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Beauty lies in the content, not the container (glass or bottle). So, enhance your inner content, not just the outer human container/body.
Mind stuck! Limbs numbed! Eyes blurred!
The situation we all face quite often. And we call this situation as a "Problem". The word Problem - reminds me of the questions in school text book which we always hated to solve, reminds me of a tense feeling on the face of a friend & reminds me of a fear of failure which it gives birth to in our brains. And with this negativity around us, we embark ourselves on the journey of finding a "Solution" to this "Problem". The chances of success - pretty low.
What if - I ask you to climb a mountain to see a beautiful waterfall, I ask you to hit a six of the last ball to win the World Cup, I ask you to race a mile with me & get 500 bucks. What if, I "Challenge" you to solve the maths questions, rather than solving the "Problems".
This is what the choice of word does to our mind. The thought to complete a "Challenge" increases the adrenaline level in our body, making us go an inch further to conquer it. With all the positivity in our nerves, we jump with utmost confidence & without any fear to face this challenge.
So, next time when your mind is stuck, limbs are numbed & eyes are blurred, take it as a Challenge & not as a Problem. I am sure, the chances, then would be pretty high.
Break the Cocoons
Our environment, the world in which we live and work, is a mirror of our attitudes and expectations.
As a child, we all go to schools to learn various concepts in a group of humans with similar mindsets, sitting together in a conducive learning environment. We grow up & enter into a college, & again we come across the similar experiences. So, why does the output or performance level of students differ from one college to other or rather at a microscopic level, within the same class?
As a part of the Lead Generation process in our company, we conducted lots of interaction sessions with the students belonging to different colleges & cities. Fortunately, I got a chance to be a part of most of these sessions & closely understand the factors impacting the mindsets & outlook of students in these colleges. In one of these sessions, a student, rather hopelessly, declared his college environment & culture as responsible for their lack of interest in their subjects (thus, in engineering) and hence lower outputs. His belief was that if they would have been studying in any of the IITs, they would have performed much better in the academics & would have been able to explore millions of other opportunities. This point raised by him turned the flow of discussions towards one of the most debated questions of our generation – How are IITs different from any other college?
My reply to his point started with a very basic fact proven by scientists worldwide that, Our brain is a highly malleable organ & the environment in which it lives & works plays a much crucial role in impacting it’s efficiency. The kind of environment to which we are exposed in our childhood times or in our college influences our habits, manners, ideologies & beliefs and hence defines the curvature of the graph of our professional career & personality development. During our graduation days in IIT, the kind of enthusiasm which most of the students exhibit to explore & learn more and more things brought that expectations of excellence in the culture over there, which kept the remaining students on their toes for their own betterment. But, the noteworthy thing is, that this environment was created by the students themselves, keeping in mind the impact which it would create on their lives.
The fact is that it’s easier to put the blame of our failures on our environment, but we never realize that it was the end product of our attitude & efforts. People blame their environment, but there is only one person to blame - and only one - themselves. Whatever we do, whatever we think, slowly & steadily it starts reframing the culture around us and after a period of time, we become an integral part of it. The lack of intent which we initially showed in our regular work, eventually becomes a part of the cocoon which we sew around us. And this is the problem faced by most of the students in current times, where gradually with our own lack of efforts to build a cohesive learning environment around us, we rather end up being a part of the environment where mediocrity becomes the target to achieve.
So stand up & break the cocoon around you. Start building an environment, where excellence & determination are the supports, optimism plays the anchor role & the objective is not just to find the reasons of our failures, but to act upon them to find their solutions.
And at that moment, success would be no more unachievable.
Invest your Time & Money like a Marwadi!
Few months back, I was visiting an engineering college for hiring interns, based in the one of the institutional areas of Jaipur. An institutional area is a magical place where you can find various colleges just like dhabas or eating joints near railway station or a bus stand. What I was amazed to see over there was that no wall, trees, electric wires and police chowki were in their natural colors. All of these have been coated with advertisements of zillion of companies selling Java, robotics, ethical hacking & many such kind of workshops. There was a startling similarity in their adverts, with each of them focussing on the certificates they are going to provide, rather than the quality of faculties or the content to be delivered.
