just a note that the term “yuri” isn’t on par with “yaoi” at all! yuri means lily and was coined by the lgbt community in japan, but a lot of the west don’t know that.
Straight men in America think yaoi- gay porn for straight girls and yuri- lesbian porn for straight men. While it might mean something different in Japan it's a problem how people associate it with here. When I was in high school and a fujoshi I associated with "nasty" "Not for me" because of the fanboys that constantly said yuri moe girls were theirs and "hot." While I was an ignorant high-schooler, I've since discovered myself and am now transitioning so I no longer think this way.
I had no idea it was coined by the Lgbt community in Japan, but people in the Usa don't see it like that and I understand your concern though!















