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if you assume a trans woman is going to top because of her genitalia start running. I am coming to get you.
if you assume a trans man is going to bottom because of his genitalia start running. I am coming to get you.
if you assume a nonbinary person is going to fill some sexual role because of their genitalia start running. I am coming to get you.
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this is probably the only sex gif i will every reblog, because for some reason i feel like it’s more than just sex. i don’t know if it’s how they’re actually looking at one another or the way they can’t get close enough. he’s actually looking at her like a person and not just a sex object.
but then again, it could be all in my head. i mean, this is how i would want it to be. but that’s just me.
I’m about 97% sure we’re not seeing the same gif
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pro tip: you ever see someone, anyone, making reference to trans men having short heights or small sized bodies or small genitalia even, that is immediately your sign that that person is deeply hateful and should no longer be given the benefit of the doubt or engaged with.
there is this odd sort of plausible deniability that is happening these days because references to things that make trans men physically dysphoric is not widely seen as an issue, (because if we take issue with it we are just upset about being ‘emasculated’ and are not trans people with dysphoria. obviously.) and that leads to people talking about us in explicitly transphobic ways with minimal to zero push back.
if someone was constantly referring to the large height and size of trans women in disparaging or fetishistic ways i’d hope you’d be able to clock how fucking weird and transphobic that was, and this is no different.
I start grinding my teeth every time trans folks and allies use bioessentialism themselves to try to outwit trans sports bans. On a thread about trans people in sports, a trans woman tried to insist that since she started E, she's been so out of shape and frail and breathless, and a trans man was like "yeah now that I started T I have such an advantage over women and do not compete coed anymore" and I understand where this thought comes from, but it's both wrong and fucks us in the long run, not to mention both statements are utterly laced with misogyny!
The commentary was in relation to Isaac Ranson signing with the Aurora Football (soccer) Club--the women's semi-pro team. His ability to play for women's teams has been contingent upon him not being allowed to go on testosterone. He played for a women's college team--excelled actually--while being prevented from transitioning at all. The NCAA prevents you from being on T in women's college sports. The NWSL prevents you from being on T in women's pro soccer. The ICC prevents you from being on T in the olympics under the women's category.
Transphobes immediately shat themselves about fairness. Like they did for Mack Breggs a decade ago. Very few articles about the trans ban specify how the bans include language about hormones, so not only are trans men barred from competing among men, they are barred from medical transition entirely if they compete among women.
So when transphobes look at a trans man who cannot actually medically transition--his estrogen levels are in line with cis women--they complain, assuming his T levels are high. Then when it's revealed he's not on T, people still have a problem with him being there.
And it is so dangerous as trans people to take fascist tools to try to "gotcha" transphobes who are either motivated by transphobia and will not be happy no matter how trans people compete for as long as we are still there, or misogynists who are so extremely desperate to reinforce the narrative that being a woman means you are a weak frail thing and being a man means you are a thuggish brute. And wouldn't you know it, a huge portion of transphobic rhetoric combines the best of transphobia and misogyny into a neat little package.
It's the same as how the "bearded trans men in women's bathrooms show how silly bathroom bans are" ultimately does more damage than good: A good article about that.
When these selfies showing hyper-feminine or hyper-masculine gender presentations float to the top of social media timelines as they go viral, the images present narratives that have little bearing on the lives of trans people who are most affected. At best, bathroom selfies by cis-passing trans people open up discussion about the pitfalls of anti-trans bathroom legislation. But at worst, they perpetuate the myth that the issue of trans bathroom use can be solved by simply allowing only the people who “look” like the right gender to safely use the bathroom of their choice.
Many transphobes won't be "got" because they actually don't care about "women's safety" or "fairness" or whatever the talking point is, they do not want trans people to exist, OR, the ones you do catch in hypocrisy just tells them "you fool, you forgot to use misogyny!"
"Trans man isn't a threat cause his T levels are like cis women" is not a win! It tells them their measurement tools are right, their execution is just wrong, but the tools aren't right either! And you get people playing coed sports based on weight class smugly asserting that it would be "unfair" to compete against women. That's misogyny, bro!!!
You get trans women insisting they are now frail helpless creatures that pose no threat--I understand the need to appear disarming...but it's still misogyny.
We are just slowly replacing the misogynistic assumptions about birth sex with misogynistic assumptions about hormones and calling it a success, but not only is it not a success but many of the influential people in the discourse--politicians, sports committees, etc--are STILL of the opinion that sex assigned at birth is all there is.
This pivot just gives permission to create litmus tests. How much hormone is too much? Must everyone out themselves? Are we all prevented from medical transition? If we "look" like one thing regardless of what hormones say, how are we categorized? Are nonbinary and intersex people just cursed to to float like ghosts in the background, perpetually ignored by cis and trans people alike?
These moves are pioneered by cis passing medically-transitioned people who think we all just need to quickly hustle across to the other side and be indistinguishable from cis people and all will be well, but these sorts of litmus tests cannot even "correctly" identify cis women with bodily variance as women because our very standards of gender are racist intersexist exorsexist caricatures--we should NOT keep reinforcing the idea that we are all happy participants in that charade if we were only given the chance.
