࿐❀Amaryllis Affection❀࿐

🌷ꨄ︎ My characters control the narative not me ꨄ︎🌹 🖤 Black Simmer🖤 She/her 🖤 GNC🖤AroAce🖤 Virago 🖤 🖤Here for the fun, my pretty boys and handsome girls🖤

[akida0-0]

Hello! My name's Akida and this is going to be my side blog where I share my progress in 1 making my own alternate world and 2 the stories of my OC's in that world!

Welcome to my page!!!

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Now I am a beginner so bear with me here. I've seen people and there OC's and it's never really occurred to me that I could to the same thing. and that is where my world ✨CARO✨began taking place.

Sprinkle in omegaverse shenanigans and that's my world of CARO!

A world where I get to explore all the thoughts that have plague me throughout my experience in fandom and I hope you will all join me as I figure things out and obviously mess things up too!

✩◇About me✩◇

🪼She/her 🪼 GNC Woman 🪼Asexual 🪼 INTJ 🪼 Black🪼

I'm not an artist, so I Make my OCs in the Sims, and will be sharing them with anyone who 's curious and just as fanatic about them as I am!

I AM a writer though and once all my extensive world building is done I will be writing my babes stories not just for me but all the people I hope will follow me on this journey.

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Ask box is ALWAYS open to talk about my world, my writing process, how I do my research, music, and honestly anything you want to ask me about from my fav media to deeper conversations.

Ask away! Don't by shy! I'm very eager to talk to people about things I like.

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Main Blog: @kamirai-k

[trans-yaoi]

Happy pride! Please be respectful towards GNC people. They're not secretly trans or secretly cis. They are what they say they are.

[princevin]

warning: discussion of kink (not explicit). The paragraph below is a good example of what to expect.

The intersection of kink and being virago is always an interesting discussion for me because I am a kinky virago. I really like power dynamics and I feel that extends to my relationships too.

When kink and virago are usually discussed, it’s usually in disdain for the femdom/domme archetype —which I understand— but I’d like to show another aspect of that intersection!

I like dominating. I like the power and control that it gives me. I like being able to decide things for my partner. I like imagining myself as dignified and commanding. And when I think of these things, I see myself with a bulky signet ring around my pinky; a sharp suit; and a low, authoritative voice.

See, the issue with femdom is less with the practice itself and more with how it’s socially positioned. Femdom, as largely understood, assumes a woman’s dominance is inherently feminine and sexual. But we’re not limited to femdom —I’m not limited to femdom— and, for those who are also into kink, I’d love to know how your virago identity interacts with it (if at all!)

[akida0-0]

I'm Aroace so though my experiences with kink in the physical sense are limited kink and my identity defiantly play a role in things like fantasies and what I enjoy.

More below the cut just in case

For me my dislike of the femdom genre isn't in the fact that its feminine. My issue with the genre is 1) how woman's dominance is filtered through a male lenses so it is inherently inauthentic and 2) often times the dominant woman isn't being a good dom. She is often just abusive and cruel to the sub and as someone who understands BDSM philosophy and resonate with it deeply it aggravates me.

The one with the power in a D/S relationship is the sub. The Dom is simply given control by the sub so the Dom can fulfill the subs fantasies that also aligns with the Dom's. When I see that relationship being twisted into a reverse patriarchal fantasy that has no link to that core philosophy it genuinely has me pissed.

With that out of the way though yes, I too like domination. That aspect is non-negotiable to me. I want to be the one in charge and give my sub the fantasy we both want. I like choosing things and I like giving out punishments with a nice dose of aftercare because what Dom would I be if I didn't?

[viragoposting]

Changes!

Okay, if you don't usually read my posts, now is a great time to. Two things about the label have changed for the first time!

Happy Pride, everyone! I hope you're celebrating. If you aren't, go out there and show em' who you are! I went and got a haircut today for the DC parade coming up. I encourage you guys to do something special that makes you feel a little more like yourselves!

Oh, the title says 'Changes'! There's been some talk and some things have adjusted.

We've reflected on language used within carrds created for the label shortly after the "Role Reversal discourse" occurred. Since late last year, we've also been in careful deliberations in ways to communicate queer gender roles within a LGBTQIA+ spaces. It's an interesting subject that's popular by those interested exploring the theory behind, yet it's also one all of us don't know how to navigate definitively.

For that reason...

After extensive thought, I've decided it best to cut mentions of roles out the definitions. This marks is the single time I've directly changed who the label includes. So if you're a Gender Conforming straight woman who likes role reversal, sorry. (lol).

