Frayja Lost Love Spell [Rekindling]
Artwork by Kelly Morgen
Purify the room with sage, walk in a circle nine times carrying the lit sage bundle.
No devices allowed whilst casting this spell, so get a book to write this down of you can't remember.
You will need:
• Two white pillar candles
• One purple pillar candles
• Two good sized sage bundles
Let us begin!
The white candles represent your lost lover. You may mark them with your names if you wish, so you can tell the candles apart. The purple candle represents Freyja goddess of love.
Choose a place where you can place your candles undisturbed (preferably an alter).
Place the purple candle in the middle, and the two white candles to the sides of it, but towards you, so that the three candles form a triangle with the point away from you. The white candle representing you will be placed on whichever side that the hand that your most dominant with is on.
Take five minutes before casting the spell to clear your mind from the clutter and anxiety of the day.
Next, light the candle representing you. Say "This is my Devine Self". Hold the candle in your hand and see yourself as you truly are, underneath all the flaws that are a normal part of human nature. See yourself as a being of light, a spark of devine consciousness a soul made up of pure love. If you are a visual person, you imagine yourself glowing a beautiful bright light.
Then light the candle representing your lost lover, hold it, and say: "This is (Person's name)'s Devine Self". Now perform the same visualization for your lover, seeing them as a pure being of light in the eyes of the Universe, stripped of all their flaws, exposing the beautiful soul that exists underneath.
Lastly, light the purple candle, hold it, and say: "May we be held to our highest good, Hail To Freyja!". Here comes the tricky part of the ritual: you need to visualize the two of you feeling harmonious and joyful, without any attachment to having a relationship. This means that for the few minutes that you are doing this visualization, you must let go of any need to be in a relationship with this person. You should simply focus on the two of you being happy individually.
The reason for this is that desperation and attachment form the same negative energy we talked about before. So, in order to allow a lost relationship to flourish again, you need to let go of the desperate need for it. You do this by allowing the both of you to be happy whether you are in a relationship or not.
Sending energy to the image of both of you being happy without each other will not diminish the chances of you bringing back your lost love - it's the opposite. It's just one of those paradoxes of magic that may take some time to wrap your head around, but to put it simply - being okay with your least desired outcome removes the fear of that outcome. Removal of fear makes it more likely that you'll get what you want.
After you have put down the purple candle, light the sage bundle and blow it's all over the candles. Visualize the negative energies between you and your lost lover dislodging and being lifted up and away away by the smoke.
Say "An it harm none, so mote it be"
Snuff out the candles, don't blow.
Give praise to Freyja.
Repeat once a day for nine days.
This spell was requested by: @jecajeco993 on Instagram.