Permanently Jungshook.

23, Tattoo Apprentice, BTS( I used to bias Yoongi but this era has made my list go tits up), terribly unfunny.

[parkkmin]

Why is no one talking about this?

Why is no one talking about this?

Why is no one talking about this?

[espikvlt]

[dailyjeons]

OUR BOYS!!

[art-woonz]

Instagram: @artwoonz

[bangtan]

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[im-dead-inside11]

Yes… :( @thebloodundermyskin

[queerlysad]

[sixpenceee]

Watching a horror movie with a beauty app filter. Posted by moonocean

[powershell-and-chill]

@sixpenceee Please do this with the Japanese version of The Ring :)

[danatwila]

Hahaha

[tuhmere-deactivated20180926]

I’m fucking dead

[cyyphr]

LOVE YOURSELF 轉 Tear - O

[electrictype]

love triangles with cursed hetero ships that don’t end korrasami style should be illegal 

[fortunatelyburningenthusiast]

“Incels” vs. Asexuals

After reading about the disgusting mess of a person who drove a van into a group of people - killing some, injuring others - and the resulting investigation which has revealed that the perpetrator labels himself as an “Incel”, I made the mistake of searching for more information on the subject. 

I didn’t know what an “incel” was - I’d never heard of the term before. 

Oh, boy. 

According to Urban Dictionary (not the best of sources, but I’m not writing a goddamn dissertation here), an “incel” is an “involuntary celibate” - usually male - who believes their lack of a sex life stems from being “ugly” or otherwise undesirable in terms of characteristic, social status, etc. 

In actuality, it is usually their entitled personality, misogynistic views, and, often, a mish mash of nationalistic, racist tendencies that are contributing to the aforementioned lack of a sex life. 

Horrifying, right? Couldn’t get worse, right? 

Wrong. 

I have come to find out via searching “incel” on Tumblr that there are attempts being made to validate “incels” by linking up with the Asexual community. Solidarity, you know? 

Guess fucking what. 

It is not the goddamn same. 

There is no fucking solidarity to be found within the Asexual community. An Ace person has a lack of sexual attraction. They might be celibate. They might not. They might be sex-repulsed. They might be sex-positive. There are a thousand nuances within the Asexual community (as there are within every other piece of the LGBT+ community). 

“Incel” is not a fucking identity. It is a an insult to women everywhere. These people go around with the assumption that any woman, anywhere owes them sex at anytime and the ONLY reason they’re not “getting it” is because they are ugly or poor or uneducated and the woman should be ashamed of herself for not “looking past their flaws” and bending over right then and there. 

You identify as an “incel”? Go fuck yourself and keep the name of the Ace community out of your filthy mouth while you’re at it. 

Solidarity, my ass.

[btsfc]

[fairy-jnani]

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THE CUTEST CREATURE ; MIN YOONGI 😍

[jimiyoong]

[jimiyoong]

HOPE WORLD

[petalya]

in therapy my therapist and i were talking about my own feelings of self worth in relationships. and she asked me to say qualities about myself that someone else would be attracted to, on a romantic and platonic level. so i named some things like compassionate, empathetic, etc. and she said “you named things that you can give someone. ways you can serve, rather than ways that you are” and y'all..my mind was blown that’s gonna stick with me forever like she then proceed to tell me actual innate qualities about myself that she liked and thought anyone else would like as well and i hadn’t even considered those because like she said i was focused on things i could do outwardly to attract and maintain connections rather than who i was as a person..goddamn!!! thats tea!!!

[petalya]

With this in mind, this also makes me think of the ways people describe us. When people say the reasons that they love/like you or describe you as a person, are they only naming ways that you serve them? Are they equating your worth with how much you do for them?

ex. “You’re such a good listener. You’re so generous, you’re so compassionate. You’re always there for me. You always hold me down. You’re reliable”

vs.

“You’re so funny! You’re very vibrant. You’re creative, passionate, and intelligent. You’re optimistic. You’re so talented at ____” , etc. I think that’s very telling.

[taeshik]

mesmerizing 

[bangtan]

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