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[adrianmatthew]

I failed you again O' Lord.

You are worthy of all Praises O' Lord, my soul cries out to you for mercy and grace to fall upon me through your Holy Spirit. I Acknowledge your Lordship and Sovereignty.

After the self-pleasure, it haunts me to my very core and deem myself unworthy in your sight O' Lord, and indeed I'm truly not fitting to be in a relationship too because of my behavior and the lack of control of the lust of my flesh.

Last night I' surrendered it to you, and until this very morning today; I will still surrender this to you and move on to be better. Help me control what I can control and surrender what I cannot control into your hands O' Lord, for in you I assured to be delivered from evil and unrighteousness.

In Christ name I pray. Amen.

[adrianmatthew]

As this Saturday ends, I wanna just let go of all these things in my mind right now. First off - is the letter I gave to the one person who I hope to start all over again by being consistently present and respectful of the space she needs, but it turns out, it required more than just being that bare minimum, it requires surrender to experience the change I need as a person.

Talking or chatting with another person might as well make me feel guilty or just potentially wasting another person's time because of the horrible things I've done towards few people I find interesting to talk with and somehow paved my way with a Romantic Relationship impulsively thinking there are no consequences to take, but every action and decision we make bares a minimum or huge consequence,

And so, here I am; trying to just be a better person in engaging a purposeful conversation with anyone the Lord introduces while focusing on obeying His will.

My journey is still on-going, I will strive still to be better, not for others; but for myself.

[adrianmatthew]

Weird.

I saw you in my dreams last night. I thought it would be real because it felt real. But what hurts is that we just passed by each other, like nothing really matters between us, yet despite it, we still look back and get a glimpse one last time.

Maybe that was like the moment where another chapter in my dating life closed, and now I'll just let it be closed until the time is right.

I hope we can still be friends whenever we cross each other's paths in this present life.

[adrianmatthew]

Maybe not now, maybe someday.

your actions spoke louder than your words on that day, and now; I'll wait for you to open up and take your time to muster up your courage. I tried everything I could to reach you out, maybe It'll be the last time when I'll give you something to go, something that you'll enjoy with your family. I don't know if you'll give me the chance later, but I'll still grab the opportunity I may. maybe I'll focus on myself for now, I promised myself if this wouldn't go well, I wouldn't find myself loving someone else besides you. You gave me the chance to find the man who I need to be, with the help of the Lord. But in the end, I would still hope that He will enable us to find our way back home.

[what-iz-life]

Don’t lose yourself because you found someone.

[adrianmatthew]

Barely lost myself thinking that I've found the one. But I thank God every time I remember her. And as He sustains me from all my doubts.

[adrianmatthew]

Ryunosuke Koike’s The Practice of Not Thinking offers a unique perspective on mindfulness, mental clarity, and the art of letting go. Drawing from Eastern philosophies and modern psychology, Koike provides readers with practical insights on how to cultivate a more peaceful and focused mind.

Lessons from the book:

1. The Power of Stillness

Koike emphasizes the importance of finding stillness in a chaotic world. By practicing moments of silence and reflection, we can create mental space that allows us to observe our thoughts without becoming overwhelmed by them. This stillness fosters clarity and helps us respond to situations more thoughtfully.

2. Letting Go of Overthinking

One of the central themes of the book is the detrimental effects of overthinking. Koike encourages readers to recognize when their thoughts become excessive and to consciously let go of the need to analyze every detail. This practice can lead to a more relaxed and productive mindset.

3. Mindfulness in Daily Activities

Koike advocates for integrating mindfulness into everyday tasks. By being fully present in simple activities—such as eating or walking—we can enhance our awareness and appreciation of life. This mindfulness helps us break free from habitual, automatic thinking patterns.

4. Embracing Impermanence

The book teaches that impermanence is an inherent aspect of life. By accepting that thoughts and feelings are transient, we can cultivate a greater sense of freedom. This acceptance allows us to experience life more fully without clinging to past regrets or future anxieties.

5. The Importance of Breath

Koike highlights the significance of breath as an anchor for mindfulness. Focusing on our breathing can help center our thoughts and bring us back to the present moment. This simple practice serves as a powerful tool for calming the mind and reducing stress.

