Alefia Solar

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[nodeadflesh]

While gossip among women is universally ridiculed as low and trivial, gossip among men, especially if it is about women, is called theory, or idea, or fact.

andrea dworkin, right wing women

[sirona-ryan]

Good morning, here’s your reminder that Hunter Schafer is a misogynist :)

[art-lover-genderhater]

I CACKLE at these trans teens calling themselves punks and marxists . They refuse to belive MATERIAL REALITY (biological sex and sexual dimorphism), believe one can LITERALLY PURCHASE (through makeup, surgery, etc) being a female, and crave EXTERNAL VALIDATION AND AFFIRMATION CONSTANTLY. i simply HAFF to LAFF

[cholulafem-deactivated20240514]

i really do not like that there are communities of men that dress up as hypersexualized, bimbo-ified caricatures of women and are celebrated for it. i do not like drag.

i do not think that drag is an innocent outlet to explore gender nonconformity. it goes beyond that -- it is a misogynistic performance of men's idea of womanhood, and it disgusts me. the fact that drag performers adopt "female" personas with feminine names and use she/her pronouns solidifies my opinion on this.

[hadesoftheladies]

Something I wrote on my IG today

[strangealphawoman]

Male gender nonconformity becoming more “mainstream” than gnc women is in large parts about capitalism. What’s a better business model? Telling men they should buy makeup and skincare or telling women they shouldn’t buy anything at all?

[moomoolamoo-deactivated20240126]

THIS!!!

[radsplain]

women can't even talk about our own anatomy without having to caveat every single thing we say with "i think all terfs should die btw!!!" like i find it so interesting that this was her very first thought after posting. she knew how the notes were going to eviscerate her for it so she had to beat them to it. this right here is one of the reasons i peaked. any discussion about our bodies always, inevitably, is boiled down to "bioessentialist rhetoric" despite the very valid points it's making. the fact that any discussion we want to have about female anatomy is somehow a "TERF dogwhistle" for simply talking about body parts that half the human population has. and that every conversation like this has to be prefaced with "TERFS can fuck off and DIE!!!" or else risk being ripped to shreds by the gender freaks is so telling of where liberal feminism is today.

[redditreceipts]

"they don't truly view us as women" yeah, sorry to tell you dude, but nobody does. some people pretend, but their pretention obviously stops at their own bodily autonomy. and you know why? because they're lesbians, and you're a man. a man showing everyone a great example of inceldom and your entitlement to other people's bodies.

okay, so dear conversion therapy apologists, how exactly do you think does this differ from "don't ask, don't tell"? why are people not allowed to talk about their homosexuality anymore? and how is this woke?

"it's transmisogyny in disguise" - yeah, because the concept of a "lesbian" is transmisogynistic. human sexuality is transmisogynistic. nature is transmisogynistic, such as language and logic. everything is transmisogyny, because trans ideology is at odds with reality.

you don't want to have sex with a certain person? bro grow up! consent is a childish myth.

well, everyone who is not bisexual is transphobic. so technically, you're right lmao

[lamuliz]

Don't stop talking about them. We need to be their voice.

Inspired by the amazing poem by dana

[redditreceipts]

is it transphobic for people to be lesbians? I went on a lesbian subreddit and asked people there why they don't even consider dating men. but suddenly, people were being defensive??? I really don't get it. it feels icky to me when women are asserting their boundaries, because that gives off transphobia vibes.

[redditreceipts]

another day, another "masc women are not really women" from braindead TRAs. probably the same people who started asking me for my pronouns the second I cut my hair, when they've never done it before

[redditreceipts]

men judging women's opinions by their attractiveness and fuckability, the most male behaviour of all

the only new thing is that simultaneously, they are claiming to not be men anymore, proving the ridiculousness of that claim in the very same breath that they are making it

(also, I know several attractive gender critical women, both in real life and online. the thing is that it doesn't matter. I thought that we were past determining the validity of feminism by how attractive a feminist is to a man, but well, here we are.)

[radfemtiktok]

[blasphemale]

Nonbinary is when you believe sooooo hard in gender roles that you think not adhering to the stereotypes of a group means you no longer are a part of that group

Hourly reminder that man/woman are body types, not personality types

[pineapplerightsideupcake]

Nobody is saying that aro/ace people are gay, we're saying that they're queer. And why are you so hung up on calling them straight men? Women can be aromantic or asexual, too. And not all aro/ace people are straight. You can be aromantic and lesbian or gay or bi, and the same thing applies with asexuality

And neither of them is just a lack of commitment. They're lacks of sexual or romantic attraction

You people made “queer” and “gay” synonymous. You decided for same sex attracted people we were now annexed into YOUR movement, and that having our own was bigotry. Then you threw open the gates to our oppressors and have Target and Wells Fargo calling us a slur on social media. Universities offer “queer studies”. Fuck you forever for that.

So let me say this slowly: no one gives a fuck if you don’t have sex or date. NO ONE. This is an invented oppression that you wave around for attention and then when your community is criticized for your actions from my first paragraph your turn around and pretend I have a problem with you not dating. I couldn’t care less if you fuck. I don’t give a single solitary shit if you in your endless solipsistic musings feel “romantic love”.

Straight women that don’t have sex or date are just straight women. A lesbian that doesn’t have sex or date is just a lesbian. But pretending that men claiming to only want to have sex with but not love women is the same thing is ignoring thousands of years of context that men have historically seen women as less than human.

You don’t get to dodge accountability by pretending the anger directed at you is because people are just THAT angry you don’t fuck.

The reason we’re angry is because you invaded our space, convinced the world to call us a slur, invited in our oppressors, and told us we aren’t allowed to leave or even complain.

[redditreceipts]

the relationship dynamics between a transmasculine person and his transfeminine partner:

"The differences between men and women are most evident in those men and women that don't want to be men or women." (Kathleen Stock, Material Girls, paraphrased)

[edonee]

Things typically made for women (ex. high heels, bikinis, mini skirts) are designed to be impractical and humiliating btw. I don't think most people realize how demeaning they look, because we are so used to seeing them on women. We are so used to seeing women in the tiny micro thongs at the beach, having to be careful not to move around too much so that they don't accidentally flash everyone. All while men get to wear the comfortable, covering shorts, that allow them to move as much as they want, climb up rocks, and run without having to double-check whether their fucking balls are hanging out. The comparison looks ridiculous. Just another example of women having to perform in every aspect of their life, even when doing activities as innocent as swimming.

[radfem-twitter]

[radfemblack]

Facts. 75% start as kids. Sex trafficking and sex trade goes hand in hand.

[radgoblin]

13 is the AVERAGE age of entry into prostitution.

[brensey]

AMEN!

I’m so sick of the “Sex Work Is Work” dipshits who act as if child prostitution is completely separate from adult prostitution. It isn’t. It’s just the next step. And you can’t support one without also supporting the other.