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[alloculture]

Isso é um milagre??? Um br no tumblr???????

oi!!!!!!!!!!!!100% milagre, cai do ceu direto na internet

[alloculture]

você é br? eu vi seu nome e suspeitei que sim

100% brnasci em brasilia :v

[marxpussy-deactivated20180726]

200 notes and I’ll buy this horrible horrible tank top

[3000s]

this is the mood for 2018

[yeehawz]

[the-radical-inclusionist-deacti]

A black, asexual, cis heteroromantic woman– ace because she survived rape– shows up in a queer safe space because she feels unsafe elsewhere.

Aphobic Reactionaries: Get out of here you homophobic, transphobic scum!!! You’re trying to colonize our spaces!! You’re trying to desexualize us!! YOU’RE OPPRESSING US!!!

[sobercommunist]

why do you guys always try to bring up a hypothetical ace who looks like that (i.e. black, female, rape survivor) when the real figureheads of your entire movement are david jay and julie decker (i.e. white, straight, not rape survivors)– oh right, it’s because you’re all idiots who can’t even engage with your own history, let alone the history of the LGBT coalition.

but aside from that– what safe space is this woman trying to access? a support group for female rape survivors at a big city LGBT center? is she browsing the self-help section at one of the few remaining LGBT bookstores? attending an anorexic-focused meeting of SLAA marked LGBT-friendly? hanging out at the castro country club and having a latte by herself?

look, you could only bring up this hypothetical if you are totally unfamiliar with how these spaces work in real life! there is no gatekeeping that happens! there are no “GayIDs” and no one to check them! an ace dude could show up to my weekly A.A. meeting for HIV+ gay men and everybody would just assume that he’s gay and HIV+, because why else would he be there? an ace woman attending a support group for lesbian survivors of rape will be assumed to be a lesbian survivor of rape!

and when they inevitably get up and clarify that they are not those things, the response will be “well… ok, then why are you here?” with an undercurrent of “this person is probably closeted” because these groups are almost totally self-selecting. this fear you idiots have of being chased out of real-world spaces is a self-indulgent persecution fantasy.

what people like me are doing is ASKING you not to come to our spaces because they are not for you, because we otherwise have NO MECHANISMS FOR EXCLUDING YOU. fuck, we can’t even keep literal straight people from celebrating their marriages at our bars!

[catandkitty]

it is so painfully, excruciatingly obvious that they mean ‘high school or college GSAs’ when they say “safe space,” like, how are you supposed to have this conversation with someone who has literally zero life experience except being a shitty sheltered teenager slowly realizing the world doesn’t revolve around them?

[halfhardtorock]

Also i just want to say when people have revealed themselves to be straight/cis in lgbt groups that are there specifically to support marginalized people who have no where else to go, there is a quiet sense of betrayal. You were privy to very vulnerable conversations and truths and highly personal stories under the assumption that you had some kind of common experience or at least a shared cultural literacy or your own experience of the same social vulnerability. You are making everyone feel endangered by your voyeurism.

And im glad the above comment brought up AA because AA has specific closed meetings that mean “if you’re not an alcoholic, don’t attend.” Which is highly important to protect the anonymity and wellbeing of alcoholics in vulnerable positions of recovery and honesty from outsiders who don’t understand or aren’t sharing the same vulnerability and risk of honesty and exposure. That’s just…expected in many aa circles. Yet lgbt people are “gate keeping” for wanting to retain safe closed groups. ?????

[pro-gay-deactivated20170112]

I’m Gay

[whippedcreamtitties23]

I’m A Lesbian

[pro-gay-deactivated20170112]

[daovihi]

I’m bisexual

[pro-gay-deactivated20170112]

[maniacalwalrus-deactivated20160]

i’m trans

[pro-gay-deactivated20170112]

[ask-desperately-laurens]

Im Asexual.

[ask-henriette-lafayette]

[reallychico]

I’m not sure yet

[ask-henriette-lafayette]

it’s ok!

[wizardgender]

a wholesome post

[cadmium-deactivated20240118]

i love how after “i’m asexual” op stopped replying and instead it’s some other mogai blogger with a hyphenated url

[pro-gay-deactivated20170112]

[godkincourse]

Another Survey?

Yes, another survey, again, I have no excuses I am gay and curious. I present to you The Exclusionist Survey™

Why? The exclusionist community is large and diverse, but we know little more about our demographics. The Survey has for goal to bring light to who we are exactly as a group, both in identity and in beliefs.

To take the Survey, you must be an ace exclusionist and you must be honest with your answers.

The Survey is entirely anonymous, a google login is only required to avoid spammers and to allow you to edit your answers later, no email address is being saved, you do not have to fear being outed as anything by answering honestly.

Take the Survey here

(Alternative link)

Thank you for your time and patience, any questions and comments can be directed here, and expect updates here.