6. Observing Without Judgment

A key lesson in the book is the practice of observing thoughts and emotions without judgment. Koike encourages readers to adopt a non-judgmental attitude toward their mental processes. This approach fosters self-compassion and reduces the inner critic, allowing for greater emotional resilience.

7. Cultivating a Beginner’s Mind

Koike discusses the concept of a “beginner’s mind,” which refers to approaching experiences with openness and curiosity, as if encountering them for the first time. This mindset promotes learning and creativity while reducing the pressure of expectations. Embracing a beginner’s mind can lead to richer experiences and a deeper appreciation of life.

The Practice of Not Thinking by Ryunosuke Koike offers valuable insights into the nature of thought and the importance of mindfulness. By embracing stillness, letting go of overthinking, and cultivating a non-judgmental awareness, readers can navigate life with greater ease and fulfillment. Koike’s lessons serve as a guide for anyone seeking to enhance their mental clarity and live more intentionally.

[adrianmatthew]

"The Art of Explanation" by Ros Atkins offers invaluable insights into effective communication.

Here are ten detailed lessons from the book:

1. Know Your Audience: Understanding who you're speaking to is fundamental. Tailor your explanations to their level of knowledge, interests, and concerns. Use language and examples they can relate to.

2. Clarity is Key: Strive for simplicity and clarity in your explanations. Break down complex ideas into digestible chunks. Avoid jargon and unnecessary technical terms that might confuse your audience.

3. Tell a Story: Stories are powerful tools for communication. Weave narratives into your explanations to engage your audience emotionally and help them connect with the information on a deeper level.

4. Use Analogies and Metaphors: Analogies and metaphors can make abstract concepts more concrete and understandable. Find familiar experiences or objects that parallel the ideas you're trying to convey.

5. Visual Aids Enhance Understanding: Incorporating visual aids such as diagrams, charts, or slides can greatly enhance understanding. Visual representations complement verbal explanations and appeal to different learning styles.

6. Repetition Reinforces Learning: Repetition is essential for learning and retention. Repeat key points throughout your explanation to reinforce understanding. However, vary your presentation to prevent monotony.

7. Invite Interaction: Encourage questions and feedback from your audience. Interactive discussions foster engagement and allow you to address misunderstandings or clarify points in real-time.

8. Be Authentic and Genuine: Authenticity builds trust and credibility. Be genuine in your communication, admitting when you don't know something and being open to learning from your audience.

9. Practice Active Listening: Effective communication is a two-way street. Practice active listening by paying attention to your audience's reactions and adjusting your communication accordingly. Empathize with their perspectives and concerns.

10. Continuously Improve: Communication is a skill that can be honed over time. Reflect on your past explanations, seek feedback, and actively work on improving your communication skills through practice and learning from others.

"The Art of Explanation" underscore the importance of clarity, empathy, and engagement in effective communication, offering practical strategies for becoming a more persuasive and impactful communicator.

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[adrianmatthew]

22 days more left to go, and we're officially a year old single. Though you have already found the love of your life after 3 months we broke up. Somehow I can't bear the fact that I still get to remember the old days together with you, and I just want you to know that you're the best thing that ever happened to my life and I am thankful to the one who enabled all things to happen for our good. Where you are right now together with the love of your life, may it be that He gave you the things that I haven't given to you and somehow filled the gap that I have left to complete you, and now I can see that you've found the one perfect for you. And I'm happy for you. However this thought of mine will remain here, and it will only be a memory of the past. I'll continue to pursue my dreams and hopefully, you'll pursue your dreams too with the love of your life.

[adrianmatthew]

In every heartaches, He is still worthy to be Praised. And so let your will be Done, O’ God. For it is well with my soul.

[christ-and-love]

Can I talk to God when I’m angry? -yes

Can I talk to God when I’m having doubts?- yes

Can I talk to God when I’m alone?- yes

Can I talk to God at school?- yes

Can I talk to God at work?- yes

Can I talk to God when I’ve just sinned?- yes

Can I talk to God when I feel I’m about to sin? -yes

Can I talk to God when I am in sin?- yes

Can I talk to God when I’m crying?- yes

Am I ever to dirty for God? -No

"Philippians 4:6 - Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God."

[adrianmatthew]

Praise the Lord O’ my soul. All My inmost being.

[adrianmatthew]

Sige, I understand. I'll be here naman for you.

[lonergirlmonologue]

"i wonder if we ever think of each other at the same time."