And if I said a lot of hatred towards certain labels and identities is greatly because people associate queer spaces as "women's spaces" and are threatened by any masculinity.
What if I say that somewhere along the line people have forgotten that the opposite of toxic masculinity is just... masculinity, not femininity
Conservative misogynists: Women are dumb and irritating. Their brains are poisoned by their hormones. The art they make is shallow and silly, their political theory is not worth taking seriously, and they're constantly whining and being drama queens about their stupid problems. They need to shut up and realise they don't belong in leadership positions.
Leftist "transfeminists" (so-called): Trans people AFAB are dumb and irritating. Their brains are poisoned by their hormones. The art they make is shallow and silly, their political theory is not worth taking seriously, and they're constantly whining and being drama queens about their stupid problems. They need to shut up and realise they shouldn't be leading our movement.
It's a match made in heaven! I ship it ❤️
It just boggles the mind that some trans people get more separatist about gender after realizing they’re trans.
Like.
Realizing I’m trans only made me realize that a lot of the divisions we make, like man/woman, aren’t as clearly defined as society tries to force, and that we’re more similar to each other than dissimilar.
"decentering trans men" is not feminist or anti patriarchy. you are doing the exact same thing that cis patriarchy is doing; silencing any gendered experience that is not cis or cis-normative/conforming. you are not punching up when you punch transgender people regardless of their chosen gender, presentation or sex characteristics. because transgender people are gender minorities. transgender men are already not centered in any conversation ever, even when in regards to their own bodies, minds, gender identities and history. we (I'm not a trans Man but I am trans Masc, for what it's worth) are not given the privileges and rights of cis men unless we mirror their bodies and actions perfectly, which ultimately puts us in more danger when we are inevitably outed as "fake" men. when we are men but do not resemble cis men, we are treated like faggots at best, by half assed allies, and defective women who need to be fixed at worst, by transphobes. it's okay to center women, or even only talk about women at all, you are not obligated to care about trans men and mascs. but purposefully "decentering" and demonizing us further will only kill us, sincerely and legitimately, not as a joke on Tumblr. and if that's your intention then I hope your communities learn to recognize that murdering minorities is not praxis and encourage you to find better means of coping. unless you're cis and pulling this shit. then I hope you lose internet connection permanently. I'm not even asking for you to do anything for us, you never even need to bring us up. just stop beating us down and painting us like oppressors. like it's the bare minimum
trans feminism should be about dismantling ideas that belong to cispatriarchy. that should include oppositional sexism. as trans people, we should be acutely aware that men and women are not meaningfully different and that people can be both, or be one without conforming to generalizations. a subsection of feminism that just reinforces patriarchal ideas of Abuser Gender and Victim Gender/Strong Gender and Weak Gender is just a queer-repackaged fascist psyop and we need to stop falling for it. you can uplift women and trans people without putting anyone else down. you can fight bigots and assholes without generalizing on the basis of their identity. please for fucks sake
A lot of criticism of delivery apps focuses on the fact that they offer convenience and variety, which I find much less compelling than criticizing the fact that the apps often send their contractors on fetch quests from Hell.
There are real labor problems here. Base pay is often insulting. Customer tips carry too much of the burden. Workers need better protections, more transparent algorithms, protection from arbitrary deactivation, and actual recourse when the app or a customer screws them over. Car-dependent delivery is also an environmental and infrastructural problem, though in a denser city I’d still be doing this work; I’d just be doing it by bike.
But when people talk about delivery work, I rarely see them talk to actual delivery workers. I see a lot of abstract arguments about convenience, consumer decadence, “hustle culture,” and internalized neoliberalism. Meanwhile, when I’m out working and waiting in restaurants for orders, the other Dashers I meet are usually people who only speak Spanish, people who read as neurodivergent, visibly physically disabled people, or some combination of the above.
I have not met this mythical Disco Elysium poor ultraliberal hustlegrinder-wannabe people seem to be arguing with. Maybe that archetype exists somewhere. If it exists among any kind of gig worker, it would probably be rideshare drivers. But most of what I see looks less like “rise and grind” and more like “this is one of the few forms of work available to people who need flexibility, low barriers to entry, limited managerial surveillance, or a way to work around language barriers, disability, burnout, chronic illnesses and injuries with symptoms that come and go unpredictably, caregiving, résumé gaps, or discrimination.”
That does not make the current system good. It means the current system is filling a real gap that a lot of supposedly better systems do not even acknowledge.
As a disabled person who is burnout-prone and demand-sensitive, contracting as a delivery driver has given me an unprecedented level of financial flexibility. I can work when I have capacity. I can stop when I’m deteriorating. I can build my day around my actual body instead of being trapped under a manager who thinks “reliable” means “able to perform the same way every day no matter what.” That matters. It does not cancel out the exploitation, but it is also not fake just because it is politically inconvenient.
