Hey @Enby-I-barely-looked-at-them, you blocked me from replying to your Gofundme post, and thatâs kind of weird, but here we go!
You say there was a âmutually agreed uponâ restraining order, but thatâs not how DVPOs work. A Domestic Violence Protection Order is court-issued after evidence is presentedâusually by a survivor seeking safety. Itâs not a handshake deal or a mutual decision. Itâs a legal response to harm.
If you did nothing wrong, why would a court restrict your contact with someone and their child? Why is that order in place? Youâre asking the internet to side with you, but youâre not telling the full story. Youâre leaving out what led to the orderâwhat you were accused ofâand thatâs not a small omission.
Framing yourself as a victim while ignoring the person you harmed is manipulative. You talk about fairness, but where is that concern when it comes to their safety and peace?
You also call yourself a âdedicated dad,â but what exactly have you done in that role lately? Have you provided supportâfinancial, emotional, or otherwiseâin the last several months? Or is this dedication only showing up now that you want sympathy online?
You donât get to twist the facts to look more palatable online while someone else is living with the aftermath of your actions. Survivors deserve protection, not public smear campaigns dressed up as crowdfunding posts.