Synastry placements & observations 💘
Disclaimer: I am not a professional astrologer. I am doing these for fun. This post is based off my own observations and research that I have done.
💕 Venus conjunct ascendant makes the Venus person admire the ascendant person’s appearance and persona. Venus may view them as their ideal type, though it can become a very superficial attachment, especially if there aren’t any other supporting harmonious aspects. Overtime, the Ascendant person may feel as if the Venus person only appreciates them for their looks, rather than their other qualities. When in a very tight orb, it can give the feel of ‘Love at first sight’.
🦋 Moon in the 8th is an incredibly intense and transformative connection, full of tears and heartbreak. The house person may grow overly obsessed over the moon person, to the point it’s intoxicating. The moon person might not even be aware of the house persons feelings. With such a strong mental bond, it can repulse a lot of people, especially if they’re not used to the intensity of it.
🌸 Uranus conjunct/trine/sextile venus. The Venus person feels accepted by the Uranus person to express themselves freely. This makes the Venus person very comfortable and content to be around the Uranus person. Uranus-Venus creates a very exciting dynamic which is unpredictable yet magnetic. Uranus conjunct/square/opposite Venus. The Venus person may sometimes feel judged by the Uranus person, who might think Venus comes across a bit ‘weird’.
❄️ With Jupiter in the 9th, the Jupiter person can bring expansion into the house persons views and knowledge. The Jupiter person can almost seem like a mentor or teacher for the house person. They could also bring them a lot of abundance and encouragement within their lives. E.g motivating them into completing a project. It can also bring a connection towards travelling together.
🌿 Moon in the 5th creates a very fun connection between two people. They find entertainment and joy within one another. The house person may find that the moon person is someone that want to spend a lot of their free time with.
🌎 Planets in the 4th, can make the house person comfortable around the planet person. They’re not afraid to express themselves and be vulnerable around them. Both parties can feel like being right at home.
💕 6th house synastry, can make the planet person be supportive towards the house person in everyday life. They may be able to help each other with work or do little things for them. Which gives me the love language of ‘acts of service’ and ‘quality time’. I do think 6th house synastry is important for romantic relationships, as it does represent daily routines/everyday life and having that connection together.
🦋 Pluto aspecting the ascendant. The Pluto person may feel a need to control and have power over the ascendant person. If aspected positively, Pluto person will allow the ascendant person to go through many transformations within their period together, in order grow and develop. Whereas if aspected negatively can cause power struggles between both or control issues from the pluto person’s side.
🌸 Pluto conjunct, square or opposite moon. Literal hell. I’ll argue that this is the most intense and painful synastry aspect, as Pluto the planet of destruction is effecting your moon; your mind, vulnerability and deepest emotions. This can bring the moon person much pain and mental trauma, if both parties aren’t responsible within the connection. A very obsessive connection, where the moon person feels like they cannot live without the pluto person and the pluto person instead wants to be in control of the situation. If either one chooses to betray the other, love and obsession will very quickly turn to pure hatred, similarly to Mars-Pluto. Though with moon-Pluto, the moon person may give the Pluto person more chances, as they’ll ignore the red flags at first.
💍 Sun conjunct moon can be found in the charts of many married couples. It brings a familiarity from both sides, even feeling like a ‘soulmate’ type connection. Sun represents father and moon mother/wife, which makes the pair see each other as marriage material/ long term partners.
🌿 Having Sun, moon or ascendant in the same sign, (person 1: Leo ascendant, person 2: Leo sun) gives a feel like they can understand each other, due to their similarities.
❄️ Chiron conjunct/trine/sextile Venus is considered to be a preferred aspect for long term connections, as it shows the Venus person is able to help heal the wounds of the Chiron person. Chiron square and opposition is challenging and instead of healing, it can instead cause more pain for the relationship. Though both sides would have to work together for this connection to be strong. Venus square Chiron can be found in relationships with different backgrounds, showing there might be outside challenges to overcome, e.g different cultures and aiming to get accepted by families.
🌎 Saturn aspects are ideal for long-term connections. Specifically Harsh aspects (conjunction, square, oppositions) are binding and difficult to leave.
💕 Moon - Venus aspects are so loving and incredibly romantic. They show each other extravagant displays of affection and often have the love language of gift giving. The Venus person adores the emotional side of the moon person and the moon person admires the Venus person’s charm and persona. This makes for very cute couples. I imagine star gazing, roses and the cliche stereo music outside of the house.
🦋 Mars - Moon can give for very sensual tension. Mars is impatient and craves the moon person, though the moon person doesn’t give in too easily, the moon person presents themselves as this nurturing figure for the Mars, seducing them. Though the Mars person may get annoyed at the moon persons child-like nature, and even poke fun at them, which might upset the moon person. On a more platonic level, the Mars person may get easily annoyed at the moon person or how sensitive they are.
🌸 Stellium opposite stellium. This is an ‘opposites attract’ type of relationship. It’s almost like you’re interacting with your polar opposite, portraying all the qualities you lack. This can almost seem like a soulmate type of connection, due to the balance created within this. Though highly fascinated by each other, there will be friction with the amount of oppositions and strong energy from both stelliums. A lot of excitement, drama, heartache and magnetism.
❄️ Lilith - Mars/sun = Intensity, a lot of attraction, excitement and a hint of danger. Power clashes. Lilith - Venus = Venus admires lilith’s dark side and energy. Though Lilith dominant relationships can have a feel of forbidden energy with it.
🌿 Mars aspecting Mars is literal wars. Joking around, playful teasing and fights. There’s almost a riveraly between each other, with battles and clashing over minor inconveniences. Can easily trigger and annoy each other more than others. Though the sensual chemistry will be compatible.
🌎 You may feel a strong attraction towards someone when your chart ruler is in contact with their Venus or Mars.
Having 100% compatibility doesn’t = best relationships. So don’t worry if there are incompatible factors in a chart or squares and oppositions. Because this will allow you to grow from the connections as they bring to table elements you might be lacking. Having planets in the 7th will always create oppositions and is this bad? No, we seek the qualities of our 7th house. Some of my best and most exciting relationships have almost been somewhat incompatible.
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