Asexuals are still asexuals if they:
or do any of the above with any other kind of romantic/sexual activity
Liking, drawing, or writing sexual activities does not mean that you want to engage in them. It means that you have some understanding of what it would mean to be in that relationship, enough to write/draw about it, but that does not mean you want to partake with another person.
Asexuality =/= Celibacy, by the way. Asexuality is not a choice, and if I have to hear one more person tell me that someday I’ll “choose” to “change” when I “meet a nice guy,” I’m going to scream. Celibacy is the choice to not have sex for one reason or another. Asexuality means that you do not feel the need to engage in sexual relations with someone else. And some asexuals masturbate, while others don’t. Different people are different. That’s how it goes.
Also, your sexual orientation does not necessarily reflect your romantic orientation or your gender identity. They are all distinct, different things. There are asexuals who are homo- or heteroromantic, but do not want a sexual relationship with the person they care for.
TL;DR, saying that “you can’t possibly be asexual because you like porn” is like saying “you can’t possibly be a girl because you wear pants” or some shit. I don’t even know. Please educate yourself before making such ignorant statements.
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