Accio my Wand

a bi gal who over romanticises really specific occurences and internalizes other's expectations. 

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when a cat does a little jog to catch up with you so it can nudge you with its head>>>>>

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“Why do you beat yourself up so much over little mistakes?”

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This is such a good illustration of emotional abuse

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Just a reblog to spread the most UN noticed abuse, be aware

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“Why do you say ‘sorry’ so much?” 

The most common question I receive.

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harry potter and that time he met a really small dog and cried for an hour

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I feel personally attacked

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Hi! So i saw on your other blog that you think the danish girl is transmisogynistic. I don't really agree so i went looking for your reasons but could only find a couple of posts that mentioned it so i was wondering if you could elaborate? i'm not trying to argue about it I would just be interested in hearing your reasons since I'm cis gendered and probably don't see the problems in it that trans people do. If you don't feel like explaining that's perfectly alright too of course ^^

like this is all really easily googlable, and all over other trans women’s blogs, including the other blog you came here from, but i’ll lay it out one final time.

1. Lili Elbe, a trans woman, is portrayed by Eddie Redmayne (a cis man who cannot act). This is transphobic for a multitude of reasons, but I’m going to narrow it down to the two basic examples everybody should now. Firstly, it implies that trans women are just men in dresses and makeup, by virtue of paying a man to wear dresses and makeup in an attempt to emulate the transition of a trans woman. Secondly, it takes away the already tiny amounts of roles from real trans people. As an actress, I can tell you how frustrating it is – hardly ever are trans women hired unless we are specifically meant to BE trans women, and even usually then we are portrayed degradingly.

Furthermore, no trans women were even ever considered for the job, which has been admitted by the director on several occasions.

2. The film is based on a real trans woman (Lili Elbe) who was one of the first to undergo reassignment surgery. Not only does it really rub salt in the wound to have her played by a man after all the time and money in her life she dedicated to separating herself from the gender she was assigned, but the movie is a complete bastardization of her life in many other ways. It completely destroys the real story of how she transitioned and turns it into a disgusting dislodged version that pretty much portrays her as selfish for transitioning.

3. It portrays gender dysphoria as a forced feminization kink – it implies that Lili was just being egged on by her then-wife as some kind of fetish or something, which is ridiculously transmisogynistic, and is a train of thought that leads to trans women being barred from transitioning even today, and is also a core part of TERF ideology. Look up “autogynophilia” for more information.

So there you have it. The Danish Girl is transmisogynistic, and Eddie Redmayne is a piece of shit for taking the job.

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I’m reblogging this here and this is the final time I’m explaining it. Any more questions about this will have to be asked off-anon or they will be deleted.

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um how do i tumblr? I'm new duckling in this dimension of the unknown. help. 0-0

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Something that happened in one of my classes

Teacher: Raise your hands all those who read at least once every other day.

*Several students raise their hand*

Student 1, whispering to student two: I don't think fanfiction counts...

Student 2: *Lowers their hand in shame*

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Accio my wand

me a struggling wizard: *loses* wand

me: its ok i'll just summon it!

Me:

Me: crap