back, ACAB.*~*

Immediate Blocks: Minors, ageless, blank blogs, MAGA, hatred of any kind, TERFS, zionists, bootlickers, crypto bros, incels, and tumblr doms. I will not message you to add your age, I will simply just block you. Sorry not sorry.

~but hey Cass what can we expect on here~

Ramblings.

Shitposts.

Anime.

Hentai.

Porn.

Reading lists.

Laugh factories.

I’m pretty sure @thelittlest-lynx is on its last leg…

[epsteinian]

Lençóis Maranhenses, Brazil photo by George Steinmetz for National Geographic 

[ringsof-smoke]

School starts next week!!!! (August 10th for one and the 11th for the other tiny person)

Ahhhhh!!!

I have one munchkin returning to school

one munchkin starting kindergarten

And just one who will be there before I know it! 😭

🫠🫠🫠

guys I am not prepared.

I have gotten most of the school supplies but no backpacks yet and forget about shoes or clothes for the start of the year. Ugh. SCHOOL IS TOO EXPENSIVE

I am working my butt off just to keep a roof over our heads so if anyone out there would like to help me get these kiddos their backpacks that would be hugely helpful and appreciated! 🙏🏻💜

(and I’m not even talking new stuff just things that FIT and without so much wear and tear!)

Cashapp $aac3692

PayPal.me/caldwellalex

Moots..🙏🏻boost if you will m’ladies/gents

@isthistruthordream

@ventraman

@a-little-lynx

@matthew-pasquarello

@joshuaorrizonte

@dyke-pup

[ringsof-smoke]

School starts next week!!!! (August 10th for one and the 11th for the other tiny person)

Ahhhhh!!!

I have one munchkin returning to school

one munchkin starting kindergarten

And just one who will be there before I know it! 😭

🫠🫠🫠

guys I am not prepared.

I have gotten most of the school supplies but no backpacks yet and forget about shoes or clothes for the start of the year. Ugh. SCHOOL IS TOO EXPENSIVE

I am working my butt off just to keep a roof over our heads so if anyone out there would like to help me get these kiddos their backpacks that would be hugely helpful and appreciated! 🙏🏻💜

(and I’m not even talking new stuff just things that FIT and without so much wear and tear!)

Cashapp $aac3692

PayPal.me/caldwellalex

Moots..🙏🏻boost if you will m’ladies/gents

@isthistruthordream

@ventraman

@a-little-lynx

@matthew-pasquarello

@joshuaorrizonte

@dyke-pup

[stainedglassjam]

✸ ☆ ✸ ☆ ✸ ☆ ✸

[ringsof-smoke]

School starts next week!!!! (August 10th for one and the 11th for the other tiny person)

Ahhhhh!!!

I have one munchkin returning to school

one munchkin starting kindergarten

And just one who will be there before I know it! 😭

🫠🫠🫠

guys I am not prepared.

I have gotten most of the school supplies but no backpacks yet and forget about shoes or clothes for the start of the year. Ugh. SCHOOL IS TOO EXPENSIVE

I am working my butt off just to keep a roof over our heads so if anyone out there would like to help me get these kiddos their backpacks that would be hugely helpful and appreciated! 🙏🏻💜

(and I’m not even talking new stuff just things that FIT and without so much wear and tear!)

Cashapp $aac3692

PayPal.me/caldwellalex

Moots..🙏🏻boost if you will m’ladies/gents

@isthistruthordream

@ventraman

@a-little-lynx

@matthew-pasquarello

@joshuaorrizonte

@dyke-pup

[rosieandthemoon]

Labyrinth \\\ via

[lovesickblush]

Express yourself don’t repress yourself

[ode-on-a-grecian-butt]

[lokaror]

GOUGAR CLAIMS COOL ROCK

[ubersaur]

God forbid women do anything

[justpastsaturn]

She had a good time, too

[ringsof-smoke]

School starts next week!!!! (August 10th for one and the 11th for the other tiny person)

Ahhhhh!!!

I have one munchkin returning to school

one munchkin starting kindergarten

And just one who will be there before I know it! 😭

🫠🫠🫠

guys I am not prepared.

I have gotten most of the school supplies but no backpacks yet and forget about shoes or clothes for the start of the year. Ugh. SCHOOL IS TOO EXPENSIVE

I am working my butt off just to keep a roof over our heads so if anyone out there would like to help me get these kiddos their backpacks that would be hugely helpful and appreciated! 🙏🏻💜

(and I’m not even talking new stuff just things that FIT and without so much wear and tear!)

Cashapp $aac3692

PayPal.me/caldwellalex

Moots..🙏🏻boost if you will m’ladies/gents

@isthistruthordream

@ventraman

@a-little-lynx

@matthew-pasquarello

@joshuaorrizonte

@dyke-pup

[ringsof-smoke]

School starts next week!!!! (August 10th for one and the 11th for the other tiny person)

Ahhhhh!!!

I have one munchkin returning to school

one munchkin starting kindergarten

And just one who will be there before I know it! 😭

🫠🫠🫠

guys I am not prepared.