[belmasworld]

i actually think of you all the time

[adrianmatthew]

i think of you somehow, but maybe I'm just a nuisance.

[adrianmatthew]

i don't know.

[adrianmatthew]

7 Lessons From Ros Atkins's book "The Art of Explanation: How to Communicate with Clarity and Confidence"

1. Audience Awareness:

Understanding your audience is key to crafting an effective explanation. It's not just about their existing knowledge of the topic. Consider their age, background, expectations, and potential biases. Tailor your language and complexity to their level, pique their interest by highlighting why the topic matters to them, and acknowledge any preconceived notions they might hold to build a stronger foundation for your explanation.

2. Information Gathering: Not Just Research

While research is crucial for a solid explanation, go beyond traditional methods. Consider incorporating your personal experiences with the topic, seek insights from experts directly involved, and explore opposing viewpoints to build a well-rounded understanding and address potential challenges in your explanation.

3. Prioritization and Clarity

The art of distillation lies in extracting the most crucial points and discarding unnecessary details. Identify the core message you want to convey, prioritize supporting points based on their relevance, and use real-world applications or examples to illustrate complex ideas and ensure clarity.

4. Structure for Understanding

Logical flow is the structure that guides your audience's understanding. Think of it as building blocks. Use chronological order for sequential processes, explain cause and effect relationships to show connections, or frame your explanation around a central problem and its solution to create a clear path for your audience to follow.

5. Connecting the Dots: Weaving a Cohesive Narrative

Don't just present facts in isolation. Weave a cohesive narrative by using transitions and clear signposts to guide your audience through the connections being made. Summarize key points regularly to reinforce understanding and show progress throughout your explanation.

6. Conciseness is King: Editing for Impact

A tight and concise explanation delivers a stronger punch. Eliminate redundancy by avoiding repetitive phrasing, vary your sentence structure to keep your audience engaged, and use active voice for a more impactful message.

7. Confident Delivery:

Confidence in your explanation goes beyond your words. Maintain good posture and eye contact to project assuredness, modulate your tone to emphasize key points and avoid monotony, and practice your explanation beforehand to feel comfortable and polished.

[adrianmatthew]

Your brain is a supercomputer.

Update its software:

- Books

- Podcasts

- Practical experience

Clean its hard drive:

- Walks in nature

- Journaling

- Self-talk

Protect its battery:

- Sleep 8 hours

- Healthy diet

- Proper rest

[adrianmatthew]

10 Lessons From "Focus on What Matters" by Darius Foroux:

1. Identify your priorities: Take the time to reflect on what truly matters to you and what you want to achieve in life. This clarity will help you make better decisions and allocate your time and energy effectively.

2. Eliminate distractions: Minimize or eliminate distractions that hinder your focus and productivity. This includes reducing time spent on social media, turning off notifications, and creating a conducive environment for deep work.

3. Practice essentialism: Embrace the concept of essentialism, which means focusing on the vital few things that bring the most value and impact to your life. Say no to non-essential tasks and commitments.

4. Set clear goals: Define clear and specific goals that align with your priorities. This will help you stay focused and motivated, as well as measure your progress along the way.

5. Develop a routine: Establishing a daily routine can help you create structure and consistency in your life. It allows you to allocate time for your priorities and reduces decision fatigue.

6. Embrace minimalism: Simplify your life by decluttering physical possessions, digital clutter, and unnecessary commitments. This will free up mental space and allow you to focus on what truly matters.

7. Practice mindfulness: Cultivate mindfulness by being fully present in the moment and paying attention to your thoughts, emotions, and surroundings. This helps you stay focused and make intentional choices.

8. Prioritize self-care: Take care of your physical and mental well-being. Prioritize activities like exercise, proper nutrition, quality sleep, and relaxation to maintain your energy and focus.

9. Learn to say no: Be selective about the commitments and opportunities you take on. Saying no to non-essential tasks or requests allows you to protect your time and focus on what truly matters.

10. Continuously evaluate and adjust: Regularly review your priorities, goals, and commitments. Adjust as needed to ensure you stay aligned with what truly matters to you.

[adrianmatthew]

Well, it is what it is, I guess it's not yet my time to enter into the professional world, maybe because there's still more to learn while being unemployed, still I thank God for this life. He is still worthy to be praised in every circumstance.