And delivery itself is not some inherently decadent evil. Sometimes people live alone. Sometimes they are sick. Sometimes they are disabled, exhausted, overwhelmed, grieving, overloaded, or recovering from something else - perhaps the stress and fatigue induced by their own job. Sometimes they need medicine, groceries, or a meal that will actually unplug their sinuses instead of whatever generic community-care slop someone thinks they should be grateful for. Humans are allowed to need specificity. “Food” is not the same as “the food I can actually eat right now.”
A serious labor critique would ask how to make delivery work safer, better-paid, less tip-dependent, less car-dependent, less algorithmically punitive, and less precarious. It would ask what kinds of flexible, accessible work should exist for people who cannot thrive in conventional employment. It would ask how cities could support bike delivery, worker cooperatives, public infrastructure, and real protections without simply replacing one bad system with a moral sermon about how nobody should ever want takeout.
But a lot of the discourse does not do that. It treats convenience itself as suspicious. It treats wanting flexible work as false consciousness. It treats the needs of disabled people, immigrants, and other people who can't fit into traditional employment structures as details to be swept aside in favor of a cleaner political image.
I guess the opinions of delivery workers only count when they are politically convenient.
When you're googling Google for your Buffy fic to figure out whether the characters would be using Google in the summer of 2000 and then the Wikipedia entry for 'Google (verb)' includes this:
you seem thoroughly uninformed about misogyny in south korea, so much that you think south korean feminists are creating a divide when said divide already clearly exists and is the cause of the rise of a feminist movement
“I would hate for this interest in 4B outside of South Korea to somehow feed and revive the most regressive part of 4B,” Ju Hui Judy Han, an assistant professor of Gender Studies at UCLA, tells Them. “I would actually hate for the interest in 4B in the US to then somehow make this TERF [movement] grow in South Korea.” [...] But the conversation about 4B in the U.S. is rife with misconceptions about the movement, including false assertions that 4B accounts for the majority of feminist thought in South Korea. It’s important to note that despite the global attention, 4B is a fringe movement in South Korea, and Han says the vast majority of South Korean feminists do not abide by it. “I just want to make sure that people understand that 4B does not speak for Korean feminism,” Han tells Them. “4B is not representative of Korean feminist politics. A lot of us see something a lot more diverse and a lot more intersectional than what 4B calls for.” [...] Han says that they hope this blip in interest about 4B fades into the next news cycle, as there are so many other forms of intersectional South Korean feminism that do include queer and trans people. Ultimately, many of the current discussions about 4B are coming from a place of privilege that queer people don’t have the luxury of accessing.
which South Korean feminists my friend
#prev#something something the way western terfs talk about sk feminism feels very. noble savage to me#THIS THO#it does feel very noble savage and I was trying to put that to words earlier#very “oh the [noble savage] Koreans couldn't being Doing A Transphobia - you are applying western logic onto a eastern movement 🤓☝️”#as if there are no Korean queer people or trans people#as if Korea isnt “”developed“” enough to have intersectional feminism or to know transphobia is bad#like pleeeeeeease#It's the orientalism again of course
old post & tags but i just was talking about this with someone & then this post came up in my notes again, & i wanted to highlight these because this is so true.
its very orientalist & reminiscent of the "noble savage" and so much western radical feminism engages in this. they love the idea that South Korean feminists are all into 4B and female separatism, and more broadly all feminists from the Global South, because then they can fetishize the real and imagined suffering of women in these countries.
i think there's this need for the symbol of The Eternally Suffering Silent Black/Brown/Asian Woman, who of course agrees with everything white radical feminists from Euro-colonial countries believe. it very much is the "noble savage" idea. like how during America's "First Feminist War," there was so much emphasis on how Muslim countries were in the "dark ages" and "practically medieval."
so feminists from these countries are perceived as like, primitive feminists, pure of the petty bourgeois corruption of western feminists (aka intersectionality & being pro-sex). they are the Ur-feminists from the radfem Garden of Eden, and thus also fundamentally two-dimensional. we have to ignore the existence of trans people in these countries, act as if the same feminist discussions and conflicts that happen in Western feminism aren't happening in feminism in the Global South. we have to play up how violent, savage, animalistic the men of their countries are, have to deny these women's husbands and brothers and sons and friends humanity and complexity. and we also have to pretend they exist somewhere out of time, untouched by modern degradation.
that's why i find it amusing how a lot of people acted like the 4B movement was something that came purely out of the unique situation of Korean women, when in fact the movement traces its roots to translations of Western radical feminist texts. we literally already did the whole female separatism thing and it didn't work out. but if the 4B movement is imagined as this mass movement of Eternally Suffering Silent Asian Women reacting to the unique savagery of Asian men (white males are bad but Black/brown/Asian men are worse, less control over that innate male violence), then it lends female separatism more legitimacy. that South Korean feminists have a lot more diversity of perspectives, that South Korean feminism also discusses intersectionality and trans inclusion and seeking solidarity with men and all of those petty bourgeois distractions, ruins that fantasy.
this isn't to say, of course, that admiring and supporting feminists or any activists in the Global South inherently does this, or that transfeminists are immune from engaging in this same behavior. but i've noticed it a lot from radical feminists, and it felt very on display in this situation.