This is because any roles will come naturally as expressions of someone's gender allinity and social context, it'd save us alot of trouble to discuss them separately. Nor does the roles speak about queerness as it pertains to the person's identity. It also runs the risk of opening doors for regressive misogynistic rhetoric with a fresh coat of faux progressionist thought (shocker). If you'd like to examine non-patriarchal queer gender roles, it's best done outside the influence of the label. Discussion of them isn't forbidden, but it's cruciality is no longer emphasized.

Since we're gaining consciousness on the experiences GNC people face, solidarity is essential for our language and terminology. The purpose of the labels has a foundation in GNC liberation.

With this, comes more news! Since we're refining things for organizational purposes, Virago and Mollis' definitions now also center GNC4GNC individuals as a whole, flexible within all sexualities. For example, if you're a feminine man who likes other feminine men, that is Mollis! The primary reason for this is because of the nature of the GNC community is to have space for us. Within their our own communities, GNC people are belittled for only seeking relationships with other GNC people. It should be a no-brainer that Virago means all GNC4GNC.

[empresschini]

My drawing of Vennessa for my fancomic

This is Vennessa. She was the hero of Mondstadt 1,000 years ago, and first grand master and dandelion knight of Knights of Favonius. In my upcoming fancomic "The Angel of Mondstadt", she will be a great influence to my OC (Rossini).

1st panel for my fancomic trailer is officially done, and I'm working on the 2nd panel next 🫶 if you've been following my updates, you know who's next

Here is my step-by-step progress:

[sodomit]

A rework of a graph I came up with a long time ago that describes my idea of gendered privilege vs oppression.

The idea I am trying to express here is that trans people typically start transition in the "bad [assigned label]" category and then drop down to the gender failure zone. Those few who are very lucky can eventually come out on the other side in the "bad [other label]" category. But nobody makes it to the top, and most still stay in the gender failure zone.

I think it explains some phenomena rather well, like all trans people regardless of identity being affected by all types of transphobia, or conditional male privilege that a certain narrow sector of western trans men is talking about. It also differentiates between the concepts of the bottom of the hierarchy and an underclass of womanhood.

I still feel like the graph is lacking in certain aspects, because I like the terminology "good man" vs "bad man", but I need to make it more clear somehow that it refers to social roles rather than gender identities.

Has anyone ever coined a term that refers to being judged by norms of a certain gender, rather than identifying as that gender?

Side note, I am aware of the work by Nora Hikari, but I don't consider mine to be a branch off of hers. We make some different conclusions (e.g. 5 categories vs 3, or her directly calling hers "genders", while I'm trying to avoid it) and plus, I started working on mine around 2020-2021.

[finnu1223]

exactly this

i like how this diagram also explains the terf viewpoint that a lot of feminine cis women hold- that theyre the most oppressed group and anyone masculine or male (or masc/male adjacent) has privilege over them

in reality, the "best" woman, the most gender conforming woman, will never hold the same power or get the same praise of a gender conforming man. the game is designed for them to lose, but failing at it or refusing to play is infinitely worse

[orisnitsa]

[thetragicallynerdy]

[ID: the Bugs Bunny in a tux meme, edited to say “I wish all LGBT+ folk who live in countries where pride is banned, illegal, or unwelcomed a very I love you, stay safe, Happy Pride (red, orange, yellow, green, blue heart emoji). The edited text is in all caps, with LGBT+ in rainbow lettering. End ID.]

[orisnitsa]

[thetragicallynerdy]

[ID: the Bugs Bunny in a tux meme, edited to say “I wish all LGBT+ folk who live in countries where pride is banned, illegal, or unwelcomed a very I love you, stay safe, Happy Pride (red, orange, yellow, green, blue heart emoji). The edited text is in all caps, with LGBT+ in rainbow lettering. End ID.]

[genshin-impact-updates]

Happy Birthday, Paimon!

Paimon never thought she'd be spending her birthday in Nod-Krai this year... and with so many little cuties keeping her company, too!

Look, they're dancing in a circle! Don't they look like they're celebrating Paimon's birthday?

Honestly, Paimon likes moments like this even more than fancy gifts. It's so lively, and so heartwarming...

Of course, things would be even more perfect with another slice of sweet, sweet cake!

