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tbh i fully believe that healthy kids should be getting in some stupid trouble.

like, a child that’s in trouble all the time, frequently skipping school, getting caught doing crimes? that’s a kid that desperately needs literally any positive attention. that kid needs help. obviously.

but a child that is perfectly well-behaved, never speaks up for themself, is seen and not heard? that’s a child that’s afraid. they also need help.

neurodivergent-loverboy

Kids learn by messing up. A kid who never does anything that might lead to a mistake has been taught that it’s not okay to make mistakes

neurodivergent-loverboy

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I’m gonna have to respectfully disagree, the main reason being: in most circumstances when a person makes a mistake, it does not feel like a mistake in the moment. It feels like the right option, or the only option - because if they knew it was a mistake, they would have the foresight to not do it.

The same is true for kids. If a twelve-year-old decides to disobey their parents and go out with friends instead of studying for an important test, they are deliberately getting themself into trouble. The thing is, in this scenario the twelve-year-old doesn’t understand why the rule to study before socializing exists. They think they’ll be fine without studying, or they’ll study later. They break the rule because it feels like the correct thing to do.

That is a perfectly age-appropriate and low-stakes mistake for a kid to make, and it involves saying “No, I don’t want to listen to Mom and Dad. I want to make my own decision.” That’s the kind of healthy trouble I believe the OP is talking about. No harm is done, except potentially to the kid’s test score. It’s a live-and-learn moment: something that all people need sometimes, especially children.

Kids learn and grow through opportunities to try things out for themselves, and often they will do so without permission from the adults who care for them. It’s normal and healthy for kids of all ages to assert their independence in various ways. Exploration of free will, even in the form of disobedience, is essential to child development all the way from toddler to teen

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orangelemonart

OH MY GOD, did I never share these on tumblr???? These are my magnum opera.

Say hello to Hennessy Naruto (gay version), Patron Sasuke, Svedka Sakura, and Kushkashi. They're a kind of parody/extension of the ridiculous shirts you can get on a boardwalk or at mall kiosks. Only gayer.

It's a legal requirement that you yourself tie-dye any shirt these are going to be ironed on to.

orangelemonart

OK I THINK I DID IT RIGHT YOU CAN NOW BUY THESE ON GUMROAD

HENNESSY NARUTO (GAY VERSION (ONLY VERSION))

PATRÓN SASUKE

SVEDKA SAKURA

KUSHKASHI (KAKUSHI?)

TEAM PRIDE PARTY

flowers4therapture

all you can really do in times like these is fujo out

kragehund-est

advertisement should be illegal. this is based in the 3rd pillar of my belief system: leave me the fuck alone

kragehund-est

i DO know and i said ILLEGAL

dogdayafternoon1975

surkeart

be free!!

kakashihasibs

Also this is the absolute worst

tsunades-left-bicep

Yeah no this deserves an explanation. So uhhh. While traveling to that turtle island Naruto creates these shadow clones and doesn't dispel them for like a week and they start developing individual personalities based on different aspects of his subconscious. There's the aggressive angry one, the mopey sad one, the ditzy happy one and the uhhhh gay one. He wears makeup and limps his wrists and stuff. Original Naruto is homophobic to him. Anyways the shadow clones go on strike because they're tired of doing all the work for Naruto and they take him hostage and refuse to continue with the mission until he recognizes their efforts. Gai tries to rescue him by running around in a speedo and saying things about "feeling the sounds of flesh slapping flesh resonating through your bones" (direct quote btw) and the twink clone like blushes and swoons etc. Things only get weirder from there and at the end of the episode its revealed it was all a dream. I wish I was making this up, but unfortunately its all true.