a service dog

let me learn | (he/him, butch, 24) | CIS men and Minors are not weclome | (this is a side blog so you'll be followed by a Worm, not a puppy)

[alfiebarks]

★Alfie★

⋆ he/him butch ⋆

⋆ 24 ⋆ sapphic only ⋆ married (hi @sugarxberry <3) ⋆

⋆ art ⋆ writing ⋆ horny ⋆

⋆ send asks ⋆ start discussions ⋆ be weird ⋆ respect one another ⋆

⋆ read at your own risk ! yes for nsft but also for wack shit ! more below ⋆

I love yappin and writin' so here are your disclaimers!

⋆ all of the following may or may not be in the form of nsft stuff:

This is my personal blog !! I don't know what will be here yet !!!

⋆ ⋆ exploring gender in weird terms, such as the whole service dog thing ⋆ ⋆

⋆ ⋆ exploring familial trauma and how it effects me ⋆ ⋆

⋆ ⋆ gettin' weird with kinks!! careful of stuff like CNC, incest (faux unless writing fictionally), pet/puppy play etc., with more being added later i'm sure ⋆ ⋆

[thepervyfemme]

With Pride approaching and dumbass discourse undoubtedly to follow, lemme make a few things clear about me, as a femme and this blog!

I love he/him lesbians

I love GNC lesbians

I love studs

I love butches

I love transfem lesbians

I will use my voice ALWAYS to defend and uplift trans voices

My feminism DOES INCLUDE HEAVILY TRANS WOMEN!!!!

I’m not wlw, not all lesbians identify as women, I’m a fucking dyke!!!

[alfiebarks]

Femme is a lesbian term!!!

Femmes are protectors in this community and deserve respect and appreciation!!!

Trans femmes and butches are incredibly important in this community!!!!

[femmes4miffy]

thinking about teasing a cute butch while we watch a movie together.

i keep passing them beers and notice the more they drink the more obvious they get about staring at my tits. their face flushing when i start to put my hand on their thigh.

i notice their breath catch when i make eye contact. i ask how long they’ve been starting at my tits. they pathetically defend themselves saying they would never look at me like that. but i’m climbing into their lap, tits directly in front of them now. making them tell me how long they’ve been staring and once they answer i’d put their hand on my chest and tell them how much of a good boy they are for me.

[alfiebarks]

Lesbians really can't have anything, including their own identities.

Femme is a lesbian exclusive term. If you find yourself wanting to use femme, ask yourself if you also want to use the term dyke for yourself. Ask yourself what butch means to you.

[amiyayuri]

mmm Good Girl~

@3xsth

[sapphicvibesclub]

Lesbian bar graffiti 🏳️‍🌈♀️♀️💯👩‍❤️‍👩🇨🇦👍

[lovedroughtfemme]

leaving lipstick marks all over a butches face and biceps and collarbone and breasts and stomach and back and

[alfiebarks]

Anyone fuck with stinky little boy butches?

Butches who giggle and bring you frogs when you're out on walks? Butches who lick your face to win an argument (and start another one)? Butches with bandaids and bruises from silly carelessness? Butches who fake wrestle with you and act like they're dying when you fake hit back (to let you fake win, of course)? Butches who got their boyhood stolen from them and feel safe enough around you to experience it?

[alfiebarks]

Caught tadpoles and chased my femme with tadpole hands today :)

[gh0stinangels]

and for the lady, perhaps a clingy butch ?

[alfiebarks]

Anyone fuck with stinky little boy butches?

Butches who giggle and bring you frogs when you're out on walks? Butches who lick your face to win an argument (and start another one)? Butches with bandaids and bruises from silly carelessness? Butches who fake wrestle with you and act like they're dying when you fake hit back (to let you fake win, of course)? Butches who got their boyhood stolen from them and feel safe enough around you to experience it?

[uncoolfemme]

[sugarxberry]

femme and butch are lesbian-specific identities!!!! no, you can't use them if you're bi/pan/etc etc!!!!!!!! idc the reasoning

and while we're at it, he/him lesbians are still lesbians!!!! transmasc lesbians are still lesbians!!!! butch ≠ masc but a butch can be masc!!!! you CANNOT be a lesbian if you're attracted to men!!!! lesbian erasure IS real, and i'm sick of people claiming the label that does not belong to them!!!!!

[anotherprettyfemme]

you’re always the one carrying things. swallowing your feelings calm and unsweetened because somewhere along the way the world decided butches are only lovable when they’re useful.

but i think there is something so sacred about being delicate with you.

holding your face softly when you’re too tired to pretend you’re unbreakable. brushing my thumbs reverently over the marks life has left on your skin. kissing the space between your brows after a long day and watching the way you relax, just a fraction.

reminding you that you don’t have to perform strength every second to deserve love. comfort.

i want butches to be held without having to ask. i want them to be cherished without earning it first.

because my darling, there is a tenderness buried inside you that survival taught you to hide.

love them carefully enough that they remember it’s safe to let it live again.

[tarotdaddy3-deactivated20230913]

Foreplay isn't "let me get you wet enough to stick it in you", it's "let me get you so worked up and horny you're practically begging me to stick it in". Big. Big. Difference.

[butchybf]

femmes who are possessive. femmes who leave hickeys down your neck, all over your stomach and chest and thighs, who scratch down your back and chest with the intent to mark you, femmes who bite you and the mark is there for hours after. femmes who leave lipstick stains on your throat and cheeks, who make sure you smell like their perfume, who make sure everyone knows you're theirs

[sugarxberry]

sweaty butch lesbians ❤️❤️❤️❤️ butch lesbians in tanktops ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ butch lesbians that let me pull them around by their belt loops ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ butch lesbians ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[alfiebarks]

Listen. I need more butches in their 20's to work at their small town gas station. I need you to be a good influence on the preteen boys that come in for snacks. I need you to talk to the guys our age going fishing on the weekend. I need you to listen to these girls talk about their shitty boyfriends. I need you to learn the names of the older people that blow their money on lotto. I need you to be a good influence, positive representation and build community with these people. You need it too. Trust me.