The state of the world...
Please forgive my rambling post, as my thoughts are all over the place right now.
In my faith, we just finished up a weekend that is typically very spiritual, where we get to hear from church leaders in several different sessions across multiple days, it's called General Conference. It happens twice a year. The talks are then printed in full in the following month's issue of the church magazine, and in the last several years the talks are also posted online, to be watched again on both the Church website, and youtube. For me, this past weekend, like so many of the recent past General Conferences, the weekend was inspiring, uplifting, faith building, peaceful, and overall a nice "reset" and "recharge" to my batteries. The last three years I felt many times between juggling work, school and two young kids and all that goes with it I was running faster than I could walk.
Then the tragedy of Sunday night hit, and it along with the aftermath and reactions on social media, the narratives, the finger pointing, the politicization of the event to fit certain agendas reminded me very quickly of, and brought me back crashing down into, the world we currently live in.
I'm just as guilty as everyone else of emotionally sharing items, just the other day I shared one that I should have researched a little more. Thankfully a good friend whom I respect put me in check on that particular item.
But to see everything on social media, Democrats hate Republicans, Republicans hate Democrats, Gun Control Advocates hate 2nd Amendment advocates and vice versa, Christians hate Atheists, Atheists hate Christians, everyone else is racist except the person writing at that moment, Women hate men, men are oppressive to women, everyone is offended by anything and everything. The media can't be trusted, the left hate the right, the right hate the left. The President is a terrible human being, the President is a man who's just misunderstood, and the left and the media are only making it worse. You're a terrible person if you're patriotic, you're a terrible person if you're NOT patriotic. We're headed to a civil war, our side will win because we have all the guns, we're headed to a civil war, our side will win because we'll take all the guns and only police and military will have them...
Stop the train, I wanna get off. I've said before Facebook, Twitter, Tumblr, social media in general is turning into a GIANT ECHO-CHAMBER.
This morning while walking the dog, I resisted the urge to listen to music and instead just simply pondered. A twenty minute walk turned into 30, then into an hour. At the end of my walk, here is what I've decided to share, and if you're still with me, here is my point:
EVERYONE BACK AWAY FROM SOCIAL MEDIA. FROM TWITTER, FROM TEXTING. GO HAVE A FACE TO FACE CONVERSATION WITH A NEIGHBOR, A FAMILY MEMBER, A STRANGER. The world, is NOT as bad as it seems.
There are neighbors on my street that I do not align with politically, religiously, etc. On social media, we've disagreed on matters. YET, in person, we've had deep, meaningful conversations, there are many, many, things we DO agree on, and have common ground, and I KNOW that if I were in a crisis, and ran and knocked on their door, and said "I need your help," they would be there without hesitation, and I love them for that. And I do my best to make sure they know that if that role were reversed, I would be there for them.
I commented to a family member years ago, that I hated how everything was going to texting because we were seeing a decline in interpersonal communication skills, and it's getting worse than I imagined. I see people making comments on social media or the internet in general, about other individuals, other groups, that I have to believe with all my heart, that same person would never say in a real face to face conversation, because the person or people they were speaking with, would immediately look at them and wonder where the speaker's common sense went. Case in point: the exec from CBS who was fired on Monday for comments made about the tragedy in Las Vegas.
Believe in the good of other people. LISTEN to opposing views. You might learn something. You might even (wait for it) start to change your mind. Case in point, I was VERY against the protests going on in the NFL, I was very much in the camp of "You stand at attention, you respect the flag and the Anthem, protest another time, another way, etc." But I've heard some very compelling arguments and now I'm looking at that issue differently. Very differently.
Don't believe the echo-chamber of social media. There are good people out there. And they're Democrats, Republicans, gun owners, gun-control advocates, conservatives, liberals, Christians, Atheist, Gay, Straight...
but the most important label of all:
FELLOW HUMAN BEINGS.
We're all one human family. Let's take a moment to remember that.













