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about me:

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she/her, desi

queer (aro lesbian)

this is a side blog! i wanted to yearn in private lol

all writing is mine unless otherwise specified!

feel free to submit asks + suggestions ! 💙

most of my posts are sfw but i am an adult so please keep in mind i might occasionally post sexual themes but it will always be tagged with # nsfw. please do not interact if you’re an exclusionist, aphobic, transphobic, or a terf!

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her.

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happy 6 months to me and my gf 🥰

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filled with so much appreciation for my gf today and always but especially today, because she listens to my rambling about the complex relationship between my queerness and sikhi and she also shares a queer sikhi blog she found when she was learning more about it.

to be loved is to be seen!!! :’)

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the love of your life doesn't need to be even at all romantic, just saying

[oilith]

I've been informed that romantic dating is apparently in fact, not just friendship but with making out, going on dates and shit

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[morally-earl-gray]

part of being aroace is going "we're too young to date, we're just kids" for most of your life because it was true. and then you're in high school and suddenly everyone is dating, and you're still going "we're too young to date, we're just kids". and then your classmates are fucking in the school bathrooms and your friends are coming to school covered in hickeys and your best friend has a boyfriend that she plans to marry, and you're still going "we're too young for this, we're just kids." And then you realize that you're not a kid anymore, you're not too young for this, and that you're just... different

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her.

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did i ever expect in a million years to be on the receiving end of ‘god i have seen what you have done for others’? no . no i did not . i made this blog partly to make peace with that fact

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i downloaded hinge fully believing that in order to even have a sliver of the connection I wanted I would have to sacrifice SOME integral part of myself or keep the aromantic side to myself or make peace with being settled for or settling . if you told me a year ago i would find not only a partner who accepted me, but a friend who experienced things like i did, I would’ve thought you were out of your mind.

i still don’t believe in prioritizing any sort of relationship on a hierarchy . but i am so grateful to her for giving me a chance to explore my aromantic side in this way i could only have dreamed about . and for working on a new type of relationship that’s safe, with me.

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did i ever expect in a million years to be on the receiving end of ‘god i have seen what you have done for others’? no . no i did not . i made this blog partly to make peace with that fact

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guess who matched with an aroace lesbian on hinge. THIS AROACE LESBIAN.

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okAY update: it’s going a loooot better than i imagined 😳😳

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update 2: every time i leave her place she gives me a hug so nice my bones ache afterwards.

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guess who matched with an aroace lesbian on hinge. THIS AROACE LESBIAN.

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okAY update: it’s going a loooot better than i imagined 😳😳

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life when you aren’t romantically attracted to people

[guldaastan]

let us take a moment and grieve for all the lives lost. so many thousand people have been murdered by the zionist entity in the last fifteen months. palestinians in gaza have lost too much, from friends and family to their homes and livelihood.

this ceasefire is not an end to our solidarity with gaza. we will all be here waiting and praying for palestine to be wholly liberated from the occupation and watch her people be happy and free.

in the meantime, please keep donating to palestinian fundraisers. it is essential to support families planning on rebuilding.

alaa is a mother of two young children. her fundraiser has been verified. i request you to help her by sharing and donating to her gofundme.

please donate here

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guess who matched with an aroace lesbian on hinge. THIS AROACE LESBIAN.

[stworzonka]

My experience with being oriented aroace is basically just not sexual or romantic attraction but a secret third thing but idk what the secret third thing is and tbh I don't care what it is, I just know that Women