[werewolf-transgenderism]

irritating as fuck when people get mad at Black people existing in premodern historical fiction/fantasy media. like first of all, you're racist. and second of all, you are acting as though Black people didn't exist in premodern Europe which is simply false. especially when we're talking about the Mediterranean, like what the fuck do you people think is along the southern half of the Mediterranean Ocean?? everyone's on boats, there are GOING to be interactions with Black people in Northern Africa, and there are GOING to be Black people in Mediterranean Europe. stop being stupid. your imagined homogeneous white European past is not historical reality, get over it you massive losers

[stackmoorepaper]

white people are so fucking annoying like i’m still so mad about that person calling sinners “het slop” like, to watch sammie and pearline fall in love in a night and be separated by death within hours and then later see he named his bar/band after her all those years later

to see delta slim, who met sammie HOURS PRIOR and gave his life to make sure sammie was able to live and shine with his gifts forever

to see smoke and annie, separated by love and grief over the death of their infant daughter and united by the same things

to see stack and mary separated by the racial dynamics of their time and the dangers of society, given a second chance in death to walk the world together forever

to see grace fucking chow!!!! literally kill her husband and go down with him in flames because of the love for her daughter

to see sammie! sweet sammie moore the preacher boy who only wanted to play his music and let his light shine, unknowingly piercing the veil between life and death, inviting the ancestors and descendants to every party he plays, who was willing to die for the love of music and his freedom! who defeated the evil with the power of music and ancestry and got to LIVE!

to see smoke die in acceptance after slaying the kkk after fighting off vampires for the entire night and having to stab the love of his life in the chest, to see him reunite with her and their child after a night of horror

to see smoke and stack lovingly embrace and try to build a communal space for their community and family to be free of all struggles just for a few hours and be torn apart

to see ALL OF THIS and reduce the movie to, “het slop” is just insane and racist like there’s no other way to slice it

[flintloc-k]

Having dated both of them, there is a real difference between a femboy/guy who's into wearing lingerie and women's clothing and a genuinely feminine man.

Both are a valid way to express yourself, but I'm only interested in getting to know the latter.

[stonesense]

"i'm soooo glad that this new female character finally proved that you can be feminine and powerful! because media usually doesn’t let strong female characters be feminine!” yeah that is so crazy btw what planet do you live on and how can i get there

[ramenheim]

The ppl making these kinds of comments DON'T watch ''women's media'' and only watch male-hegemony preserving productions who write women as '''''interesting deviations on the Standard Character'''''. 😮‍💨

Look at the examples they share next time & see it happen Live for yourself. 😐

[akida0-0]

I made a new Blog dedicated to Jean and Venti from genshin because they've taken over my soul atm and I need a outlet to rant about them. Any genshin fans here please follow so I can go crazy about the insane potential they have!

@asante-aoha

[secretscents]

In this house, femboys and tomboys are slurs and derogatory language.

[failfujo]

Before knowing the history of tomboy I was fine being called it...then I learned it was coined to push young gender conforming white women to become athletic so they could create "healthy white babies" and it was expected they'd eventually fall back into femininity? It never was for actual masculine women...the expectation was always to rape and convert masculine women, or ensure gender conforming women eventually stay in line.

"Why don't you call yourselves tomboys?"

It's term stems to support the Great Replacement Myth.

[shesdiva]

"Why do tomboys always end up feminine" it's by design. They never wanted us to exist. It's always been a ploy to erase black existence.

[shesdiva]

I remember when we looked into this...I keep thinking about it and this shit makes me so fucking angry and sad as a black woman.

[blackmascs]

The Racist History of Celebrating the American Tomboy

Most of us think fondly, and uncritically, of tomboys: spunky girls who act and dress boyishly, who don’t give a hoot about gender norms. As

Link to the article.

Here are some more excerpts. Absolutely horrifying...

[secretscents]

this is so fucking bleak man...and even after this they made the term d*ke to call black masculine women...

[finnu1223]

if you guys want to learn more on this topic, theres a really good video by shanspeare here:

[akida0-0]

You have got to be joking 😀 I come back and learn this new price of information 😭

Frankly I'm not shocked because white ppl always on some bullshit but by God this is horrendous

[visjules]

Bunch of lapidot doodles

[akida0-0]

Dude what have I missed???

I'm gone for a while and my dash is in shambles?? What happened 😭

[secretscents]

Basically I made a few posts about my disagreements I had with the RR side of the community and it ruffled some feathers.

Tldr; I think we focus too much on "rolereversal" and kind of ignore lived experiences with being Hetgnc.

[akida0-0]

And your right?!

Like yes! I never liked the term roles reversal because it never encompasses the complexity that is being GNC. It was the only term I had for the dynamic I liked however so it was what I used. Look at the role reversal subreddit and scroll. All you will see is plain fetish content and ppl who just want a dommy mommy, and when the gnc woman talk about wanting more conversation around there identity the posts get no traction or ppl in the comments saying "oh but this that and the third" completely isolating the OP wo just wanted to have a conversation about GNC woman without the obvious fetish bullshit.

It's why I left reddit and have it blocked. It's also why I'm very weary of straight men because they have so much internalized mysogonistic ideas they still need to unpack before they can engage in these conversations.

It's truly its own kind of hell. Being attracted to fem men but men as a whole are so damn brainwashed they can't even see a woman as a person let alone a masculine woman. It all has to be on some fetishy bull and it's tiering.