[sparklepuppy96]

Ok freaks and weirdos, dykes and fags, animals and entities, I think it's time to come back to my main and rebrand* and be insane online again

*I'm a system lol

Pinned post moment

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[n0cnimura]

[falinbait]

ID: sharpie on a red painted wall "no woman is free until trans women are free"

[avakynx]

Looking for a late-night snack | はたや

[nehad100]

💔 Every night, we close our children's eyes hoping they will make it safely through until morning... but the unbearable heat, insects, rodents, and fear never leave our tent.

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🙏 If our story reaches your heart, please don't scroll past. Even the smallest donation can provide food, medicine, or a little safety for our family.

🤍 Please help our family survive. And if you can't donate, sharing our story could reach someone who can.

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[chingaderita]

This pride month our daughter experienced her first transmisogyny

Our last post isn't moving

We had to spend many days in a hotel room after grandpa tried to force a haircut on our daughter because she is trans, she needs a new haircut to fix what he did to her.

On top of that weather has been shit, we keep getting blackouts and low voltage, our connection has been unreliable, we also have had our water supply cut alongside many other people in the neighborhood, the water company swears supply will be up shortly but we've been like this for over a week.

The blackouts spoiled our food and insulin, we need help getting insulin while we file for a refill with their healthcare.

We also want help being safe at home, grandpa is willing to go visit his siblings in back on his home town, don't see it as helping a transphobic man, more like helping a trans family feel safe for a while.

Our trans son has missed his last two weekly T shots, it is pride month, he shouldn't be depressed and spiraling due to dysphoria, please, help him.

And the mold is coming back full force due to the constant rains and humidity.

My partner is recovering from an ankle injury after his dad pulled his cane from him during an argument and my mother in law's sciatica and disc pain has been horrible, she needs to go to her doctor.

Im ashamed to say we're still unemployed, we do have a new student but our connection has been so unreliable i can't be sure to give a proper class if this continues.

Please consider helping us, maybe check the stuff we need on throne like some phones or the Ensure suplements, or the cart so we can carry water easier.

And my healthcare renewal notice came in, I need $138 to keep my healthcare please 🙇

Really, anything helps please please PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE

$100/$800

Paypal kofi throne

Please at the very least help us reblog?

[chingaderita]

we're back home but have had no peace since we arrived, everything is falling apart, we can pay rent but there's so much to do, so much to clean and grandpa is still being the biggest threat in this house even with the full room of black mold and rust

i cant even open the laptop without him trying to smash it shut so "my lazy ass" can get to cleaning and "being useful"

we need help affording some stuff to be safer here like affording a couple of doors so we can hide from him and such, we know it's not the perfect plan but we can't just throw a disabled elderly man to the streets even if we hate him

please anything helps 🙇

[chingaderita]

CAN'T MAKE NEW POST WE HAVE SO MUCH IN OUR HANDS BUT WE NEED LIKE $350 TO MAKE SURE MY IN-LAWS ARE SAFE AND NO LONGER A DANGER FOR OUR TRANS KIDS AND MYSELF.

$0/$350

Check our throne, we need almost everything from our diabetics, chronic pain and hygiene list please!!!!

[chingaderita]

My friend and mutual is offering commissions to help us out, be sure to check them out!!!

[chingaderita]

just a few hours ago our daughter peed blood so any help getting her to a doctor would be very very VERY appreciated, thank you

[chingaderita]

This pride month our daughter experienced her first transmisogyny

Our last post isn't moving

We had to spend many days in a hotel room after grandpa tried to force a haircut on our daughter because she is trans, she needs a new haircut to fix what he did to her.

On top of that weather has been shit, we keep getting blackouts and low voltage, our connection has been unreliable, we also have had our water supply cut alongside many other people in the neighborhood, the water company swears supply will be up shortly but we've been like this for over a week.

The blackouts spoiled our food and insulin, we need help getting insulin while we file for a refill with their healthcare.

We also want help being safe at home, grandpa is willing to go visit his siblings in back on his home town, don't see it as helping a transphobic man, more like helping a trans family feel safe for a while.

Our trans son has missed his last two weekly T shots, it is pride month, he shouldn't be depressed and spiraling due to dysphoria, please, help him.

And the mold is coming back full force due to the constant rains and humidity.

My partner is recovering from an ankle injury after his dad pulled his cane from him during an argument and my mother in law's sciatica and disc pain has been horrible, she needs to go to her doctor.

Im ashamed to say we're still unemployed, we do have a new student but our connection has been so unreliable i can't be sure to give a proper class if this continues.

Please consider helping us, maybe check the stuff we need on throne like some phones or the Ensure suplements, or the cart so we can carry water easier.

And my healthcare renewal notice came in, I need $138 to keep my healthcare please 🙇

Really, anything helps please please PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE

$100/$800

Paypal kofi throne

Please at the very least help us reblog?

[chingaderita]

we're back home but have had no peace since we arrived, everything is falling apart, we can pay rent but there's so much to do, so much to clean and grandpa is still being the biggest threat in this house even with the full room of black mold and rust

i cant even open the laptop without him trying to smash it shut so "my lazy ass" can get to cleaning and "being useful"

we need help affording some stuff to be safer here like affording a couple of doors so we can hide from him and such, we know it's not the perfect plan but we can't just throw a disabled elderly man to the streets even if we hate him

please anything helps 🙇

[ruekastitch]

Black Miku

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Black Miku

[ruekastitch]

Black Miku

[communist-hatsunemiku]

SairamGtzArt

[lilmamabeyellin]

[slaggaslime-deactivated20240320]

Bro hopped out the whip 😂

[sexhaver]

is

is this a fucking leekspin remix

[sailatina3]

@communist-hatsunemiku

[ir-dr]

Day 3832 - 29 June 2026

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[communist-hatsunemiku]

Required Viewing For All Followers, No Exceptions

Once you've watched the above, your next assignment: peruse Hatsune Miku art.