[lotusthrower]

if you’re an woman who loves getting sexually harassed because you’re not asexual YOU ✨ ARE ✨ VALID ✨

[discourseful]

If you are not a female, how can you be a lesbian?

followers: hit me with your favorite flower! i love yarrow and calendula

[alloculture]

my faves are plumerias! therye cute and small and smell great.

[discourseful]

okay now that we’ve all agreed that soup is lesbian culture: let’s get y'all’s opinion on coffee. what’s your favorite way to drink coffee

[waifofarrakis]

I like a little bit of coffee with my cream. And I mean cream, not creamer. My fave brand is the stumptown roasters, which is a Portland, Or based brand. They’re pricey but so worth. My favorite blends of theirs are the summatra and etheopian ones.

Sugar isn’t as big of a deal for me. Like, some sugar is good but where it’s really at is the cream. Milk wont work unless it’s heated up first, otherwise it just makes my coffee cold. That said, I’m a sucker for lattes, but less so breves. (breves are a latte but instead of steamed milk it’s steamed cream, in case anyone didn’t know)

[discourseful]

ethiopian coffee is SO good. i work at a roastery and it’s always the best coffee. i usually drink it black if it’s coffee from where i work bc it’s pretty high quality and doesn’t really need anything (unless it’s a darker roast but i don’t like those usually)

otherwise i like a little cream or ive been into espressos lately but i can’t make them at home so i Suffer

[alloculture]

i like brazilian coffee, its actually drinkable w no milk n a lil of sugar. freshly brewed coffee is good i never get that anymore so i just drink whatevers the sweetest.i fuckn love fraps

[discourseful]

i haven’t gotten to try brazilian coffee yet! peru is really nice too bc it’s super smooth and not acidic at all

i hate starbucks but also… would kill a man for a frap

[alloculture]

imlo(in my lesbian opinion): mcdonalds caramel frappe>starbucks

[discourseful]

okay now that we’ve all agreed that soup is lesbian culture: let’s get y'all’s opinion on coffee. what’s your favorite way to drink coffee

[waifofarrakis]

I like a little bit of coffee with my cream. And I mean cream, not creamer. My fave brand is the stumptown roasters, which is a Portland, Or based brand. They’re pricey but so worth. My favorite blends of theirs are the summatra and etheopian ones.

Sugar isn’t as big of a deal for me. Like, some sugar is good but where it’s really at is the cream. Milk wont work unless it’s heated up first, otherwise it just makes my coffee cold. That said, I’m a sucker for lattes, but less so breves. (breves are a latte but instead of steamed milk it’s steamed cream, in case anyone didn’t know)

[discourseful]

ethiopian coffee is SO good. i work at a roastery and it’s always the best coffee. i usually drink it black if it’s coffee from where i work bc it’s pretty high quality and doesn’t really need anything (unless it’s a darker roast but i don’t like those usually)

otherwise i like a little cream or ive been into espressos lately but i can’t make them at home so i Suffer

[alloculture]

i like brazilian coffee, its actually drinkable w no milk n a lil of sugar. freshly brewed coffee is good i never get that anymore so i just drink whatevers the sweetest.i fuckn love fraps

[turbo-virgins]

if you’re an inclusionist, esp if you’re under 18, don’t associate with/reblog from @youareagoodperson. 

tw for incest, pedophilia, and abuse mentions + ableist language

she supports shipping incest, pedohilia, abuse, and believes shipping those things isn’t normalizing that kind of content/doesn’t have an effect on people (x), agrees that antis secretly get off to the material they openly dismiss (x) which is extremely disgusting since most antis are minors, and also agrees with antis being “sociopathic monsters” (x). her whole blog is disgusting. make sure you block her and call her out. it doesn’t matter what your stance on acecourse is, she isn’t safe for anyone to be around especially if you’re a minor. 

[homoelitism-archive-blog]

Im a reg (really emotional gay). Reblog if you’re also a reg

[corvidkusnos]

As much as I like the non-binary flag I’d prefer it if people could just remember that the white part of the trans flag represents non-binary people and stop treating people who don’t fit the gender binary as “less tans” than binary trans people

[corvidkusnos]

Lots of non-binary people have felt worried about if they’re allowed to call themselves trans, or if they’re “trans enough” to use the trans flag or join in during trans events like trans visibility days without even knowing that the white stripe on the trans flag is for us non-binary/genderqueer/genderfluid/agender/intersex/etc folk. I feel like it is important that the white stripe is recognised because currently so many people who don’t fit the gender binary feel less valid as trans people than binary trans people.

[surveyremade-blog]

survey

because That one survey is full of questions that have you scratching your head for 10 minutes guessing what OP meant to say and wondering whether to bother trying to answer only for the reply to be taken the wrong way, i decided to make a different survey to serve the same purpose

you can take it here and i would appreciate if it could be spread around blogs on both sides, because the first survey also doesn’t understand that you can’t make any conclusions from an uneven sample size

please tag some bigger bloggers to boost this!

[synqra]