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The Creampie Aficionado

It’s been a loooong time since I last met a new potential Bull (or even updated my blog here for that matter), but life’s been busy and no one’s really piqued my interest of late. I’ve kinda accepted the ongoing man drought this year, and with the limited time we have, our regular Bulls have kept me sufficiently entertained. Plus, a guy we often played with years ago has moved back to Sydney from…

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Male Escorts as Bulls?

Male Escorts as Bulls?

A while a go I was asked by a reader whether it was a good idea to seek out a male escort for their first Hotwife experience. He gave me some valid reasons as to why an escort would be ideal for his wife, such as for maintaining discretion and to actually be guaranteed of an attractive man turning up to a date. Given how the latter can truly be a challenging aspect of Hotwifing, I had to concede…

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All Work. No Play.

All Work. No Play.

I meant to do a ‘Happy New Year’ type post well before today but alas, this Hotwife found herself in a busy spell, and unfortunately not of the fun type!

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Hotwife Review of 2021

Hotwife Review of 2021

It wouldn’t be right to see off 2021 without a recap of my Hotwifing shenanigans, not that I had been super active this year. To be honest, I knew this year was going to be busy with both family and work commitments so meeting new Bulls was not something I expected to be doing much of. Nonetheless, I wasn’t exactly a nun either this year and as ever, thank you to my Only Fans followers for…

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Only Fans Update

I’ve enjoyed being a ‘Creator’ on Only Fans since the website first launched a few years ago. I was also on Chaturbate a fair bit around then but as Chaturbate is quite time intensive (and I’m time poor), I was rarely on it. I only webcammed for fun but it sure didn’t hurt that a few generous people tipped me for my trouble. I did wonder how some other performers managed to find the time to be on…

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Team Player or Solo Perfomer?

Team Player or Solo Perfomer?

If it’s not obvious from my blog posts and erotica, I’m a fan of group sex or mini gang bangs. I don’t need to take on a soccer team by all means, but I’m partial to intimate sessions with three or four guys in a luxe hotel suite. That’s how I roll. Sadly, such sessions are actually not easy to organise so my partaking of the delights of multiple-cock action tends to be an annual event, just like…

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My XXXmas Present

A couple of years ago, I complained bitterly about a wannabe Bull who I met for drinks but who later ghosted me. Aside from his inexperience in group situations or Hotwifing, he ticked many of my boxes as far as the perfect single guy was concerned, so when he disappeared, I was truly disappointed. Of course I moved on but I never quite forgot the photos he had shared of his big, bent cock. My…

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Reader Question: To Find or Hire a Bull?

Reader Question: To Find or Hire a Bull?

“Dear Emma, I am writing to thank you for putting together such an informative blog on the hotwife lifestyle. We are new to Hotwifing, and I was hoping that you might be able to answer a few quick questions for me. First, I was the one who suggested Hotwifing, and I have proposed that we start with an escort (we have been looking at an escort website). I have noticed that you don’t discuss using…

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Sexy Hookups in COVID Times

Sexy Hookups in COVID Times

So we’re more than a year into this pandemic and I can’t overstate how much the world has changed since we first heard the word corona used without a slice of lime in sight. Our vocabulary has burgeoned with new terminologies, as have our pantries with instant noodles and cans of soup. And who’d have thought in 2019 that we’d be keeping masks handy at all times in case a snap lockdown is…

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The Lazy Hotwife

Based on the lack of posts so far this year, I’m sure you’re inclined to agree that I’m one lazy ass Hotwife, however that’s not quite the premise of this post. I’ve been pretty busy lately with both work and family life chewing into my spare time, so being an active Hotwife has taken a backseat in 2021. That’s not to say I’m not having fun (as fans on my Only Fans account will attest to), but I…

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Review: Satisfyer Pro G-Spot Rabbit

Review: Satisfyer Pro G-Spot Rabbit

I’m sad to report that my We-Vibe Melt died. I had this particular toy for just over a year and it just stopped charging properly over the last few months. We-Vibe don’t make cheap toys so I kinda expected it to last a little longer, but based on other clitoral air-pulsing/suction toys I’ve had, I think a year of fairly consistent usage is about all you can hope for! At any rate, I’m not going to…

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Appetite

Thanks for the Bull Drought concerns everyone! The drought was happily temporary and I’m pleased to report that I finally met a decent guy. Actually, I had three coffee dates over a one-week period, though I’m only going to bother discussing two of them as it turned out one of the guys was attached. He seemed to think that the marriage was over but his wife just didn’t know about it… Anyway, I…

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Bull Drought of 2021

Bull Drought of 2021

What? Already? We’re not even a quarter of the way into 2021 and I’ve declared a Bull Drought? I could well be hasty in suggesting so, but from where I’m sitting it sure feels that way! The end of 2020 held much promise for the New Year with a glorious 2-Bull session, but alas… This Hotwife is approaching April 2021 with a degree of pessimism. My two regulars have been fairly busy in the New Year…

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Reader Question: Where's the fun for me?

Reader Question: Where’s the fun for me?

“Hi Emma. First, thank you for all you do. My wife and I talked about her being a ‘shared wife’ for months before she actually took the plunge. She chose a friend of ours (he had threesomes before); a divorced guy called John who has the hots for her, and the feeling is mutual. When my wife and I talked of the things I wanted (and I thought we both wanted), she seemed to be in agreement and…

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Hello 2021

Suffice to say, everyone has been looking forward to the end of 2020, which for obvious reasons, was one of the weirdest, challenging years we’ve experienced as a global community in modern times. I’m happy to say that for most part my husband and I got through the year relatively unscathed but we’ve seen a lot of friends and businesses go through some rough times. Thankfully, no one I know…

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Twitter Fatigue

It’s been a while since I’ve done an update post so here we go! I’m happy to report the life’s good. I can’t complain one bit. I’m working hard and staying busy which I’m grateful for given this year has seen a lot of people having to tough it out for various reasons related to COVID-19. I truly hope everyone out there is going well. I’m looking forward to the summer break and (maybe) finally…

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Guys & Ghosting

I’m ever delighted by the lovely comments left by fans and followers on my social media channels. It’s very flattering to know there are many genuine men out there who would like to take me out on a date, but that doesn’t mean I haven’t had my share of guys ghosting me in real life.

I’ve already written at length about why some guys just can’t seal the dealas a Bull, but for the many women and…

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