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Hi my names mitzi and I sUCK

Rip all my northern/midwest followers I knew u not at all

#ill be cozy here in san diego thank u v much #ooc

One time I went out and did something fun for ME.

When I got home my mom did nothing but poke holes in it and say “this is realism mitzi”

No. Realism is not pointing out that something shouldn’t be done. Realism is saying be cautious in case things end up poorly.

Get your pressimism out of here and leave me alone. I’m trying to be optimistic about this one fun thing in my life. Let it happen.

#ooc #negativity #ugh

I’m very lonely today.

#ooc #b is at a party.#and im alone.#but i want him to have fun.#its not his choice that i dont go.#which is fine.#but i am alone.#and i have no car.#i dont want to be alone anymore

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serendipity… one horse in a field abloom lost on a back road

Photos and haiku by Amber Maitrejean

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🖤Nap time for Joaquin🖤

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My endless list of favourite horses: Rubins Nite. [Ridden by Hayley Watson-Greaves.]

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misc sentence starters

“ i wish i knew how to talk about it. ” “ you don’t have to talk, we can just sit together. ” “ i don’t want to be alone anymore. ” “ i wish i could hate you. ” “ take a seat, we’re gonna be here a while. ” “ i need you to trust me. ” “ i missed/miss you. ” “ she/he won’t listen to me. ” “ let me do this for you. please. ” “ is there anything else you want to say to me? ” “ tell me something happy. ” “ promise me. ” “ i just want/wanted to help. ” “ let me explain. ” “ i didn’t/don’t need you to understand, i just wanted/want you to support me. ” “ i’m on your side. ” “ i’ve got your back, okay? ” “ please, tell me you have a plan. ” “ stay with me tonight. ” “ don’t go. please. ” “ i’ve been alone for so long i’m afraid i don’t know what it’s like not to be. ” “ talk to me. ” “ i did what i had to do. ” “ we can’t keep going on like this. ” “ i’m just tired. ” “ i’m scared. ” “ it’s okay to be afraid. fear can be good. use it. ” “ it’s better to expect disappointment. ” “ hope is dangerous. ” “ i like seeing you smile. ” “ you look beautiful. ” “ be patient with her/him. they’re trying. ” “ i’m trying my best and it’s not good enough. it’s never good enough. ” “ i’m starting to think i’m just fucked up. ” “ have a drink with me. ” “ she/he is better off without me. but i guess that’s their choice. ” “ you can’t dictate what’s best for someone else. ” “ can i help you? ” “ i thought you’d like this. ” “ do you wanna get out of here? ” “ walk with me? ” “ well, shit. ”

#meme #queue

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we need a nintendogs app i am sick of living like this

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Winchester

June ‘14

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Can i get a step by step on how to do this?

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So far for me it’s been something like:

1. Become aware of how and when you tearing yourself down.

2. Now that you can catch yourself doing it. Offer counters to the negative self talk. A really useful thing I read was to talk to yourself almost the way you would child. Gentle and patient. Even when they fuck up.

3. Take time to celebrate your small accomplishments. You’ve been attacking yourself for every little mistake. Apply that same fervor to the positive things in your life. Did the dishes even though you didn’t want to? Fuck yeah! Got up and took shower? YES!!! You are taking positive steps to feeling better. Celebrate it.

4. Make lists of things you’re good at/ like about yourself. The first time I did this the only two things in my list we’re that I liked my hair and I had good friends. It was start.

5. Don’t beat yourself up if you screw up steps 1-4. It’s counter productive. When I catch myself calling my self stupid for some mistake or other my response now is,“We don’t talk to ourselves like that anymore. What’s something constructive that could actually help solve the problem.”

Most of the time that seems to work. Not always. But more and more Everytime.

I hope any of that made sense.

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oh my goodness there are instructions!!