[ahundreddaisies]

My boyfriend and I 'jokingly' talking about moving in together and opening a bookshop together is one of the main things lifting me out of a whole of despair and sadness

[mythmica]

Thank you Canada that is a great name

[mythmica]

I’M FREAKING CRYING I CAN’T BELIEVE THAT WAS THE INSPIRATION

[inkthecryptid]

Guy who has only ever seen 2006 animated movie “Over the Hedge” watching a new natural phenomena develop:

[ahundreddaisies]

Going away for a few days with my boyfriend and I'm so excited and nervous at the same time 😊

[bamsara]

Something I made while dealing with my own stuff and hoping drawing this would pick me up somehow. Maybe it worked.

FT my cat. His name is Mischief

[ahundreddaisies]

I'm sitting here in a dress correcting essays, listening to jazz while it rains outside and waiting for my boyfriend to get home from work.

There's something oddly melancholic and old Hollywood about the whole scene 😂

[cassandracalin]

Hot girl summer

[racistspiderman]

More women

[sevey6]

Thank god they decided to make more

[somesaypoetry]

Wow

Dolly Parton has really been hard at work

[cumbacon]

But In doing so…she created her biggest enemy…Jolene

[ichikun]

[the-son-of-hell]

The tags fucking one shotted me

[nick-is-kinda-dum]

Damn she really musta been working 9 to 5 to make those women

[alphedhel]

What a way to make a living.

[anxietyproblem]

[feminineduck-deactivated2022051]

[random-chaos-thoughts]

And he looks

Fabulous

[lady-lotus-kat-deactivated20230]

The man has the legs for it honestly

[licka4skin]

WORK IT KING!!!

[baby-prince-oppa]

[underfell-crystal]

we stan a legend

[special-lucky-chosen-one]

reblogging for the last part (and also he DOES have the legs for it)

[lollibeepop]

Love Yourself (even if sometimes others have to do it for you)

[franziska-after-success]

It’s not a good thing to try and force someone not to use a healthy coping mechanism. There’s nothing inherently wrong with self-deprecation.

[fernacular]

There is, there very much is. 

Self-deprecation isn’t a healthy coping mechanism. Coping mechanism? Yes. Healthy? Absolutely not. Saying bad things about yourself seems harmless or even good in the moment but if you do it enough you will reinforce negative beliefs about yourself and the world around you. Say “I’m the worst” enough times and you will believe you’re the worst. Say “everything sucks I should just die lol” enough times and you will come to believe that too. 

I’m not pulling this shit out of my ass either, by the way, this is coming direct from when i was an outpatient at a psychiatric hospital, way back when i did this EXACT THING CONSTANTLY and ended up suicidal. This is what I was taught there, and this is how I dragged myself out.

The best way to combat this (very unhealthy) coping mechanism is really just to force yourself to say good things about yourself, and shut down the bad ones. It feels stupid, it feels like you’re lying, it feels like it will never work. But over time, if you keep at it, and with the help of friends, the new words will replace the old ones.  If you replace “i’m terrible” with “I’ve made a mistake, but that doesn’t make me a bad person” that is what you will come to believe, and make it 1000% easier to actually fix the problem because you won’t be bogged down with self-hatred. 

It’s annoying, and aggravating, and you don’t want to do it because self-deprecation is how you’ve coped for so long, but I promise you it’s not healthy and will make everything worse in the long term. 

[plot-twost]

I am gonna start sending this to myself and my friends once a week as a reminder that *this shit matters*

[ineffectualdemon]

I don't think some people understand that true joy in any relationship (romantic or whatever the fuck I have going on) is when you say or share a thing that makes your partner sigh and then stare off in the middle distance as they regret ever having met you

And I can hear some of you saying that's some heterosexual nonsense but NO

NO

This is UNIVERSAL

And it's not genuine hate or regret at like being with you. They still love you and shit it's just you said or sent them something SO CURSED that they just are filled with Regret

And then you cackle like the horrible little gremlin you are and scuttle off to find more things so you can respond to their eventual retaliation

And that is what love is

[shera-dnd]

“I love you” is all nice and good, but nothing compares to “I love you, but shut the fuck up”

[error-404-fuck-not-found]

once working retail at the jewelry counter i was putting a bunch of new inventory watches in the case, so i had like seven expensive watches in my arms, and this elderly couple walks by and i see the old man’s eyes light up as he darts over to me, and i can see the regret on his wife’s face cause she already knows what’s about to happen-

and he says “i see you’ve got a lot of time your hands!” and then makes the :D face in real life as he dances his way back to his wife who starts walking faster like she’s hoping no one will think they know each other

[hotmessrepresentation-deactivat]

i had a joke about orpheus and eurydice but looking back it wasn't a good idea

[sagetheroom]

[zetrystan]

Technically true.

[zetrystan]

He got the job.

[zetrystan]

He takes his job seriously.

[ahundreddaisies]

Lying awake, unable to sleep because I know he's had an awful day and I'm worried.

Worried that he's not sleeping or eating or communicating or doing any of the things that make him happy.

And I'm so proud of how far he's come but I don't know how I else I can help and I go back to work next week and it hurts and worries me that I'm only going to see him once a week.

[guerrillatech]

[ahundreddaisies]

Get you a man who takes you to an operatic version of Joyce's 'The Dead', cuddles you the whole time and then feeds you treats afterwards 🥰