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The Triangular Hour, Salvador Dalí, 1933

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Older women are gems when it comes to relationship advice, especially when it comes to choosing the right men. I recently had a long conversation with an 84 year old woman and then she began to tell me the same relationship advice I hear almost every older woman say my whole life. Her advice can be applied to vanilla and sugar dating:

If a man doesn’t give anything to you in the beginning, he won’t give it to you later.

If you and your husband have to split all the bills, he’s not your husband he’s your roommate.

If a man is stingy with spending his money on you, just tell him, “I got what you want and you got what I want. It can’t work out if we can’t get what we want from each other.”

If a man likes/wants you, he will let you know right away.

Action speaks louder than words. Pay more attention to what they do and act towards you than focusing on their words and “promises”.

If you’re with a man in the beginning stages of the relationship and he’s more focused on looking or talking about other women, drop him.

A real man will protect you, look after you, and give you what you need/want.

If you ask a man for money and he says something like, “Don’t you have a job”, don’t do shit for him (especially sex) or drop him because he’s not that into you.

Anybody can be good in bed, if that’s all a man has to offer or that’s his only “redeeming” quality, drop him. You can’t spend all your time in the bedroom.

Good, generous men all have city jobs.

Men in the military are the biggest cheaters.

Women should never chase a man.

A man that is serious and genuinely likes you will always be consistent and not play games (example: not go days without talking to you, you’re not always the one initiating the phone calls/texts, will never drastically change his demeanor, etc.)

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That “a group of crazy people tried to kill me but I survived” Final Girl Energy

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Happy birthday to Leo!

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“how come you’re single?”

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Julia Fox in Uncut Gems (2019)

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Julia Fox by Noah Blough for Playboy

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The Planets in a Natal Chart

The Sun

The Ego

The Sense of self

Self Identity

Vitality (Health)

Consciousness

Self Expression

Your inner core

Recognition

The Father/Authority figure/Males

Creative expression

Confidence

The Moon

The inner self

Your emotional state

What you need to feel happy, safe, and secure

Your automatic reactions/responses

Instincts

Receptivity

Habits

Childhood experiences

How you nurture others

How you wish to be nurtured

Moods

The mother/women

The public

Food/drink

Domestic affairs

Family

The Home

Fertility

Clothing

Mercury

Communication/Speech

Thought process and cognitive thinking

Writing

Listening

Comprehension

Assortment and understanding of information

Short distance travel (under an hour from home location)

Reasoning and logic

Eloquence

Perception

Memory

Youth

Legal documents

Books

Technology

Communication tools and devices (from a phone to a pen)

Venus

What you love

How you love

How you attract (who and what you want)

Beauty and aesthetics

Art, music and fashionable clothing + jewellery

Charisma and sociability

Female sexual energy (sensual)

Harmony and charm

Pleasurable food

Pleasurable intercourse

Dancing

Poetry (combined with Mercury)

Singing

Cosmetics and hair products  

Money and wealth

Women/females

Values

Mars

Energy and drive

Will power

The act of sex

Passion

Physical vitality

Aggression

Men/males

Sexuality

Lust

Action

Male sexual energy (sexual)

Impatience

Sharp instruments

Weapons

War

Quarrels

Jupiter

Expansion

Optimism

Luck

Wealth

Prosperity

Higher learning and knowledge

Good fortune

Faith

Philosophy

Excess

Distant travel (over an hour from home)

Generosity

Cornucopia

Religion

Happiness

Saturn

Blocks and delays

Time

Maturity

Authority figures

The elderly

Difficulties

Fears

Limitation, control and consolidation

Boundaries

Building things (either physically or metaphorically)

Goals and ambitions

Discipline and direction

Wisdom

Denial and hardship

Responsibility

Restriction

Karma

The father (more so than the sun as it is opposite the moon)

Uranus

Chaos

Eccentricity

Rebellion

Changed

Originally and invention

Unpredictability

Non-conformity

Higher intelligence

Intuition

Change and liberation

Genius

Technology and electricity

Metaphysics

Science

Sci-fi

The future

Astrology

Neptune

Psychic power

Dreams

Illusion and delusion

Mysticism

Fine art and music

Dance and acting

Confusion

Photography and film

No boundaries

Inspiration

Ecstasy

Romance

Enlightenment

Addiction

Glamour

Impressionability

Savour, victim and martyrdom

Drugs, alcohol and poisons

The ocean

Weakness

Thieves and lies

Platonic love

Charity

Religion

Sacrifice

Meditation

The unconscious

Compassion

Abnormalities

Secrets

Suffering and victimisation

Pluto

Obsession

Possession

Birth, death and transformation

Destruction

Total control

Power

Abuse

Regeneration

Elimination

Taboo

Pollution

Compulsion

The deep unconscious mind (the dark side of it)

Decay

Psychology and psychoanalysis

Extremes

Intensity

Research

Drastic changes

Crime

Violence

Nuclear weapons

Black magic

Occult

Witchcraft

Deep connective sex

Passionate and animalistic sex

Pure lust

Blind passion

Horror and deep psychotic fears

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Harry Styles photographed by Casper Wackerhausen-Sejersen for Beauty Papers Magazine

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