As soon as our team started interviewing the shortlisted candidates, I was able to figure it out that how those zillion companies actually earn their revenues from. More than 95% of students had attended atleast one of those courses or workshops in their college years. But, the story didn’t end there. The fact that going for ‘n’ number of paid courses to get a hefty job or awesome career after graduating from the college is itself a myth. Because, less than 10 % of the students actually went to these shops to build upon their knowledge base & to work on their interests which they have already figured it out with the self exploration. But, the rest 90 % of the students were just a part of the crowd. They are a part of the cult which has been established in present times, where each student aspire to earn a certificate, job or any weird tangible outcome which they can think of, rather than building the basic foundation of knowledge & learning. Unaware of their interests & strengths, most of them just follow what their colleagues or friends have been doing. And it results in that profiles of all the students have striking similarity with tonnes of bought certificates & dearth of knowledge & eventually extremely low productivity in their professional life.
We took up this problem & started thinking of designing a possible solution for this. We selected a bunch of students for a period of 6 weeks in their summers for this experiment. We exposed them to various possible topics of their field for a short duration of about 2 days each from an expert working in the industry on the same topic. For the first 20 days, students explored these topics on their own & after that they were able to differentiate between the topics which excited them & which didn’t.  For the last 20 days, they worked on the topics of their interest and applied the concepts which they had learnt on some real industry problems.
The output of the students after 40 days was quite similar to our expectations. Each one of them was able to realise their interests by actually working on various topics for a short duration. Once they have exercised their choices, they actually worked on their areas of interest with much more enthusiasm, building their knowledge base & not merely blindly following their friends & going for the tangible outcomes. We conducted the similar experiment with students from different cities & backgrounds and found the results more or less similar in most of the cases.
The conclusions which we were able to make out from these experiments are the perfect solutions for this problem of creation of materialistic blind followers, who are ready to take shortcuts in their careers by buying certificates & degrees, rather than actually building their foundations. An age old saying goes in sync with this problem – A shortcut can cut short ur life.
So, once you start exploring the things around you, asking questions about them and matching your interests with your knowledge level, you tend to work with much higher efficiency in those areas. Any decision which we take in pursuit of our professional goals has to be backed with logical reasons. Even, before going to attend a two hours workshop, one should be crystal clear in his/her mind about the expectations from those 2 hours and how it can help in their career.
Start realising the importance of your Time & Money. Invest them like a Marwadi & get the maximum returns out of them.
Play Safe or Jump from the Cliff
It was one of those founder’s calls which we used to do with the students, before they come to our workshops, to discuss their roadmap to achieve their professional goals & dreams. On the other side of the phone call was a student from one of the prestigious colleges. Her voice reflected the innate desire to achieve her dreams & goals, but her mind was a mirror image of a teenager’s wardrobe – full of irrelevant stuff & kept in a haphazard manner. Her society, colleagues & seniors loaded her mind with ample lucrative career opportunities ranging from Working in a big IT company to clearing her GATE examination. But the sad part was, none of these opportunities were going to take her even a step closer to her goal, a seed which she had been sowing since her childhood – A dream to become an IAS Officer. Compared to those lucrative opportunities, walking on this path was a high risk proposition with lesser chances of reaching the summit. So, the chances of failure were much higher in this case. And just after 2 minutes of our discussion, she popped up an intriguing question – Why are we always tempted to Play Safe, even though that’s not what we always dreamt of? At that instant, my thoughts took me back to my graduation, when we faced the same question in front of us. And my answer to her was same which we gave to ourselves 3 years back.
Since that call, I have faced this question numerous times from the students, belonging to varied backgrounds & different dreams to achieve. But, my answers have never changed, Because they always pointed to the same problem – Temptation to Play Safe. We, as humans, always have a tendency to slip into the comfort zone, a secured zone where we force or are forced to shrink our dreams to a mediocre level and start believing that this zone is where we always wanted to be in. We spend our whole life in the same illusion, living each day & night with incepting the same thought again & again in our minds. But, when we reach our death bed, a place where all the illusions are shattered, we start re-playing our life & slowly we realize that for the past 70 years, we just Played Safe. Sitting in that mode, we never gave a single shot to our childhood dreams.
My answer to this question was based on the same realisation. Once we step into our college, we are bombarded with loads of opportunities, where we can easily become a part of the herd and lead our life easily. To get out of this Play Safe mode, we need to break the shackles of safety & security around us. And once we are out of that mode, we can take our First Step towards our dreams. This is just like winning a single battle in a World War. There are many more fronts to be won, many more peaks to be scaled, many more failures to be seen & many more Play Safe modes to avoid. And if you can survive all of them, you will be never tempted back again in the luxuries of life and the road to achieve your dreams would be much smoother.
While jumping from a cliff, the hardest part is not to open the parachute or breaking your bones, but to take a JUMP. So, take your jump today & believe that you would be able to open the parachute.
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