Im so tired of noncon fantasies being defended exclusively from the standpoint of women who fantasize as the victim
"Accusing ppl with rape fantasies of wanting to be raped is disgusting apologism!"
I fantasize as the rapist. I like imagining scenarios where someone isn't attracted to me, because I'm used to being treated as an object and it pisses me off. The only fantasy that feels empowering is one where I'm 100% sure the other person isn't using me for their pleasure because they aren't experiencing pleasure at all, because I'm in control, because it's all about what I want and nothing else.
That doesn't make me a rapist, and most of the people condemning rape fantasies have people like me in mind, so it would be nice if that was acknowledged more.

