I have gotten most of the school supplies but no backpacks yet and forget about shoes or clothes for the start of the year. Ugh. SCHOOL IS TOO EXPENSIVE

I am working my butt off just to keep a roof over our heads so if anyone out there would like to help me get these kiddos their backpacks that would be hugely helpful and appreciated! 🙏🏻💜

(and I’m not even talking new stuff just things that FIT and without so much wear and tear!)

Cashapp $aac3692

PayPal.me/caldwellalex

Moots..🙏🏻boost if you will m’ladies/gents

@isthistruthordream

@ventraman

@a-little-lynx

@matthew-pasquarello

@joshuaorrizonte

@dyke-pup

[ringsof-smoke]

School starts next week!!!! (August 10th for one and the 11th for the other tiny person)

Ahhhhh!!!

I have one munchkin returning to school

one munchkin starting kindergarten

And just one who will be there before I know it! 😭

🫠🫠🫠

guys I am not prepared.

I have gotten most of the school supplies but no backpacks yet and forget about shoes or clothes for the start of the year. Ugh. SCHOOL IS TOO EXPENSIVE

I am working my butt off just to keep a roof over our heads so if anyone out there would like to help me get these kiddos their backpacks that would be hugely helpful and appreciated! 🙏🏻💜

(and I’m not even talking new stuff just things that FIT and without so much wear and tear!)

Cashapp $aac3692

PayPal.me/caldwellalex

Moots..🙏🏻boost if you will m’ladies/gents

@isthistruthordream

@ventraman

@a-little-lynx

@matthew-pasquarello

@joshuaorrizonte

@dyke-pup

[miamaimania]

“Ceramic Computer” by Ma Jun ⬣ Ming-style patterns reimagine desktop hardware

[pangur-and-grim]

ballistic missile

[rmns-twlv-twlv-deactivated20150]

Handwriting is so cool cause it’s like the written equivalent of the sound of someone’s voice.

[shamebats]

Imo the best type of system for children to grow up in would be one that assumes the birth parents/primary guardians won't do shit and takes care of every aspect of childcare that's essential for their wellbeing and development, collectively.

[shamebats]

But I'm just a guy who only learned how to brush his teeth properly and got glasses as a child because we had both a dentist and a doctor come to school on a regular basis. The dentist would have us all stand in a circle with our little toothbrushes and show us how to brush and correct our technique. The doctors would give us general health assessments and then have the teachers contact our patents and essentially peer pressure them into getting us any health intervention we needed. My parents only reluctantly got me glasses because they knew the teachers would judge them if they kept seeing me sit in the very front row and still squint to see the chalkboard. So I'm biased.

[shamebats]

The only times I ever remember seeing a dentist or doctor as a child was at school. I'm quite healthy physically and I'm very grateful for all the care I got from the various professionals who cared about my well-being and development more than my actual parents did.

We had free healthcare including dental, mind you, my parents just couldn't be bothered. When my brother, as a teenager, asked our mother if she could take him to his orthodontist appointments (which he'd already arranged for on his own) she basically told him she didn't feel like it and he had to take the bus.

If I could improve anything about that system, I'd take it even further and make it so kids could see a doctor and get meds, treatments, therapy, tests, disability aids etc. without having to rely on their parents as well. I shouldn't have had to put up with being bullied and guilt-tripped about the family finances and the time investment needed to take me to the optometrist every time I needed new glasses.

[shamebats]

Some parents would not take care of their children even if they were given all the time and the resources. Mine are a great example of that — my mother stopped working and became a homemaker when I was in kindergarten, my father worked from the garage and was also always home. They had a car and our village even had a bus that would come once or twice an hour that would take you to the next two bigger cities.

Did that, plus the free healthcare, translate into them actually parenting and caring for us properly? It did not. They only ever did any of that reluctantly when not doing it would make them look bad, and most of the time they did a shitty job because they could never resist the urge to boost their egos by means of bullying literal children.

So I have to wonder: what did they actually contribute to our upbringing? Like they didn't teach us shit and mostly they just endangered our mental and physical health — but hey, at least they gave me cPTSD! That took some work too.

[anarchistmemedistro]

see also family abolition, and youth liberation .

[applefae]

A knee-jerk response to neglectful parenting I see a lot is “people should have to get licenses and take rigorous tests to PROVE that they should be ALLOWED to have kids” which is eugenics. That’s just the starting line for eugenics.

We are at a point in humanity where there is no meaningful reason why we shouldn’t be structuring our societies around wellbeing for all instead of wellbeing for the “deserving”.

Assume some parents will fail. Build social infrastructure that is designed to support failed kids rather than punish would-be parents.

[queer-riot-dragon]

Parents do not have to be neglectful to fail!

They can be busy, tired, stressed about finances, ignorant, etc. They can want to do the best for their kid and Fail Anyways.

The best thing is to support the children and give them the tools they need to succeed even if the parents are already giving them those tools. Because you can never learn something too much.

[lessproblematical]

Also sometimes parents become disabled or die and family can't always be counted on, and sometimes there isn't other family

[frostedmagnolias]

Cotton Day Gown

c. 1832

Chertsey Museum