save a horse, ride a cowboyyy!!

aggie/AJ • early 20s • he/they/she 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 • latine 🇵🇷 • hi there!! I've been on here since 2021 and I’m not leaving anytime soon :3

[sweetheartscrapbook]

Hello kitty :)

[flanneldragon]

its crazy this all started because trans women came up with shorthand for the question "are you affected by transmisogyny" and the fact that your answer might be "no" drove people into a fucking frenzy

[godshideouscreation]

[forevertrueblue]

Selfie from the summer

[yesornopolls]

Does physically writing hard your hand? (Even if you have barely written anything)

Does physically writing hard your on hand? (Even if you have barely written anything)

Yes

No

Voting ended onNov 15, 2025

[yesornopolls]

A question for people with disabilities (physical and/or invisible): Are you comfortable with advocating for yourself?

A question for people with disabilities (physical and/or invisible): Are you comfortable with advocating for yourself?

Yes

No

See results

Voting ended onNov 15, 2025

[yesornopolls]

do you know Sabrina Carpenter before Espresso?

Did you know Sabrina Carpenter before Espresso?

Yes

No

Voting ended onNov 15, 2025

[yesornopolls]

Can you actually tell the difference between being in (romantic) love vs strong friendship vs sexual attraction?

(confused autistic aroace forever wondering what the difference is.. please feel free to give your explanation in the replies!!)

Can you actually tell the difference between being in (romantic) love vs strong friendship vs sexual attraction?

Yes

No

Voting ended onNov 16, 2025

[yesornopolls]

To people with boobs: Do you ever squish your boobs with your hand like a stress ball? Not for sexual purposes but just because it’s squishy?

To people with boobs: Do you ever squish your boobs with your hand like a stress ball? Not for sexual purposes but just because it’s squishy?

Yes

No

See results

Voting ended onNov 15, 2025

[yesornopolls]

do you know how to braid hair (in any form)?

Do you know how to braid hair (in any form)?

Yes

No

Voting ended onNov 16, 2025

[yesornopolls]

Gay

Gay?

Yes

No

Voting ended onNov 16, 2025

[barghestia]

got 5 (five) compliments on my new cigarette earring yesterday

[healsypally]

How come TME people’s truama from cis men overrides trans women’s safety and housing (due to how we remind them of men?)…

but when TMA people have trauma from men, we “have unhealthy relationships with transmasculinity” when we have trauma responses to people who are actually men?

Imagine if a trans woman or other TMA person suggested “No men, cis or otherwise, due to personal trauma from men” on a housing ad. The entire queer community would throw a fucking fit.

[healsypally]

But in EVERY SINGLE QUEER SPACE EVER “Afab-only” is somehow acceptable discrimination to bar trans women from life-saving resources, spaces, and housing.

[emmacandle]

cant believe yall are claiming to be transfem and transmasc at the same time now as if afab transfems werent bad enough. im going to start killing

[emmacandle]

like the willful ignorance and self absorption it takes to go "yeah my agab doesnt have any bearing on my gender so i can be trans in both ways!" is astounding and to then join a conversation on transfeminism saying "what about me?" as if you dont clearly misunderstand the first fucking thing about BEING TRANSGENDER. what the fuck are you doing

[junk-thunder]

i went to tragedy island but i was too late

[tara-the-star]

i love the phrase 'i dont go here but...' like you're so in awe of my work you have decided to trespass into a fandom you dont belong to just to appreciate it. i love everyone who doesn't go here

[so-much-for-subtlety]

something that is still a culture shock for me is eagerness of Americans to wear pajamas in public

[keepcalmandcarriefischer]

[keepcalmandcarriefischer]

Is it socially acceptable to wear PJ's in public?

(American) Yes!

(American) Generally frowned upon, but not a prblem

(American) No!

(Not American) Yea

(Not American) No!

(Not American) See the notes for the nuanced answer from where I live

Voting ended onNov 12, 2025