Then! Listen to Miku Miku Music!

Support me and my transition!

DIY HRT

[aubryjoi]

Being perfect is overrated 🫶

Ditto’s transformations are a little messy, but that doesn’t stop us from loving them - so why should it stop you from embracing your own imperfections? 😌

[heat--end]

i haaaate being avoidant. it makes you feel like the world's biggest jackass whenever someone tries to talk to you or whatever and you just Freeze Up

[heat--end]

Oh sorry i took a long ass time to reply and didnt say anything. I got arbitrarily scared and tired myself out so now i cant say much. Oopsie teehee. it makes you feel like a huge dickhead

[aleshakills]

So on my posts about racism or transmisogyny, I often see tags that basically say “I don’t understand this but I’m going to reblog it anyway.” If you see a “social justice” type post that you want to reblog but don’t understand?

Don’t.

I know this goes against everything you’re used to hearing on this website, but listen. Reblogging posts you don’t understand is basically the equivalent of blindly repeating whatever you’re told. Even if you’re right, if you don’t understand why you’re right, you could be spouting utter bullshit and you wouldn’t even know it.

When I see “I don’t know what this means but I’m gonna reblog it anyway” it sends a lot of messages. It says that you care more about seeming right than being right. It says that you want good ally credit without any of the work of being a good ally. It says you’re on my side because I can make a post sound good, not because you actually agree with me on anything beyond the surface level.

So instead of just reblogging that post, save it for later. Like it, draft it, bookmark it, whatever. Go to the op’s blog and skim through a couple of pages, see if you can find some context. If the post is old, you could try asking for context in a non-condescending way. “Is this post referring to something specific?” is a lot better than, say, “Does this even happen? I’ve never heard of this.”

If that doesn’t help, do some more research. Google, search tumblr tags for recent posts on a subject, ask people who have EXPLICITLY stated they are willing to educate. Maybe in the process you’ll find more posts with a similar message to the original, but in easier to understand language. Maybe someone else already added a reply that adds useful information onto the op.

And maybe all of that takes a long time. Maybe, by the time you finally understand what the post was talking about, it’s months old and no longer relevant. Maybe you don’t even want to reblog it anymore. Who cares, fuck that post. You learned and grew as a person. That’s more important than looking good on a blog.

[genderkoolaid]

saw a woman talking about how betrayed she felt by her female gyno who really hurt her during a pap smear & claimed the cervix has no nerve endings. & i really do feel for her but also I think this is the problem with people only viewing medical bigotry and abuse as a problem that is the byproduct of other forms of bigotry & not tied to how the medical establishment works inherently.

it's not just "that doctor has internalized misogyny" it's that western medicine is, as in so many parts of our culture, deeply authoritarian. the patient is meant to be a passive problem to be solved by the active doctor. there is meant to be a stark harsh line between you and the doctor, where you are pure of any medical knowledge and simply report the raw data & let the doctor interpret it. this is how the system works. it fucks over marginalized groups the most because that's how marginalization works, but even a thin white abled cis man could get fucked over by this shit if he's unlucky.

female doctors will not save us! trans doctors will not save us! doctors of color will not save us! these are all GOOD things and we DO need more representation in the medical field, it DOES help. but it will not save us. the same goes with teaching as well frankly. these issues cannot be reduced down to simply getting more people from columns B C and D into the same fucked system. nothing can make up for the societal change of heart we really need.

[mackerelgray]

#I'm biased because i work primarily with residents #but i really do think changing the culture of residency is the key to changing so many problems in medicine #if you're expected to work to the point and past exhaustion you're going to expect your patients to tough it out #if you're expected to treat your attending as an unquestionable authority then you're going to expect your patients to treat you that way #diversity is not going to fix the issue that doctors have to endure legitimate trauma to get their license #and are also discouraged from getting therapy for that trauma for fear of losing that license which absolutely happens #the fact that therapy is discouraged and can risk your job rather than MANDATORY for physicians is so backwards #i know what viewing all those pathology images did to me i can't even imagine what that does to someone working in clinical care #i think the way doctors behave make more sense if you realize that every single one of them has unprocessed trauma

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[draggomon]

Long rant incoming

I've worked medical for over a decade (10 years as OR Attendant, 4 years as Anesthesia Supply Tech, 3 years BHA)

I agree fully with the above post that so much of what makes medical terrible is the fact that patients are seen problems to be solved and that if your problem isn't easily solved it's because YOU, THE PATIENT, have fucked up in some way.

The constant assumption that if you can't be "cured" it's because you're actually just lying and it's not really that bad.

The constant assumption that if you aren't cis, het, and white then the medical workers have to be on egg shells around you or risk a lawsuit.

The constant attempts to just speak at the patient and expect that patient to believe, understand, and go along with everything you say.

This all comes down to a fundemental interpretation of the medical team being at odds with the patient.

Good medical care, the medical care we should be expecting and moving towards, is always going to be collaborative. A patient is a PART of the care team, always.

I've had patients tell me things that they never would have told the Dr. just because I sat with them for a bit and let them be very vulnerable about their thoughts and ideas.

I've had small break throughs with some of my psych patients where they literally just told me "I think it might be X based on what I read online." and we discussed why they think this and what exploring this possability would look like for them. "Yes, I can see where you're coming from. Let's explore that together and create a care plan and see what happens. Worst case scenario, we get some data to use together."

I have a lot more to say, especially on the topic of "fixing" people but that is an even longer rant and goes into ethics, a bunch of different isms, and the entire system as a whole viewing certain bodies as correct over other ones.