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[neuroperson-deactivated20221210]

i hope all the systems, all the ticcers, the autistics, the disabled, my ppl with personality disorders, the ones with psychotic disorders, to my bipolar and bpd pals, the adhders, to my anxious and depressive ones, my neurodivergents and neuroatypicals, a really good day or night

[justineportraits]

Hope Gangloff     Clothes swap - Brooklyn    2008

[thedoubteriswise]

so much of being an ok person is just 1) not panicking, 2) not taking things personally, and 3) not letting the vindictive gargoyle that lives in your head tell you what to do. this sucks because brains love doing those things

[pimp-fried-rice]

This blog is only for fuckups, burnouts, losers, criminals and the mentally ill btw

[dryersheetbear]

sunny clips that make me laugh

[kirianthedivorce]

“Larry is bad at catching mice so he’s bad at his job”

You FOOLS

His official duties according to www.gov.uk, the official website of the UK government, are “greeting guests to the house, inspecting security defences and testing antique furniture for napping quality” and “contemplating a solution to the mouse occupancy of the house” which he says “is still ‘in tactical planning stage’.”

He’s doing his job JUST FINE

[fionaapplerocks]

Fiona Apple

[todaysbird]

“ravens are symbols of death, demons, and the underworld”

x

[mortalityplays]

one of the most important things, perhaps the most important thing I have learned in my life is that nice people can fuck each other up in monstrous ways. people can be bone deep kind and loving and self reflective and still lash out under pressure. people can be earnestly neighbourly and charitable and hospitable and generous and still find themselves in situations where they become selfish. people can be well meaning and easygoing and gregarious and hold deep seated opinions that turn them into vicious little bullies under the right conditions. nobody is just one thing, and nobody stays one way. every person is a kaleidoscope and they will surprise you. you will surprise yourself. it's not a warning and it's not a judgement and it's not an excuse, and it's certainly not a reason to stop trying or to stop trusting. it is just a fact.

[visibilityofcolor]

I think people, women and girls especially, need to know that if you have a good thing going with another female friend, roomate, a cousin, a siblings, etc–then you don’t have to feel like marriage is like and endgame or something (if that makes sense). Ya know, lemme just make this girl centric. 

Let me clarify. I see a lot of girls having happy relationships with their sisters, cousins,best friends, roommates to the point where they’ve been living together for years and are comfortable with it. And becuase of that comfort with the girls they’re living with, a lot of women just end up wanting to live/stay with their roommates, best friends, sisters/cousins, etc., for the foreseeable future. 

And when a lot of girls bring this up, they’re met with “well one of you is gonna get married” or “no boy friend in the picture” or “well you can’t stay together forever/you can’t plan your lives around each other” or “what about if one of you gets a husband”

and like–seriously, just stop. when girls mention wanting to spend their lives with their boyfriends and shit, people don’t give them this much flack. girls are expected to pack up their lives to move with their boy friends/husbands.

but god forbid, two girls are just happy with each other, are in a place of comfort with the other that they wanna live together and spend their lives together (either romantic, familial or platonic), then people start to criticize them. So my point is, girls if you’re living with another girl and have been for years and you two are comfortable staying with each other and have basically spoken about just wanting to stay with each other, then do that. if this person makes you comfortable, makes you feel safe and happy, and supports you (whether romantic or not!) then do not let people ruin that bond or shame you for not getting married or being with a man or anything like that. like if you  have something good going, then keep the good going.

and this doesn’t have to be romantic (if it is that’s fine too!!).

[comechaos]

also re ppl being like “ well you can’t stay together forever/you can’t plan your lives around each other “

um thts literally what romantic couples do? or at least are expected to do anyway, esp women in cishet relationships sooo

[lexablackbird]

You can totally plan your life around your friends, or one very close friend. Romance is fine, but not a prerequisite. Love is not limited like that.

[visibilityofcolor]

“Romance is fine, but not a prerequisite. Love is not limited like that.” A+ quote.

[alittlequieteroutthere]

One of the most stable households I know is a friend who moved in with her friend and co-parents the friend’s kid. They’re not lovers, either. Just absolute besties making a beautiful life and family together. It’s a wonder to see.

[count-omer]

@blastlight

[mayorbetteporter]

[wheredoalltheducksgo]

When I read the line “don’t let me disappear” in The Catcher in The Rye I got the sudden urge to break down and cry and ESPECIALLY to hug Holden Caulfield.

I’ve always said it, growing up is the weirdest, most difficult, most senseless part of life. And there’s something about reading about a 16 year old pleading to not die or be forgotten that is so morbidly heartbreaking. I’m not the same since reading that book.

[moonyslake]

the majority of the hate towards holden caulfield is unjustified and surface level. demonizing a boy who has been failed by every authority figure he has ever had is odd to me…

[a-poets-life-for-me]

holden caulfield would absolutely love mitski. can you imagine his reaction to puberty 2? this man would be healed and seen

[andromedasummer]

everybody saying we should elect larry prime minister and no one is addressing his job and how it relates to parliament and the fact that he is in N.10 for one reason (to catch mice) AND YET—

1. is so shit at catching mice he has a criticisms section on his wikipedia page and had to have another cat hired to help him as a mouser

2. is guilty of workplace bullying

3. is a total cunt of a cat.

in conclusion, he would be the perfect candidate for a prime ministerial position and could not be more suited for a role in the tory party.

[tonysopranobignaturals-deactiva]

[johnpronoun-deactivated20220830]