Actually Regarding You

[purplebuddhaproject]

“Why stress over someone that won’t even text to see if your alright?”

— via @oyerooh (via wizdomly)

[alittlegoodandalotofnaughty]

[aelinofthemoonfire]

Dorian: this is my girlfriend,Manon, and that’s her girlfriend, Elide, and that’s Elide’s boyfriend,Lorcan.

[kid-with-plans]

[extramadness]

[actallyregardingyou]

[libulan-deactivated20140915]

[powerburial]

that’s a crazy soymilk commercial

[actallyregardingyou]

[serious]

cheer up my love

[weltenwellen]

I know that feeling. You have to do something. You have to change something radically, because you can’t stay like you are for another second, or you’re going to explode.

Jennifer Echols, Forget You (via ohdreaming)

[bellahijadelaluna]

You’re not over exaggerating. You’re not too sensitive. You’re not too much. If it hurts you it fucking hurts you. If it makes you angry, then it makes you angry. There’s nothing wrong with you for feeling.

[bipolyamorist]

The point for me is to create relationships based on deeper and more real notions of trust. So that love becomes defined not by sexual exclusivity, but by actual respect, concern, commitment to act with kind intentions, accountability for our actions, and a desire for mutual growth.

Dean Spade (via bipolyamorist)

[fuckyeahpolyamory]

You're More Polyamorous Than You Think

Monogamy is rare, no matter what we might tell ourselves. We need a new currency of commitment.

This is a fascinating article to consider.

[stitchy-queerista]

Don't fall into monogamy as the default in a new relationship.

Monogamy can be wonderful, but only when it’s actively chosen by the people involved.

Consider what you want. Talk to your partner about what you want.

Monogamy isn’t the default, it’s one of multiple options that are all equally valid. Actively choose your relationship style.

[lizclimo]

[thehomonextdoor]

this is the cutest and i will never get over it no matter how many times i see it

[hipster-and-thoughts]

[actallyregardingyou]